Re: Question??

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That makes perfect sense. Thanks for your response.

My nada has past away and I'm NC with 2 sister with BPD. I have 1

nice sister that we are there for each other and I'm lucky for that.

I have been reading all kinds of stuff about BPD and I have been

reading about what is like to have this disorder. I read articles

and letters for BPD'S themselves. It is scary! I will not excuse any

bpd's in my life for their actions, but I am baffled by how twisted

their inter core really is. I read one line that stuck with me from

a letter a BPD wrote. They consider themselves " HUMAN ENOUGH " to

interact with the human race. Does this not freak you out a bit?

I can't feel sorry for them because I was on the recieving end of

their crap, but I feel sad that anyone has to exist that way.

My theropist tells me their emotional level is between 2-6 years old.

Like a small child that can't deal or throws a fit to get there own

way, or can't handle something. A child will learn as they grow,

BPD's do not. She also tells me they are not capable of love. I do

believe that. I reasd in letters from BPD's they feel bead about

hurting the ones they love. Do not buy it. I personally don't think

they are capable of loving someone. Don't think they love themselves

either. My theropist say BPD is a combination of temperment

(personality) and enviroment. I think you're born that way and how

bad you get depends on your enviroment. I read the some of the

research and they think not only is the emotional response in the

brain wired wrong but the ability to weed out the negativity of it.

Hope I explained that right. I think BPD's can with the right kind

of help be better then they are but never fixed. Science just can't

fix the brain yet.

> >

> > If a BPD is driven by irrational behaviors-So called they can't

> > control.

> > I wonder then why is it in public the can behave? Be like

camillions?

> > If they really had NOOOOO control over all they claim they don't

> than

> > why can they pick and choose when to behave and when not to. The

> BPD's

> > in my family had pretty good control of themselves to the

outside

> > world, but were horrible around their family and close friends.

> > Please explain this to me.

> >

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