Re: Some new rules and movie review ...

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I just did the work

And discovered that I am a bitch myself

So... Being a bitch cannot be that " bad " , right?

After all I am so amazing.

But you all know that by now

Love, T

Always happy to help :-)

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> -ok ...

>

> ADyitha wife is a bitch

*that's* good!

> is it true.. I have never met her..

> but i think yes, it seems true..

it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

Now, *how* is she a bitch?

* Calling his daughter names.

* taking away his glasses.

you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

one should *ever*...)

> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

well, you never will meet anyone.

> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on him..

yes, it's a hint.

> I have called my son names, by the way..

> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> sometimes.. as he loses things..

right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

she, as is ac.

" People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

thought.

> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> confronting..

Well, you are back, now.

> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> than she is...

Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> towards them as well...

So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> true.. no cant say that for sure..

This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably is a

> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

And is *that* peaceful?

> A " s wife is a bitch..

.....when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

> TA

> A wife is not a bitch..

> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> Maybe she is making A stronger

> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> people who call them names.

> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> she is..

maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of any..

Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

>

> I am a bitch..

.....sometimes.

> I knew that was next..

Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

Good to know.

> I have a bad temper sometimes.

And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

We all bitch, sometimes.

So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

towards her change with varying motives?

> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

So you agree on that one!

Did you tell him?

Did you love it?

And that's a different story.

> oh well..

>

> the end.. roslyn

hm... the beginning!

Love,

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.. -didnt see what..

that you should not have to give in to others wishes?

Im not sure what you meant but then thats ok too.. love,rh

WEnt to see the Illusionist a new movie here in the states.. ITs good

if anyone is interested.. at least in my opinion.

is it true? is something people could ask in that movie.

love, roslyn

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>

> Dear Roslyn,

>

> Am 30.09.2006 um 04:10 schrieb mrcitrus6:

>

> > i would say " fb doesnt like me " is your story..

> >

> > how do you know that.. ???

> good, look at your proofs. Analyze them.

>

> > I like you but i get so annoyed with your wife..

> ...whom we never even know exists, but in our mind....

>

> > and somewhat annoyed you think you have to put up with it.

> Yes, that's the sound of your thoughts! Investigate!

>

> > But maybe you do.. Im not in your situation and i am so in your

> > business.

> Don't give in so fast. I used to do that. And I didn't see.

>

> > love,roslyn

> Love,

>

>

>

>

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Dear Roslyn,

> .. -didnt see what..

> that you should not have to give in to others wishes?

>

> Im not sure what you meant but then thats ok too.. love,rh

Girl, sometimes you just crack me up!! :-))

Don't give in to the first answer that comes up. You know, being

still for a while and just listening to the thoughts in your head can

really be fascinating!

You get annoyed with his wife? What an opportunity! Everyone crossing

your path teaches you something. Even his wife!

You are right, when you say that you are in her business when you

want her to change. Even if she's *really* bitchi and annoying. And

that means: investigate the thoughts you have on her. Explore. Being

in someone's business is not a bad thing. It's just being off. For

*your* sake!

Love,

> WEnt to see the Illusionist a new movie here in the states.. ITs good

> if anyone is interested.. at least in my opinion.

>

> is it true? is something people could ask in that movie.

> love, roslyn

>

> -- In Loving-what-is , wrote:

>>

>> Dear Roslyn,

>>

>> Am 30.09.2006 um 04:10 schrieb mrcitrus6:

>>

>>> i would say " fb doesnt like me " is your story..

>>>

>>> how do you know that.. ???

>> good, look at your proofs. Analyze them.

>>

>>> I like you but i get so annoyed with your wife..

>> ...whom we never even know exists, but in our mind....

>>

>>> and somewhat annoyed you think you have to put up with it.

>> Yes, that's the sound of your thoughts! Investigate!

>>

>>> But maybe you do.. Im not in your situation and i am so in your

>>> business.

>> Don't give in so fast. I used to do that. And I didn't see.

>>

>>> love,roslyn

>> Love,

>>

>>

>>

>>

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>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

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-ok ...

ADyitha wife is a bitch

is it true.. I have never met her..

but i think yes, it seems true..

absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on him..

I have called my son names, by the way..

I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

sometimes.. as he loses things..

i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

confronting..

How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

than she is.. however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

towards them as well..

