A Memo From A Child To A Parent

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<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> A Memo From A Child To A Parent

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<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't spoil me. I know quite well that

I ought not to have all I ask for, I'm only testing you.

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<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I

prefer it, it makes me feel secure.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't let me form bad habits. I have

to rely on you to detect them in a early stage.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't make me feel smaller then I am.

It only makes me behave stupidly " big "

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't correct me in front of people,

if you can help it. I`ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me

in private.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't make me feel that my mistakes

are sins. It upsets my sense of values.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't protect me from consequences. I

need to learn the painful way sometimes.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don't be too upset when I say " I hate

you " . Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power over me.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t take too much notice of my

ailments. Sometimes they get me attention I don't need.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t nag. If you do, I shall have to

protect myself by being deaf.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t forget that I cannot explain

myself as well as I should like. That's why I am not always accurate.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t put me off when I ask questions.

If you do you'll find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t be inconsistent. That completely

confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t tell me my fears are silly. They

are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to

understand.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t ever suggest that you are

perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that

your neither.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t ever think that it is beneath

your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me surprisingly

warm towards you.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t forget I love experimenting. I

couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t forget how quickly I am growing

up. It must be difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please try to.

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Don`t forget that I don't thrive

without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you that do

I?

<http://vkaisthaaseem.blogspot.com/> Please keep yourself fit and healthy.

I need you

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I was thinking , that this would also go for pets and their owners too,..

Liefs

Annemie