Guest guest Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 We need to bring back the compassion and hugs and caring..people in pain need that as much or more than others..cherie Subject: Re: acceptance.. To: Hugs-N-Pain Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What happened here ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? I didn't see anyone being mean here. Rod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2008 Report Share Posted December 11, 2008 Cherie, I think what you said was very well said. and most would have no problem agreeing with you. Jena Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 This is such a beautiful message...so well said and written from the heart. Ihope everyone reads this and learns from it cause every word you wrote is so true..thank you...cherie > > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Hi Caryann  I just replied and my message was meant for you...I think I replied to the wrong person..Iloved your message..so much to learn from here and so very very true...thank you. Rod has alot to learn be sure and so do others. People in pain need quality of life and nobody has any right to be sarcastic or to judge anyone else..I cheer you..I thank you...cherie > > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Sorry you feel that way, and by the way I wasn't being sarcastic or judging anyone. I just tell it like it is and I don't think anyone here benefits from you condoning what she has done be it the truth or not. I have a friend whos wife will do things far worse, she will physically hurt herself to get the pills. Her waking moments in life are to get those pills. If she has to fall down a flight of stairs she will do it. Rod Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Excuse me Rod..you tell like it is to people you do not know nor have ever met..what your friend's wife does with her life is her business and no connection to anyone on this site..and yes you did sound sarcastic and judgmental...this is a gentle site to help us ease our daily pain..we have enough without added words from others..many times our own friends and family do not understand us so it is comforting to have a place to go and share...I am sure you did not mean badly but that is how you cam across. You cannot compare anyone here to anyone you know in your private life...it is not fair. Sorry Rod...I also tell it like it is...cherie > > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 I wasn't comparing the two and if you don't get it then so be it. If you think that I sounded sarcastic and judgemental tuff shit. Rod Re: acceptance.. >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > support.... " " I >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > is >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > better? >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > this >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > never >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > gone for >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie >> > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > lack >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What >> happened here ? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Because of the way you replied I shall not reply to your messages any longer. You are an angry person with obviously many more problems than pain...goo dluck to you and wash your mouth out with soap...it might help!! cherie >> >> From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> >> Subject: Re: acceptance.. >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > support.... " " I >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > is >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > better? >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > this >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > never >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > gone for >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie >> > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > lack >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What >> happened here ? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Not angry at all. Just tired of arguing with fools. Merry Christmas. Rod Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile Re: acceptance.. >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > support.... " " I >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > is >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > better? >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > this >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > never >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > gone for >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie >> > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > lack >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What >> happened here ? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 hello all, this will probably be my last post although i really haven't posted a lot anyway. i have lived with chronic pain stemming from my first back injury at 23 in 1994 and since then i've had two (2) surgery, last being sept. of 07. I have DD, which is why i had the last surgery, disc replacement, spinal stenosis, fibro, a herniated disc in my neck (which I will be having surgery on by the end of 2009) and the beginnings of arthritis in my hips and I'm only 40. since my original injury i have been fighting with work comp and two (2) different insurance companies, i was able to receive SS disability on my first try, i've been on more pain meds than i care to remember and found out unfortunately that i'm either allergic or am sensitive to most of them. I've been accused by one perspective pain doctor of drug seeking, he also stated that my surgeon was a quack and that i didn't need surgery because, according to him, my spine was perfect, he never noticed my 13 yr old L3-L5 spinal fusion, and i told him off and walked out. i'd received one phone call one week after my first surgery by some quack who told me that my surgeon had put rods and screws in my back without permission (xrays proved otherwise) and that my bone graft was from a cadaver bone (actually it was my own bone) and that that cadaver bone was infected with the AIDS virus (yea, it wasn't because it was my own bone). I've stayed with my same surgeon since march of 1994, i've had the same chiropractor since the spring of 1997. i've had my same comp lawyer since 1996. i interview my doctors, pain management specialist and primary, and will even call the insurance reps for my former employers to get what i want and when they don't give it I call me Work Comp representative herself and am able to get her