I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

true.. no cant say that for sure..

I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better..

Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably is a

better cook or better in ways i am not ..

Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

improve myself.. and my own marriage.

A " s wife is a bitch..

TA

A wife is not a bitch..

I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

Maybe she is making A stronger

Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

people who call them names.

maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

she is..

Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of any..

i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

I am a bitch..

I knew that was next..

Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

I have yelled at my kids and my husband

I have a bad temper sometimes.

My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

oh well..

the end.. roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , wrote:

>

> Dear Roslyn,

>

> > .. -didnt see what..

> > that you should not have to give in to others wishes?

> >

> > Im not sure what you meant but then thats ok too.. love,rh

> Girl, sometimes you just crack me up!! :-))

>

> Don't give in to the first answer that comes up. You know, being

> still for a while and just listening to the thoughts in your head can

> really be fascinating!

>

> You get annoyed with his wife? What an opportunity! Everyone crossing

> your path teaches you something. Even his wife!

>

> You are right, when you say that you are in her business when you

> want her to change. Even if she's *really* bitchi and annoying. And

> that means: investigate the thoughts you have on her. Explore. Being

> in someone's business is not a bad thing. It's just being off. For

> *your* sake!

>

> Love,

>

>

>

> > WEnt to see the Illusionist a new movie here in the states.. ITs good

> > if anyone is interested.. at least in my opinion.

> >

> > is it true? is something people could ask in that movie.

> > love, roslyn

> >

> > -- In Loving-what-is , <olli_26@> wrote:

> >>

> >> Dear Roslyn,

> >>

> >> Am 30.09.2006 um 04:10 schrieb mrcitrus6:

> >>

> >>> i would say " fb doesnt like me " is your story..

> >>>

> >>> how do you know that.. ???

> >> good, look at your proofs. Analyze them.

> >>

> >>> I like you but i get so annoyed with your wife..

> >> ...whom we never even know exists, but in our mind....

> >>

> >>> and somewhat annoyed you think you have to put up with it.

> >> Yes, that's the sound of your thoughts! Investigate!

> >>

> >>> But maybe you do.. Im not in your situation and i am so in your

> >>> business.

> >> Don't give in so fast. I used to do that. And I didn't see.

> >>

> >>> love,roslyn

> >> Love,

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

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> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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> -ok ...

>

> ADyitha wife is a bitch

*that's* good!

> is it true.. I have never met her..

> but i think yes, it seems true..

it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

Now, *how* is she a bitch?

* Calling his daughter names.

* taking away his glasses.

you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

one should *ever*...)

> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

well, you never will meet anyone.

> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on him..

yes, it's a hint.

> I have called my son names, by the way..

> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> sometimes.. as he loses things..

right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

she, as is ac.

" People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

thought.

> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> confronting..

Well, you are back, now.

> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> than she is...

Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> towards them as well...

So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> true.. no cant say that for sure..

This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably is a

> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

And is *that* peaceful?

> A " s wife is a bitch..

....when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

> TA

> A wife is not a bitch..

> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> Maybe she is making A stronger

> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> people who call them names.

> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> she is..

maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of any..

Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

>

> I am a bitch..

....sometimes.

> I knew that was next..

Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

Good to know.

> I have a bad temper sometimes.

And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

We all bitch, sometimes.

So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

towards her change with varying motives?

> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

So you agree on that one!

Did you tell him?

Did you love it?

And that's a different story.

> oh well..

>

> the end.. roslyn

hm... the beginning!

Love,

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>

> I just did the work

> And discovered that I am a bitch myself

Tami is a bitch. Is that true?

A) __ yes

__ yes

C) __ all of the above

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If you were being a bitch, it was only for that moment. So you can be both bad

and good. Bad when you are and good when you are.

Vivian

Re: Re: Some new rules and movie review ...

> -ok ...

>

> ADyitha wife is a bitch

*that's* good!

> is it true.. I have never met her..

> but i think yes, it seems true..

it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

Now, *how* is she a bitch?

* Calling his daughter names.

* taking away his glasses.

you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

one should *ever*...)

> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

well, you never will meet anyone.

> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on him..

yes, it's a hint.

> I have called my son names, by the way..

> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> sometimes.. as he loses things..

right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

she, as is ac.

" People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

thought.

> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> confronting..

