Jump to content
RemedySpot.com

yous AS.

Rate this topic


Guest guest

Recommended Posts

some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??>

Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try

it now.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >>

Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah,

you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on

issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now.

Sent from Yahoo! Mail.

A Smarter Inbox.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS.

how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah,

you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that,

everyone - I do get passionate on

issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now.

Sent from Yahoo! Mail.

A Smarter Inbox.

Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Ian says: A 'tantrum' of Aspies .......he said it, not me..... Judy BIslah Umar wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may

seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I'm from the Philadelphia are and we use the word yous all the time. I didn't take offense to it I thought it was meant to be plural of you. Like "What are yous doing". Like a group of people but not in a derrogatory nature. I can see where it could be taken literally. Just my two cents...JUDY BARROW wrote: Ian says: A 'tantrum' of Aspies .......he said it, not me..... Judy BIslah Umar <ummeee1952> wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of

Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other

party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I got this (T think): A stim of ASpies AS, and we will rock you!stephanie muska wrote: I'm from the Philadelphia are and we use the word yous all the time. I didn't take offense to it I thought it was meant to be plural of you. Like "What are yous doing". Like a group of people but not in a derrogatory nature. I can see where it could be taken literally. Just my two cents...JUDY BARROW

<judy.barrowbtopenworld> wrote: Ian says: A 'tantrum' of Aspies .......he said it, not me..... Judy BIslah Umar <ummeee1952> wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re:

yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a

parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Typos corrected! I will type correctly I will type correctly (rock) I will type correctly I will type correctly (rock)... LOL!Princess wrote: I got this (I think): A stim of ASpies AS, and we will rock you! .

Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Tim, Great to see this in print. I must admit that I have felt that way a lot, when someone was asserting a fact based on empty authority, and i knew the claim was incorrect. It is only in the last few days that I have learned that the NTs around me often get fooled and do not believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming something that is incorrect. I have had tl learn that the hidden curriculum for a child or even a teen is so different from what it is for me as a mature adult with a PhD-- that finally, if I do it at all reasonably-- I can share when things are simply wrong, and be effective at presaging. On the other hand, there are plenty of times when ASpies are not presagers at all-- I only do it when needed, and when there is nobody else to do it effectively. I am learning how to

correct someone without being abrasive, so that I can warn someone effectively when something he or she is about to do will not yield good results- and try to make the person not feel stupid in the process. I need practice, practice, practice! Tim Channon wrote: We are presagers.http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/presagers

Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Princess wrote:

> Tim,

>

> Great to see this in print.

Very strange that it is the only significant anagram of aspergers.

I love strangeness, peculiar co-incidences.

I must admit that I have felt that way a

> lot, when someone was asserting a fact based on empty authority, and

> i knew the claim was incorrect. It is only in the last few days that

> I have learned that the NTs around me often get fooled and do not

> believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct

> to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming

> something that is incorrect. I have had tl learn that the hidden

> curriculum for a child or even a teen is so different from what it is

> for me as a mature adult with a PhD-- that finally, if I do it at all

> reasonably-- I can share when things are simply wrong, and be

> effective at presaging. On the other hand, there are plenty of times

> when ASpies are not presagers at all-- I only do it when needed, and

> when there is nobody else to do it effectively.

Roughly speaking an ability to independence of thought is the stuff of

pushing what is really so forwards.

> I am learning how to correct someone without being abrasive, so that

> I can warn someone effectively when something he or she is about to

> do will not yield good results- and try to make the person not feel

> stupid in the process. I need practice, practice, practice!

That is a trick where I wish I knew all the answers. Perhaps the reality

is that with some people you can, but others it is impossible.

Dissonance enters strongly into this.

The name is I suppose, diplomacy.

How was say North Korea turned? I think there is a great deal kept

secret. Guns blazing into Iraq, bad. The Balkans, seems fairly

successful. It is everywhere.

I seem to recall reading somewhere that highly skilled aspergers are

very good negotiators, can read others but cannot be read. We are

manipulative?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Tim Channon wrote: tim said: I seem to recall reading somewhere that highly skilled aspergers arevery good negotiators, can read others but cannot be read. We are manipulative? me here: always wondered, the same people who win the world poker playing championships, every year same 5 or 6 people. luck? unlikely.....there must be a skill related to knowing your hand, knowing what the odds of beating that hand

is....and as most skilled poker players will say...you play the man, not the cards? are they Aspergians? ability to read a tell and remain cool will look closer next time. 36 m diagnosed AS never played poker but always wondered.

