Re: haven't posted in a while-need advice

[Guest guest]

Ginger,

I think we all get down at times . . .

Since it really hasn't been that long since your

explant, I'd suggest getting a swim suit that can be

adapted to hide what isn't there, and add to what is.

I know the American Cancer Society has some excellent

suits in their catalogue . . . They're definitely on

the coverup side (no bikini's) . . . but,there are

times time when a little mystery is sexier than

showing all.

You're going to be filling out for some time yet!

Hugs,

Rogene

[Guest guest]

>

> Ginger,

>

> I think we all get down at times . . .

>

> Since it really hasn't been that long since your

> explant, I'd suggest getting a swim suit that can be

> adapted to hide what isn't there, and add to what is.

> I know the American Cancer Society has some excellent

> suits in their catalogue . . . They're definitely on

> the coverup side (no bikini's) . . . but,there are

> times time when a little mystery is sexier than

> showing all.

>

> You're going to be filling out for some time yet!

>

> Hugs,

>

> Rogene

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks for your encouragement, Rogene. You are such a dear!

How long do you think it takes to fluff? Dr. M said a year. I

haven't seen much of a difference in the last 2 months. I hope you

are feeling okay! thanks again! Ginger

>

> Ginger,

>

> I think we all get down at times . . .

>

> Since it really hasn't been that long since your

> explant, I'd suggest getting a swim suit that can be

> adapted to hide what isn't there, and add to what is.

> I know the American Cancer Society has some excellent

> suits in their catalogue . . . They're definitely on

> the coverup side (no bikini's) . . . but,there are

> times time when a little mystery is sexier than

> showing all.

>

> You're going to be filling out for some time yet!

>

> Hugs,

>

> Rogene

>

[Guest guest]

Rogene,

I Love it! " A little mystery is sexier than showing it all"!!!

Well said.

Penni

Re: haven't posted in a while-need advice

>> Ginger,> > I think we all get down at times . . . > > Since it really hasn't been that long since your> explant, I'd suggest getting a swim suit that can be> adapted to hide what isn't there, and add to what is.> I know the American Cancer Society has some excellent> suits in their catalogue . . . They're definitely on> the coverup side (no bikini's) . . . but,there are> times time when a little mystery is sexier than> showing all.> > You're going to be filling out for some time yet!> > Hugs,> > Rogene>

[Guest guest]

Ginger . . .

We're all different, so I really can't say. I do think

that one year is realistic. I've heard from the outset

that (good) doctors have told women that they would

realize they didn't need a lift if they would just

give themselves a year to heal.

I'm doing pretty good . . . Still not liking the

medication I'm taking. . . I seriously doubt that I

will continue it past the three month mark - If I make

it that long!

One day at a time! Actually I skipped the medication

today! . . . :-))

Hugs,

Rogene

[Guest guest]

HI Ginger, It is easy to feel down at this time of year, and trying on swim suits can be a real depressing experience. I found that using breast enhancers has helped me, and I've altered some of my swim suits to be more padded, and there are some very wonderful swim suits available through the net that have gel padding already in them. They are gorgeous, and yes, carry a nice price tag too. I can't remember the name of the company, but if I think of it I will post it. The other important area to work on is the internal appreciation of self, and that is vital. God loves you just the way you are....you are a beautiful person. It is important for us to realize that God looks on the heart, not the outward appearance, and what we think of each other has absolutely no bearing on our eternal destiny. It all takes much prayer and reflection, but I

can testify that it is what will endure to the end! Hugs, Pattygingeyo72 <thedford@...> wrote: Hey everyone,Spring has sprung and it is busy in our household. I haven't posted in a while and after the day I have had, I need to check in with all of you more often. Because the weather has gotten extremely warm over the past week, I have been having a tough time with swim suits and the more revealing clothing of summer. For the first time since my explant, I am feeling insecure. My boobs are very uneven. It is such a let down after spending over $13,000. I'm going to e-mail Dr. M and see if there is any type of lift he can do to even them out. Has anyone encountered this problem after explant?Also, I have developed arthritis in my

2 index fingers and am still itching, after trying to detox and taking 2 rounds of fungal defense. I thank God for my good days and am truly trying to be happy with his creation (me), but still I struggle, especially being around my friends that still have them and feel fine. Does anyone else ever get down? I don't want to sound like a whiney hiney, but it has been a tough day.Thanks for listening,Ginger

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