Well, you are back, now.

> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> than she is...

Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> towards them as well...

So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> true.. no cant say that for sure..

This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably is a

> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

And is *that* peaceful?

> A " s wife is a bitch..

....when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

> TA

> A wife is not a bitch..

> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> Maybe she is making A stronger

> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> people who call them names.

> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> she is..

maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of any..

Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

>

> I am a bitch..

....sometimes.

> I knew that was next..

Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

Good to know.

> I have a bad temper sometimes.

And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

We all bitch, sometimes.

So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

towards her change with varying motives?

> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

So you agree on that one!

Did you tell him?

Did you love it?

And that's a different story.

> oh well..

>

> the end.. roslyn

hm... the beginning!

Love,

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..

I knew you would come up with some good replies..

--WE dont know Ac is married. Ok i guess not

one persons definition of married could be different from anothers

also i suppose.

She shouldnt ever call her daughter names No..because with a rule

like that i would be in trouble as i have called my kids names..

And i have noticed people who hold anger in too long end up more

angry.. (from experience ) as an example..

I tried to suppress anger once for about 3 hours of listening to

annoying music and at 11 30 i exploded in rage which would of been ok

had i complained about the music at 9 pm when i was first annoyed.

I guess i should do the work on AC.. i will sometime..

I spend money and try to sneak it sometimes.. but my husband is very

in tune to our bank account so i usually tell him.. later.

this is another comparison.. . Im angry she gets angry and the first

time i had thoughts like that were when i was little and my parents

would fight .. and it would make me cry sometimes in my room alone ..

and sometimes i just was angry but didnt say anything.. or eventually

i think i was immune to it.. but like my brother sort of quit talking.

And i suppose that is why i had such a strong reaction to his wife..

she reminded me of my childhood.. the story of my parents fighting..

Which really maybe kept them saner than if they had not fought.

I dont know.

Whats her motive in taking away his glasses..

I dont know.. to be in control.. to keep him from being more

attractive.. weird.. to me.. but oh well..

On the card.. I think your crazy and love you anyway...

I told him i agree and i laughed..

They think im nuts with all my self help and other stories..

oh well i try to help.. I guess that is nuts.

love, roslyn

- In Loving-what-is , wrote:

>

> > -ok ...

> >

> > ADyitha wife is a bitch

> *that's* good!

>

> > is it true.. I have never met her..

> > but i think yes, it seems true..

> it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

>

> > absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

> Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

>

> Now, *how* is she a bitch?

> * Calling his daughter names.

> * taking away his glasses.

>

> you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

> one should *ever*...)

>

>

> > how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

> well, you never will meet anyone.

>

> > Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> > her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on him..

> yes, it's a hint.

>

> > I have called my son names, by the way..

> > I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> > sometimes.. as he loses things..

> right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

> try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

> your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

> Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

> she, as is ac.

> " People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

> thought.

>

> > i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> > confronting..

> Well, you are back, now.

>

> > How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> > than she is...

> Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

>

> > however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> > towards them as well...

> So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

>

> > I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> > true.. no cant say that for sure..

> This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

>

> > I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

> And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

>

> > Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> > Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably is a

> > better cook or better in ways i am not ..

> This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

> before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

> the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

>

> > Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> > improve myself.. and my own marriage.

> And is *that* peaceful?

>

>

> > A " s wife is a bitch..

> ...when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

>

> > TA

> > A wife is not a bitch..

> > I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> > Maybe she is making A stronger

> > Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> > people who call them names.

> > maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> > she is..

> maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

>

> > Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of any..

> Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

>

> > i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

> >

> > I am a bitch..

> ...sometimes.

>

> > I knew that was next..

> Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

>

> > Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

> yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

>

> > I have yelled at my kids and my husband

> So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

> Good to know.

>

> > I have a bad temper sometimes.

> And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

>

> We all bitch, sometimes.

>

> So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

> What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

> towards her change with varying motives?

>

> > My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> > love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

> So you agree on that one!

>

> Did you tell him?

>

> Did you love it?

>

> And that's a different story.

>

> > oh well..

> >

> > the end.. roslyn

> hm... the beginning!

>

> Love,

>

>

>

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Dear Roslyn,

you compare yourself a lot with the people you judge, don't you?

You can use your judgements for your own benefits. You called her a

bitch. Even if only for a moment in your mind.

