Guest guest Posted January 14, 2008 Report Share Posted January 14, 2008 Good Morning. I am a 64 year old woman, married for almost 8 years now. I was widowed; he had never married. Our relationship has deteriorated over the course of our marriage rather than growing. At first, when things began to go sour, I thought he was being selfish and self-centered. It turns out he was! But not because he had come to dislike me; because he has AS. I am not going to indulge in a laundry list of complaints at this point. Mostly it won't do any good and you've heard them all or felt them all yourselves, I am sure. What I hope to get from this list is coping mechanisms; suggestions for surviving. For a variety of reasons, mostly having to do with my very poor health and our fragile finances, leaving is not an option. But staying with the way things are is getting to be less and less an option also. So I hope there are techniques we can share as we get to know each other that will help me live with this difficult but interesting man. Shoshana -- Life is what happens to you; living is how you manage it. read about our adventures at www.justjosmidden.blogspot.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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