Values...Personal & Specific

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Friends and Experts,

I sense there is a subtle piece on values that is missing from lots of the writings I have come across. That is values are always presented as a standard list that you want to choose from: loving spouse, fantastic father, great worker,........etc, etc. but any on those standard values need to be worked in a specific way to the individual to create a tailored value and the associated pain/ price for it to be obtained. Then you can get on defining goals. Most of what I read does not address this transition from the generic values list to choose from to personal and specific values before you get on with the goals...any thoughts or advice?

Thanks

ibrahim