From a husband

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or anyone else that is going thru this,

My wife had her explant today by Dr Feng. She is actually laying

here beside me watching me write this note to you. I found this note

of interest to me because of what you said about your husband. I

found this a hard one to grasp. I am a R.N. and have never run into

anything like this before. When my wife told me about her finding, I

was less than convinced that this was the actual problem. To be

honest, I am still speculative. Here is what I do believe. In all

the postings and artilces that I have read, all the signs and

symptoms are the same, or very similar. My wife has been presenting

with all the same signs and symptoms as most people who post or that

she has spoken with. All of these persons have something in common.

They all have some sort of breast implant. I have been doing my own

research and have read articles of males that have (silicone) penile

implants starting to have the same signs and symptoms as well.

Something is wrong with this picture. Something so wrong that I have

completely drained all of our savings in order for my wife to have

the explant. I feel strongly about what I have read and the hell

that my wife has been going through. I may not have been the most

supportive husband at first, but even the most stubburn turns

sometimes. If your husband has any questions please direct him to

me. I would be happy to talk to him and hopefully answer questions

that he might have about the whole process. It is not just a matter

of explant. There is a life long healing process that will need to

be addressed. He will need to be " on board " in order to help you

through this. I couldn't imagine my wife trying to do this on her

own. You are going to need his support and the support of all that

surround you. My heart goes out to you and all people having to deal

with this. Please keep in touch.

Karl