Rise to the challenge for Sport Relief with Yahoo! for Good

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

In my opinion, I think it is a mistake to assume that "the NTs around me often get fooled and do not> believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct> to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming> something that is incorrect."Here is an example of an NT not believing the status quo you have put forth here.   I understand this is just your opinion, but I beleive it is flawed and may lead you into dificulties if you judge all NTs this way.   I also think your statement about learning to be less abrasive is more useful in social relationships.  jkz NT who questions authority regularlyPrincess wrote:> Tim,> > Great to see this in print. Very strange that it is the only significant anagram of aspergers.I love strangeness, peculiar co-incidences.I must admit that I have felt that way a> lot, when someone was asserting a fact based on empty authority, and> i knew the claim was incorrect. It is only in the last few days that> I have learned that the NTs around me often get fooled and do not> believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct> to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming> something that is incorrect. I have had tl learn that the hidden> curriculum for a child or even a teen is so different from what it is> for me as a mature adult with a PhD-- that finally, if I do it at all> reasonably-- I can share when things are simply wrong, and be> effective at presaging. On the other hand, there are plenty of times> when ASpies are not presagers at all-- I only do it when needed, and> when there is nobody else to do it effectively.Roughly speaking an ability to independence of thought is the stuff of pushing what is really so forwards.> I am learning how to correct someone without being abrasive, so that> I can warn someone effectively when something he or she is about to> do will not yield good results- and try to make the person not feel> stupid in the process. I need practice, practice, practice!That is a trick where I wish I knew all the answers. Perhaps the reality is that with some people you can, but others it is impossible. Dissonance enters strongly into this.The name is I suppose, diplomacy.How was say North Korea turned? I think there is a great deal kept secret. Guns blazing into Iraq, bad. The Balkans, seems fairly successful. It is everywhere.I seem to recall reading somewhere that highly skilled aspergers arevery good negotiators, can read others but cannot be read. We are manipulative?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Janet, I did not mean to offend you (I am not sure if you took any offrense or not). I know that some NTs question authority, but then, you know how to convey that. I was referring to the kind of situations I got into, where I was the only one questioning authority, I could see the logical errors involved, and I was not allowed to say anything- so I thought- because I believed that it was not PC to tell the truth in these situations. I am now learning that this certrainly does not appear to cover the majority of errors. I will try to post an example or two. In the situations I was dealing with, had there been an NT who spoke up (which does happen-- I am not implying that all NTs always get fooled), I would have been able to let that person state the case, and just back him or her up. It would have been easier. I know that volatile topics like poplitics can be

completely different: I am referring to the kind of thing like an assertion that something will not work, or a certain thing will always work (when I see things that can easily go wrong). Thanks for any clarifications. Janet Zimmerman wrote: In my opinion, I think it is a mistake to assume that "the NTs around me often get fooled and do

not > believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct> to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming > something that is incorrect." Here is an example of an NT not believing the status quo you have put forth here. I understand this is just your opinion, but I beleive it is flawed and may lead you into dificulties if you judge all NTs this way. I also think your statement about learning to be less abrasive is more useful in social relationships. jkz NT who questions authority regularly On Mar 1, 2008, at 8:41 AM, Tim

Channon wrote: Princess wrote:> Tim,> > Great to see this in print. Very strange that it is the only significant anagram of aspergers.I love strangeness, peculiar co-incidences.I must admit that I have felt that way a> lot, when someone was asserting a fact based on empty authority, and> i knew the claim was incorrect. It is only in the last few days that>

I have learned that the NTs around me often get fooled and do not> believe me, as opposed to just thinking that it is socially correct> to say they believe a lie because one with authority is claiming> something that is incorrect. I have had tl learn that the hidden> curriculum for a child or even a teen is so different from what it is> for me as a mature adult with a PhD-- that finally, if I do it at all> reasonably-- I can share when things are simply wrong, and be> effective at presaging. On the other hand, there are plenty of times> when ASpies are not presagers at all-- I only do it when needed, and> when there is nobody else to do it effectively.Roughly speaking an ability to independence of thought is the stuff of pushing what is really so forwards.> I am learning how to correct someone without being abrasive, so that> I can warn

someone effectively when something he or she is about to> do will not yield good results- and try to make the person not feel> stupid in the process. I need practice, practice, practice!That is a trick where I wish I knew all the answers. Perhaps the reality is that with some people you can, but others it is impossible. Dissonance enters strongly into this.The name is I suppose, diplomacy.How was say North Korea turned? I think there is a great deal kept secret. Guns blazing into Iraq, bad. The Balkans, seems fairly successful. It is everywhere.I seem to recall reading somewhere that highly skilled aspergers arevery good negotiators, can read others but cannot be read. We are manipulative?

Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Houris, Some of us do not need to get stoned! In my case, it might permanently change my wiring, and interfere with my long-term memory, since I have synesthesia and rely on it as a memory aid. My whole world is in color all the time. Of course, we may act stoned... Islah Umar wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey

<daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

Houris, Judy, , and everyone, Come to think of it, how would one dscrribe a whole lot of NT? Perhaps, a coherence of NTs? Princess wrote: Islah Umar <ummeee1952> wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey

<daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how> or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now.

Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest guest

I like it! Judy BPrincess wrote: Houris, Judy, , and everyone, Come to think of it, how would one dscrribe a whole lot of NT? Perhaps, a coherence of NTs? Princess <creativelywired> wrote: Islah Umar <ummeee1952>

wrote: Hellohow about "stoned aspergian"?houris, NT Re: yous AS. how about a kitchen of aspies? JUDY BARROW <judy.barrow@ btopenworld. com> wrote: a MUTTER of Aspies? or a PACING of Aspies? Judy B, listening to Ian resolving everything under his breath whilst pacing in the kitchen david bailey <daysbaysyahoo (DOT) co.uk> wrote: some dislike being called aspies, some ask to be called apsergians, yeah, you AS people can seem odd, but to give benefit of the doubt, it may seem that the person asking doesnt know how to ask a group of AS. for example a grouping of owls is called a parliament. a grouping of starlings is called a murmuring. a grouping of irish in the back of a police van is called a paddy wagon. a group of israelis is called a kibbutz? so what do we called ourselves? you aspies seems to be

the accepted non inflammatory term adapted. 36 m diagnosed AS <msrpsilverlycos (DOT) com> wrote: I don't appreciate being stereotyped as part of "you AS people". That's just like calling someone "you n****rs" (sorry for that, everyone - I do get passionate on issues of equality). >> Do any of you AS peoples, have any issues with remorse or guilt? For> instance, if you do something (unintentionally) to an NT, what is the> level of guilt or remorse you feel?? Is it hard for you to realize how>

or why you hurt the other party??> Yahoo! Answers - Get better answers from someone who knows. Try it now. Sent from Yahoo! Mail. A Smarter Inbox. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
×
×
  • Create New...