Guest guest Posted April 9, 2006 Report Share Posted April 9, 2006 Trish, Thank you so much for your concern for me through all of this craziness! It really is wonderful to be able to share my feelings with someone who understands just how aggrivating nadas are. More than anything I hate that nada feels empowered now. Even though she really didn't win in a complete sense, to her it was a message that she is right and now she feels empowered to continue to " expose corruption " (her exact words) and keep on hounding my dad. My dad and I both know that what happened was not due to nada's cunningness, but rather an unfortunate series of events with the credit card company. She doesn't know that though. I have not given her the gifts that I bought for her at x-mas b/c of the same message. If I were to give them it would mean that she was right that I was mean to her by standing up for myself. I am not about to let ther have that haughtiness and empower her to trample on me. No way! Anywho, thank you again for supporting me. Adria tlblack2006 wrote: Adria, I would be ranting too. It's terrible and it's not fair. Just to be sure I made myself clear, I don't think that a decision against you in court should be taken as a sign that your nada was right or even that the judge things she was right. It sounds like the credit card company screwed up and you guys got caught in a loophole. The judge can't change that unfortunately. My point is, that all the other stuff got thrown out and that eventually, she will get caught for all of this. Believe me, it feels absolutely awfull to have someone like that coming after you. She has nothing better to do, unlike the rest of us. It will be hard to deal with and it will not be fun, but I think it's possible that ultimately, all of this will come back and land on her. I'd just keep working with the lawyer, be as carefull as possible and know that people this crazy usually slip up eventually. Trish > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > New Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Call regular phones from your PC > and save big. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 10, 2006 Report Share Posted April 10, 2006 Adria, no problem. By the way, my experience with my nada is that she usually feels like she's right in the end. She takes things people say as supportive and ignores or redirects criticism no matter how directly it is addressed at her. When things don't go her way, she thinks it's someone else's fault and that she's a victim. I wouldn't loose sleep about her coming out of this thinking she's right. She's sick and she's likely to think that no matter what;) Trish > Adria, I would be ranting too. It's terrible and it's not fair. Just > to be sure I made myself clear, I don't think that a decision against > you in court should be taken as a sign that your nada was right or > even that the judge things she was right. It sounds like the credit > card company screwed up and you guys got caught in a loophole. The > judge can't change that unfortunately. My point is, that all the > other stuff got thrown out and that eventually, she will get caught > for all of this. > > Believe me, it feels absolutely awfull to have someone like that > coming after you. She has nothing better to do, unlike the rest of > us. It will be hard to deal with and it will not be fun, but I think > it's possible that ultimately, all of this will come back and land on > her. I'd just keep working with the lawyer, be as carefull as > possible and know that people this crazy usually slip up eventually. > > Trish > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > New Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Call regular phones from your PC > > and save big. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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