to answer her phone on the third ring and she even calls me back when i need an answer on something. I have had to fight for my medications but its been awhile, treatments are still tough but my lawyer is great, my surgeon is great and my pain specialist doesn't even wait for approvals he just does what he needs to do and i don't worry about it because if the insurance companies put up to much of a fight i call my lawyer and he gets me a hearing. I know what its like to give up ones dreams, I gave up my dream of ever having children when I chose to have my new implant. I'm thrilled, i'm pain free! unfortunately that doesn't take away from what i've given up. now, you may be asking, whats my point to all of this? i've been fighting for my treatments since i injured my back Jan. 28, 1994 at 6:50pm. I've been in verbal arguments with comp, the insurance companies, my lawyers paralegal, some doctors, i've even been banned from calling one insurance rep and one of my regular judges even told me to leave the hearing room if i couldn't calm down (i calmed down). i feel like i have alot to offer some of the folks on these boards, maybe help people find an answer where they weren't expecting it but the aura of the board is becoming very negative, people throwing accusations over such petty things. people aren't listening to each other when you should be. everyone on here has so much to offer everyone else, even just an ear (or eyes in this case) but no one is listening. that makes me sad. i joined this board because the one person i could always count on to listen, my mom, passed away almost seven (7) months ago and i don't have anyone else who gets it. i thought you guys here would get it but everyone is so concerned about who spread some virus, or not understanding the tone of ones message or whatever. no one is listen to the person that said " I need help. " I joined this board because I knew I could be the support to someone that my mom was for me, I wanted to " pass it on " . For those that i have already been writing to, please continue to write me, I want to hear from you, I promise I will be there for you because I understand. The tone of this group has changed, it no longer seems to be about " hugs-n-pain " anymore and thats very sad. so, I wish nothing but good luck for everyone. I hope that you will have the good luck that i've had and that everyone will remember why you joined the group to begin with. take care to all of you and if you wish to contact me privately please feel free. andria ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Friday, December 12, 2008 4:06:28 PM Subject: Re: Re: acceptance.. Not angry at all. Just tired of arguing with fools. Merry Christmas. Rod Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile Re: acceptance.. >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > support.... " " I >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > is >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > better? >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > this >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > never >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > gone for >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie >> > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > lack >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What >> happened here ? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 14, 2008 Report Share Posted December 14, 2008 Vice Versa. Happy Holidays to you as well, on the same level of sincerity. Cary Anne > >> > >> From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ > ...> > >> Subject: Re: acceptance.. > >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come > together for > > support.... " " I > >> > understood this was what this group was > about..what kind of tone > > is > >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? > Who makes anyone > > better? > >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of > others? If this is how > > this > >> > group is run then I have made an error coming > here. > >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will > find your way. If you > >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel > free to email me. I > > never > >> > judge any person and know that I am not any > beeter nor worse than > >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others > here needs to be > > gone for > >> > they are in the very same boat...all the > best...cherie > >> > > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but > now , I see a huge > > lack > >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes > it hard if not > >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and > able to post . What > >> happened here ? > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > >> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 It is hugs n pain and always will be hugs n pain. Nothing has changed. No one ever means to hurt anyone but it's time to move on. If I or anyone has said anything to cause a misunderstanding then understand...that's all it is. No harm was ever meant...now...stop. Let's keep doing what we do best and keep up the support. I think this horse has been kicked around enough. This should be the last on this subject. A question was asked...answers were given...that's it. Sorry if anyone felt hurt over any of them. Groups can get a little testy now and again...oh we imperfect humans! Especially us stressed with pain imperfect humans. It's just human. Don't look for perfection...we just aren't. Lotacats Express Chronic Pain Awareness http://www.cafepress.com/lotacatspix/5815010 Lotacatsfunpix.com http://www.lotacatsfunpix.com/ Deviantart http://lotacats05.deviantart.com/ > > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain > Date: Tuesday, December 16, 2008, 10:02 PM > > > >> > > > >> > " This list is for people in pain to > come together for > > > support.... " " I > > >> > understood this was what this group was > about..what kind of tone > > > is > > >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others > here? Who makes anyone > > > better? > > >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of > others? If this is how > > > this > > >> > group is run then I have made an error > coming here. > > >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you > will find your way. If you > > >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please > feel free to email me. I > > > never > > >> > judge any person and know that I am not > any beeter nor worse than > > >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and > others here needs to be > > > gone for > > >> > they are in the very same boat...all the > best...cherie > > >> > > > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile > , but now , I see a huge > > > lack > > >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that > makes it hard if not > > >> impossible for any real person to feel safe > and able to post . What > > >> happened here ? > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > >> > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > ------------ --------- --------- ------ > > > > > > To read these messages on the Hugs web site go > to: > > > http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/Hugs- N-Pain > > > you can contact me privately at starlyinaol (DOT) com > > > Rose > > > Owner/ Moderator Hugs N Pain > > > God Bless our Troops > > > Please Pray for them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2008 Report Share Posted December 21, 2008 hi everbody we are a bunch of painers trying to live day to day we are there for everbody my name is donnie i am a painer i am here for everbody my ear is here hi everbody this is a great group it is the best it has rilly helped me donnieKY > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ yahoo.com> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Tuesday, December 16, 2008, 10:02 PM > > > >> > > > >> > " This list is for people in pain to > come together for > > > support.... " " I > > >> > understood this was what this group was > about..what kind of tone > > > is > > >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others > here? Who makes anyone > > > better? > > >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of > others? If this is how > > > this > > >> > group is run then I have made an error > coming here. > > >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you > will find your way. If you > > >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please > feel free to email me. I > > > never > > >> > judge any person and know that I am not > any beeter nor worse than > > >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and > others here needs to be > > > gone for > > >> > they are in the very same boat...all the > best...cherie > > >> > > > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile > , but now , I see a huge > > > lack > > >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that > makes it hard if not > > >> impossible for any real person to feel safe > and able to post . What > > >> happened here ? > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > >> > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > ------------ --------- --------- ------ > > > > > > To read these messages on the Hugs web site go > to: > > > http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/Hugs- N-Pain > > > you can contact me privately at starlyinaol (DOT) com > > > Rose > > > Owner/ Moderator Hugs N Pain > > > God Bless our Troops > > > Please Pray for them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2008 Report Share Posted December 21, 2008 hi my name is donnie email me enytime you want i am allways here for you donnieKY Subject: Re: acceptance.. To: Hugs-N-Pain Date: Wednesday, December 17, 2008, 6:02 AM > >> > > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > > support.... " " I > >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > > is > >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > > better? > >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > > this > >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > > never > >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > > gone for > >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > >> > > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > > lack > >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > >> happened here ? > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2008 Report Share Posted December 24, 2008 painers like most of us we take pain pills because we hert and we are trying to control are pain and most of the time it is hard to control are pain it is so esey to over do it a life of pain it is rilly hard in the wenterthe cold makes us hert more rod what kind of pain do you have donnieKY > > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2008 Report Share Posted December 24, 2008 rod what kind of pain do you have donnieKY >> >> From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> >> Subject: Re: acceptance.. >> To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com >> Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > >> > " This list is for people in pain to come together for > support.... " " I >> > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone > is >> > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone > better? >> > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how > this >> > group is run then I have made an error coming here. >> > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you >> > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I > never >> > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than >> > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be > gone for >> > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie >> > >> I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge > lack >> of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not >> impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What >> happened here ? >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2008 Report Share Posted December 24, 2008 hi cherie and caryann us painer have anuff problems we dont need more we live in liveing hell but we sevive we are painers donnieKY > > From: uncertainsmile33 <uncertainsmile33@ ...> > Subject: Re: acceptance.. > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Thursday, December 11, 2008, 4:10 PM > > > > > > > > > > > " This list is for people in pain to come together for support.... " " I > > understood this was what this group was about..what kind of tone is > > being used for Cary from Ron and others here? Who makes anyone better? > > Who are we to be unkind and critical of others? If this is how this > > group is run then I have made an error coming here. > > To Cary...I wish you well and pray you will find your way. If you > > ever feel the need for a shoulder please feel free to email me. I never > > judge any person and know that I am not any beeter nor worse than > > anyone else. This tone used by Ron and others here needs to be gone for > > they are in the very same boat...all the best...cherie > > > I agree , I haven't logged on for awhile , but now , I see a huge lack > of compassion , and a meanness here , that makes it hard if not > impossible for any real person to feel safe and able to post . What > happened here ? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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