Go with that.

She's a bitch: because she did take away his glasses

and because she called her daughter names.

Now, you found, that you do that in a way, as well (spend money,

without being 100% open about it - it's a good find, be aware of your

own actions! For *your* sake, and you called your childs names) And

did you see who you are with the thought, that she's a bitch? Or that

she shouldn't hide his glasses?

Is your reply from an humble point of view? Or are you trying to

defeat your judgements with logic?

One is to meet the thought with understanding, the other one is to

shut it up. Wich does not work, in my experience.

See for yourself what's best for you.

And I hear you have been using logic since... I first heard from you.

Love,

Am 09.10.2006 um 20:06 schrieb mrcitrus6:

> ..

> I knew you would come up with some good replies..

>

> --WE dont know Ac is married. Ok i guess not

> one persons definition of married could be different from anothers

> also i suppose.

>

> She shouldnt ever call her daughter names No..because with a rule

> like that i would be in trouble as i have called my kids names..

> And i have noticed people who hold anger in too long end up more

> angry.. (from experience ) as an example..

> I tried to suppress anger once for about 3 hours of listening to

> annoying music and at 11 30 i exploded in rage which would of been ok

> had i complained about the music at 9 pm when i was first annoyed.

>

> I guess i should do the work on AC.. i will sometime..

>

> I spend money and try to sneak it sometimes.. but my husband is very

> in tune to our bank account so i usually tell him.. later.

>

> this is another comparison.. . Im angry she gets angry and the first

> time i had thoughts like that were when i was little and my parents

> would fight .. and it would make me cry sometimes in my room alone ..

> and sometimes i just was angry but didnt say anything.. or eventually

> i think i was immune to it.. but like my brother sort of quit talking.

>

> And i suppose that is why i had such a strong reaction to his wife..

> she reminded me of my childhood.. the story of my parents fighting..

>

> Which really maybe kept them saner than if they had not fought.

> I dont know.

>

> Whats her motive in taking away his glasses..

> I dont know.. to be in control.. to keep him from being more

> attractive.. weird.. to me.. but oh well..

>

> On the card.. I think your crazy and love you anyway...

> I told him i agree and i laughed..

>

> They think im nuts with all my self help and other stories..

> oh well i try to help.. I guess that is nuts.

>

> love, roslyn

>

>

>

>

> - In Loving-what-is , wrote:

>>

>>> -ok ...

>>>

>>> ADyitha wife is a bitch

>> *that's* good!

>>

>>> is it true.. I have never met her..

>>> but i think yes, it seems true..

>> it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

>>

>>> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

>> Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

>>

>> Now, *how* is she a bitch?

>> * Calling his daughter names.

>> * taking away his glasses.

>>

>> you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

>> one should *ever*...)

>>

>>

>>> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

>> well, you never will meet anyone.

>>

>>> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

>>> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on

>>> him..

>> yes, it's a hint.

>>

>>> I have called my son names, by the way..

>>> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

>>> sometimes.. as he loses things..

>> right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

>> try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

>> your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

>> Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

>> she, as is ac.

>> " People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

>> thought.

>>

>>> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

>>> confronting..

>> Well, you are back, now.

>>

>>> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

>>> than she is...

>> Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

>>

>>> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

>>> towards them as well...

>> So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

>>

>>> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

>>> true.. no cant say that for sure..

>> This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

>>

>>> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

>> And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

>>

>>> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

>>> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably

>>> is a

>>> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

>> This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

>> before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

>> the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

>>

>>> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

>>> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

>> And is *that* peaceful?

>>

>>

>>> A " s wife is a bitch..

>> ...when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

>>

>>> TA

>>> A wife is not a bitch..

>>> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

>>> Maybe she is making A stronger

>>> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

>>> people who call them names.

>>> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

>>> she is..

>> maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

>>

>>> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of

>>> any..

>> Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

>>

>>> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

>>>

>>> I am a bitch..

>> ...sometimes.

>>

>>> I knew that was next..

>> Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

>>

>>> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

>> yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

>>

>>> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

>> So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

>> Good to know.

>>

>>> I have a bad temper sometimes.

>> And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

>>

>> We all bitch, sometimes.

>>

>> So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

>> What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

>> towards her change with varying motives?

>>

>>> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

>>> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

>> So you agree on that one!

