, Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are MIA

[Guest guest]

Hey you all,

I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to anyone for not

posting your name at the top there. We all know how my memory is. I just know

that not many have been posting that past few days and I'm concerned about you

all.

Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

I was wondering the same thing.. I have not seen Donnie on here in a

few days.. I have not seen anythin from Jodie either in like two

weeks. That worries me. I hope she is alright.

Keri

>

> Hey you all,

>

> I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to

anyone for not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my

memory is. I just know that not many have been posting that past few

days and I'm concerned about you all.

>

> Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

>

> Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

>

> ~Tommie~

> www.myspace.com/tommiejj

> PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

> Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

> what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

> something will undoubtedly go wrong.

> Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful

attitude.

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Tommie and group,

I am here. Thank you for caring. Just in a funk, Last week was my son's

birthday, that passed away last Oct. I just can't seem to pull out of the

depression. It will be a year next month that he passed. My heart is heavy. Pain

levels are awful. My other son is going through a divorce and a lot of fussing

and stress as well. I just try to back off from it the best I can, but it's hard

when your child is being attacked.They never get to old that we don't worry or

their pain is not our pain too. The doctor says it is taking my health down even

more. I don't know what else to do.

I thank everyone for your support and love in this group. You have become family

and care and support me more then my blood family.

It seems like there was another on this list too, so I don't know if the

subject line was referring to me or her. But that is what is going on with me.

Let's hold those that are MIA close to our hearts and thoughts because they may

be in a situation to where they can't reach out. We never know where these

illnesses will take us. I don't know of any in my family that I could depend on

to let the group know if I ended up in the hospital. Also we never know when

these computers take some sick days too, which is very annoying when we need to

log onto the world and can't get no where....sigh. Makes a long day.

I didn't mean to ramble on. Just know you all are very special to me and have

been a life line at times. Thank you,.

Gentle hugs,

in arkansas

Subject: , Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are MIA

To: Hugs-N-Pain

Date: Thursday, September 4, 2008, 1:39 PM

Hey you all,

I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to anyone for

not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my memory is. I just

know that not many have been posting that past few days and I'm concerned

about you all.

Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

hi brenda my name is donnie i know exacty what you are going throuw i lost my

son 10 years ago and it is just like it was yesterday it never gets eny eser i

just talkedto my sons wife last nite i have not talked to her sence i lost my

son because my wife idnot like her i could not handle the bitching at home from

my wife about my sons wiwe because i did not talk to my sons wife the 2 of use

did not get clousuer so last nite we talked my wife throuw a fit it was the same

old shit as 10 years ago except this time we snuck and talked today we feel

better than we have in years we are going to be apart of each others lives now

so mabe we can have some clouser now donnieKY hi brenda it will get easer you

will never forget it just gets eser and donot do what i did and become a hermid

and keep it all batteled up in side if other people is infalved all you do is

hert them ir you need to talk branda i am here for you donot fake the mistake i

made brenda i am

here donnieKY 

, Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are MIA

To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Thursday, September 4, 2008, 1:39 PM

Hey you all,

I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to anyone for

not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my memory is. I just

know that not many have been posting that past few days and I'm concerned

about you all.

Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

~Tommie~

www.myspace. com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

There you are Yes you are the one I was referring to I missed you.

I knew you were down and are down over missing your son and your loss, that is

why I was worried about you. This is a time that you truly need us and need to

be posting as a part of our family here. I care a great deal for you and all of

our other members here.

I'm so sorry your pain is so increased, not only in your heart, but your body.

God bless you , I'm keeping you in my prayers. I pray that the Lord will

make your load light and hopefully have some resolution to all that your other

son is going through right now. I pray that calms for you and him both. Stress

can sure do a number on us.

, you are a very special person. Keep your chin up, keep the good memories

of your son. The happy times, laugh about them. He would want you to celebrate

his life, and not be hindered by his death. I know this is so very hard, but in

time, you'll be able to do this. It's taken me 4 yrs after my ex's suicide to do

this. We've hit and missed over the years, but I think we have it down now. Even

though we still do and always will miss him, the mourning part has really been

healed I feel. I do still get mad at him sometimes, because he isn't here and

I've been left to both Mother and Father my boys. Boys need their Dad's. And he

isn't here. I'm not a good person to practice " tough love " . Never have been able

to. He was the disciplinary and I was the nurturer. And it's still that way.

