Guest guest Posted December 19, 2001 Report Share Posted December 19, 2001 tonight when I was away the UPS box arrived with nada's presents. Nothing for me. It made me very angry to act like I don't exist. I got very mad in the kitchen when I remembered that the last time I was treated this way was when I confronted the incest uncle about his abuse of my sister and my cousin. He was a rich guy in the Philippines and he sent a set of shares in his resort to all of my siblings. Nothing to me. I knew why. Today Megatron the Grinch sent very Waif/Queen presents. To my 16 year old she sent photo album with pictures of trips we all had taken together with a mushy, I will love you always, as I always have. This made my daughter very uncomfortable. Since they saw the presents I told them to go ahead and open them and they did so we could " de-activate " them in time for Christmas. She had a very mushy note for my 10 year old. Made the kids ill at ease, and they said they didn't want to thank her. I'm going to acknowledge the presents and set the boundary. Nada goes out of her way to show me how little I matter. It hurts but I'm walking away from the past, I see very clearly that there is no shame in my sister's victimization, the shame is on the perpetrator. I should have no shame for being the innocent child I was, the shame is on the violent child abusing nada. Kathlenn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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