>>

>> Did you tell him?

>>

>> Did you love it?

>>

>> And that's a different story.

>>

>>> oh well..

>>>

>>> the end.. roslyn

>> hm... the beginning!

>>

>> Love,

>>

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the understanding I only would hate something in her..

that i could relate.. to.. that you only see in others traits you also

possess..

ok i am again using logic.

I probably do use logic.. rather than a i dont know mind position..

i cant know her thats for sure.

thanks , roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , wrote:

>

> Dear Roslyn,

>

> you compare yourself a lot with the people you judge, don't you?

>

> You can use your judgements for your own benefits. You called her a

> bitch. Even if only for a moment in your mind.

>

> Go with that.

>

> She's a bitch: because she did take away his glasses

> and because she called her daughter names.

>

> Now, you found, that you do that in a way, as well (spend money,

> without being 100% open about it - it's a good find, be aware of your

> own actions! For *your* sake, and you called your childs names) And

> did you see who you are with the thought, that she's a bitch? Or that

> she shouldn't hide his glasses?

>

> Is your reply from an humble point of view? Or are you trying to

> defeat your judgements with logic?

>

> One is to meet the thought with understanding, the other one is to

> shut it up. Wich does not work, in my experience.

>

> See for yourself what's best for you.

>

> And I hear you have been using logic since... I first heard from you.

>

> Love,

>

>

>

>

> Am 09.10.2006 um 20:06 schrieb mrcitrus6:

>

> > ..

> > I knew you would come up with some good replies..

> >

> > --WE dont know Ac is married. Ok i guess not

> > one persons definition of married could be different from anothers

> > also i suppose.

> >

> > She shouldnt ever call her daughter names No..because with a rule

> > like that i would be in trouble as i have called my kids names..

> > And i have noticed people who hold anger in too long end up more

> > angry.. (from experience ) as an example..

> > I tried to suppress anger once for about 3 hours of listening to

> > annoying music and at 11 30 i exploded in rage which would of been ok

> > had i complained about the music at 9 pm when i was first annoyed.

> >

> > I guess i should do the work on AC.. i will sometime..

> >

> > I spend money and try to sneak it sometimes.. but my husband is very

> > in tune to our bank account so i usually tell him.. later.

> >

> > this is another comparison.. . Im angry she gets angry and the first

> > time i had thoughts like that were when i was little and my parents

> > would fight .. and it would make me cry sometimes in my room alone ..

> > and sometimes i just was angry but didnt say anything.. or eventually

> > i think i was immune to it.. but like my brother sort of quit talking.

> >

> > And i suppose that is why i had such a strong reaction to his wife..

> > she reminded me of my childhood.. the story of my parents fighting..

> >

> > Which really maybe kept them saner than if they had not fought.

> > I dont know.

> >

> > Whats her motive in taking away his glasses..

> > I dont know.. to be in control.. to keep him from being more

> > attractive.. weird.. to me.. but oh well..

> >

> > On the card.. I think your crazy and love you anyway...

> > I told him i agree and i laughed..

> >

> > They think im nuts with all my self help and other stories..

> > oh well i try to help.. I guess that is nuts.

> >

> > love, roslyn

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > - In Loving-what-is , <olli_26@> wrote:

> >>

> >>> -ok ...

> >>>

> >>> ADyitha wife is a bitch

> >> *that's* good!

> >>

> >>> is it true.. I have never met her..

> >>> but i think yes, it seems true..

> >> it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

> >>

> >>> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

> >> Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

> >>

> >> Now, *how* is she a bitch?

> >> * Calling his daughter names.

> >> * taking away his glasses.

> >>

> >> you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

> >> one should *ever*...)

> >>

> >>

> >>> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

> >> well, you never will meet anyone.

> >>

> >>> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> >>> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on

> >>> him..

> >> yes, it's a hint.

> >>

> >>> I have called my son names, by the way..

> >>> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> >>> sometimes.. as he loses things..

> >> right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

> >> try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

> >> your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

> >> Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

> >> she, as is ac.

> >> " People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

> >> thought.

> >>

> >>> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> >>> confronting..

> >> Well, you are back, now.

> >>

> >>> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> >>> than she is...

> >> Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

> >>

> >>> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> >>> towards them as well...

> >> So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

> >>

> >>> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> >>> true.. no cant say that for sure..