I've let them get away with too much stuff. lol I'm just mush and I give in

easily for the most part.

I do understand what you mean about no matter how old they are, we still hurt

when they hurt and try to protect them. That will never stop. We are Mom's and

it's our job and part of our make up to protect our young, even though they are

older! They will always be my babies and I will always worry about them.

I hope you have a better day and your pain isn't so bad.

Love and hugs,

Tommie

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

, Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are

MIA

To: Hugs-N-Pain

Date: Thursday, September 4, 2008, 1:39 PM

Hey you all,

I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to anyone for

not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my memory is. I just

know that not many have been posting that past few days and I'm concerned

about you all.

Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

Hi Donnie!!!

I missed you too. Glad you are back. I'm sorry you've been having some problems

and so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son I just can't imagine losing

a child. As you know, my son goes to Afghanistan in Nov. and I'm praying now

that he will come back. I have faith that he will. He just has to as I don't

know what I'd do if I lost him. I don't even want to think about the

possibility, but it has crossed my mind, I mean, this IS war. But God bless him,

he wanted to do this and he wanted to go over there and do his part. And he is!

I hope you are having a low pain day. Glad you are back.

Hugs

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

, Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are

MIA

To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Thursday, September 4, 2008, 1:39 PM

Hey you all,

I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to anyone for

not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my memory is. I just

know that not many have been posting that past few days and I'm concerned

about you all.

Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

~Tommie~

www.myspace. com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

[Guest guest]

Keri,

I don't know whats happened to Jodie. I've been trying to reach her through

private email and on myspace for a couple of weeks now. She last signed onto her

myspace on 9/2, I saw that yesterday, but she's just not responding to any of

us. I don't know what's up with her, but I hope she is ok and no one did

anything to hurt her feelings.

I'll keep writing to her and see if I can get her to answer. I know Donnie had

written to her as well. I think Donnie said he had her phone number and was

going to call her, but he never posted back if he got ahold of her or not. I'll

write a post to him and see.

Let us know if you hear anything too.

Hugs

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

Re: , Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who

are MIA

I was wondering the same thing.. I have not seen Donnie on here in a

few days.. I have not seen anythin from Jodie either in like two

weeks. That worries me. I hope she is alright.

Keri

>

> Hey you all,

>

> I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to

anyone for not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my

memory is. I just know that not many have been posting that past few

days and I'm concerned about you all.

>

> Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

>

> Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

>

> ~Tommie~

> www.myspace.com/tommiejj

> PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

> Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

> what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

> something will undoubtedly go wrong.

> Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful

attitude.

>

>

[Guest guest]

hi everbody jodie is haveing personal problems rite now sead she will be back

with us when she gets them stratened out she will be back with us donnieKY

Re: , Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who are

MIA

I was wondering the same thing.. I have not seen Donnie on here in a

few days.. I have not seen anythin from Jodie either in like two

weeks. That worries me. I hope she is alright.

Keri

>

> Hey you all,

>

> I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to

anyone for not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my

memory is. I just know that not many have been posting that past few

days and I'm concerned about you all.

>

> Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

>

> Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

>

> ~Tommie~

> www.myspace. com/tommiejj

> PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

> Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

> what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

> something will undoubtedly go wrong.

> Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful

attitude.

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you Donnie!!! I appreciate the info

~Tommie~

www.myspace.com/tommiejj

PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

something will undoubtedly go wrong.

Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude.

Re: , Donnie, Donna, and all of you others who

are MIA

I was wondering the same thing.. I have not seen Donnie on here in a

few days.. I have not seen anythin from Jodie either in like two

weeks. That worries me. I hope she is alright.

Keri

>

> Hey you all,

>

> I hope you are all doing ok. I'm missing you all. No offense to

anyone for not posting your name at the top there. We all know how my

memory is. I just know that not many have been posting that past few

days and I'm concerned about you all.

>

> Please just drop a line and let us know you are ok?

>

> Hugs and I hope you all are having a decent day!

>

> ~Tommie~

> www.myspace. com/tommiejj

> PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome

> Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or

> what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt,

> something will undoubtedly go wrong.

> Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful

attitude.

>

>