Helen, Re: I got to thinking......

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If someone was staring at someone for 10 minutes, I'd be

thinking, " stalker " . I make eye contact with people, but I couldn't

handle staring with someone for even 10 seconds without looking

away. Ten seconds of continual contact by flirting with someone is a

huge, huge challenge for me.

Thanks for the websites, Matt. Definitely, I'll be looking at them.

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> what helped me pick up women was a book called " superflirt " , it

shows how to flirt with other people. What is most important is eyes,

tone, and body language. Lets say if the guy is starting longer than

10 seconds its good yet longer than 10 mins something is up. Best

thing to aim for is direct eye contact and smiling. I had a hard time

seperating my own friendlyness and flirting with people. When a guy

is talking to you how close is he to you when talking, how much

touching is happing.

> Here are some websites i thought could help related to that:

> http://www.onlinedatingtip.com/body_language.html

> http://www.blifaloo.com/info/mens-body-language.php

> http://www.kevinhogan.com/bodylanguage1.htm

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> Hope this helps,

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> Matt

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> Helen,

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> So question for you. One of my concerns is that even if I try to

move on from this marriage I will still be naive and stupid enough to

get suckered by the same type of person again.... I'm assuming from

all I know of you that the second time around you picked a good

guy... How did you get to that point?

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> Oh and btw everyone.... how do you know if a man is hitting on

you?

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> Jennie

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