> >> This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

> >>

> >>> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

> >> And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

> >>

> >>> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> >>> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably

> >>> is a

> >>> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

> >> This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

> >> before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

> >> the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

> >>

> >>> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> >>> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

> >> And is *that* peaceful?

> >>

> >>

> >>> A " s wife is a bitch..

> >> ...when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

> >>

> >>> TA

> >>> A wife is not a bitch..

> >>> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> >>> Maybe she is making A stronger

> >>> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> >>> people who call them names.

> >>> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> >>> she is..

> >> maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

> >>

> >>> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of

> >>> any..

> >> Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

> >>

> >>> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

> >>>

> >>> I am a bitch..

> >> ...sometimes.

> >>

> >>> I knew that was next..

> >> Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

> >>

> >>> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

> >> yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

> >>

> >>> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

> >> So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

> >> Good to know.

> >>

> >>> I have a bad temper sometimes.

> >> And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

> >>

> >> We all bitch, sometimes.

> >>

> >> So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

> >> What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

> >> towards her change with varying motives?

> >>

> >>> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> >>> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

> >> So you agree on that one!

> >>

> >> Did you tell him?

> >>

> >> Did you love it?

> >>

> >> And that's a different story.

> >>

> >>> oh well..

> >>>

> >>> the end.. roslyn

> >> hm... the beginning!

> >>

> >> Love,

> >>

>

>

>

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Without the thought *she is a bitch* and I watch her take the glasses

and call her child a name.....I see a woman who is terrified by

thoughts that she could loose her husband by other women finding him

attractive with the movie star glasses on. I see a woman frustrated

and angry by her thoughts that her child should obey her and do what

she wants....I see a woman crying out for love in the best way she

knows in the moment. I feel so much compassion for her. I feel so much

compassion for myself in these situations when I didn't know a better

way, a saner way to live with stressful thoughts.

She's a bitch becomes She's not a bitch.

I am a bitch becomes I am not a bitch.

I am not a bitch. Sometimes I am not. Find 3 ways.

Love, nne

> Dear Roslyn,

>

> you compare yourself a lot with the people you judge, don't you?

>

> You can use your judgements for your own benefits. You called her a

> bitch. Even if only for a moment in your mind.

>

> Go with that.

>

> She's a bitch: because she did take away his glasses

> and because she called her daughter names.

>

> Now, you found, that you do that in a way, as well (spend money,

> without being 100% open about it - it's a good find, be aware of your

> own actions! For *your* sake, and you called your childs names) And

> did you see who you are with the thought, that she's a bitch? Or that

> she shouldn't hide his glasses?

>

> Is your reply from an humble point of view? Or are you trying to

> defeat your judgements with logic?

>

> One is to meet the thought with understanding, the other one is to

> shut it up. Wich does not work, in my experience.

>

> See for yourself what's best for you.

>

> And I hear you have been using logic since... I first heard from you.

>

> Love,

>

>

>

>

> Am 09.10.2006 um 20:06 schrieb mrcitrus6:

>

> > ..

> > I knew you would come up with some good replies..

> >

> > --WE dont know Ac is married. Ok i guess not

> > one persons definition of married could be different from anothers

> > also i suppose.

> >

> > She shouldnt ever call her daughter names No..because with a rule

> > like that i would be in trouble as i have called my kids names..

> > And i have noticed people who hold anger in too long end up more

> > angry.. (from experience ) as an example..

> > I tried to suppress anger once for about 3 hours of listening to

> > annoying music and at 11 30 i exploded in rage which would of been ok

> > had i complained about the music at 9 pm when i was first annoyed.

> >

> > I guess i should do the work on AC.. i will sometime..

> >

> > I spend money and try to sneak it sometimes.. but my husband is very

> > in tune to our bank account so i usually tell him.. later.

> >

> > this is another comparison.. . Im angry she gets angry and the first

> > time i had thoughts like that were when i was little and my parents

> > would fight .. and it would make me cry sometimes in my room alone ..

> > and sometimes i just was angry but didnt say anything.. or eventually

> > i think i was immune to it.. but like my brother sort of quit talking.

> >

> > And i suppose that is why i had such a strong reaction to his wife..

> > she reminded me of my childhood.. the story of my parents fighting..

> >

> > Which really maybe kept them saner than if they had not fought.

> > I dont know.

> >

> > Whats her motive in taking away his glasses..

> > I dont know.. to be in control.. to keep him from being more

> > attractive.. weird.. to me.. but oh well..

> >

> > On the card.. I think your crazy and love you anyway...

> > I told him i agree and i laughed..

> >

> > They think im nuts with all my self help and other stories..

> > oh well i try to help.. I guess that is nuts.

> >

> > love, roslyn

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > - In Loving-what-is , <olli_26@> wrote:

> >>

> >>> -ok ...

> >>>

> >>> ADyitha wife is a bitch

> >> *that's* good!

> >>

> >>> is it true.. I have never met her..

> >>> but i think yes, it seems true..

> >> it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

> >>

> >>> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

> >> Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

> >>

> >> Now, *how* is she a bitch?

> >> * Calling his daughter names.

> >> * taking away his glasses.

> >>

> >> you may want to investigate those two, as well (she shouldn't..., no

> >> one should *ever*...)

> >>

> >>

> >>> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

> >> well, you never will meet anyone.

> >>

> >>> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and calling

> >>> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on

> >>> him..

> >> yes, it's a hint.

> >>

> >>> I have called my son names, by the way..

> >>> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

> >>> sometimes.. as he loses things..

> >> right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

> >> try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do? Especially

> >> your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

> >> Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol. As is

> >> she, as is ac.

> >> " People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting off the

> >> thought.

> >>

> >>> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

> >>> confronting..

> >> Well, you are back, now.

> >>

> >>> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

> >>> than she is...

> >> Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

> >>

> >>> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

> >>> towards them as well...

> >> So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

> >>

> >>> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

> >>> true.. no cant say that for sure..

> >> This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

> >>

> >>> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

> >> And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

> >>

> >>> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

> >>> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably

> >>> is a

> >>> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

> >> This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

> >> before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

> >> the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

> >>

> >>> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i might

> >>> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

> >> And is *that* peaceful?

> >>

> >>

> >>> A " s wife is a bitch..

> >> ...when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

> >>

> >>> TA

> >>> A wife is not a bitch..

> >>> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

> >>> Maybe she is making A stronger

> >>> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

> >>> people who call them names.

> >>> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a bitch.. if

> >>> she is..

> >> maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

> >>

> >>> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of

> >>> any..

> >> Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

> >>

> >>> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

> >>>

> >>> I am a bitch..

> >> ...sometimes.

> >>

> >>> I knew that was next..

> >> Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

> >>

> >>> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

> >> yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

> >>

> >>> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

> >> So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

> >> Good to know.

> >>

> >>> I have a bad temper sometimes.

> >> And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

> >>

> >> We all bitch, sometimes.

> >>

> >> So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

> >> What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

> >> towards her change with varying motives?

> >>

> >>> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy but i

> >>> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

> >> So you agree on that one!

> >>

> >> Did you tell him?

> >>

> >> Did you love it?

> >>

> >> And that's a different story.

> >>

> >>> oh well..

> >>>

> >>> the end.. roslyn

> >> hm... the beginning!

> >>

> >> Love,

> >>

>

>

>

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> Without the thought *she is a bitch* and I watch her take the glasses

> and call her child a name...

> I see a woman who is terrified by thoughts that she could loose

> her husband by other women finding him

> attractive with the movie star glasses on. I see a woman frustrated

> and angry by her thoughts that her child should obey her and do what

> she wants....

So you created a woman that's frustrated and in terror.

Whom do you see without *that* story?

She's a woman being exactly the way she should be. Like a flower

blooming in the " right " way.

Without ma story, that is.

> I see a woman crying out for love in the best way she

> knows in the moment. I feel so much compassion for her. I feel so much

> compassion for myself in these situations when I didn't know a better

> way, a saner way to live with stressful thoughts.

>

> She's a bitch becomes She's not a bitch.

>

> I am a bitch becomes I am not a bitch.

She's a bitch becomes " I'm a bitch " - but only when I see *her* as a

bitch. When I " take away her glasses " - in the moment she takes the

glasses, who's galsses do the glasses become? Or: how do I know she's

supposed to have the glasses? There they are: in her hands! And when

I call her names: like " bitch " .

> I am not a bitch. Sometimes I am not. Find 3 ways.

yeah, that could be *as* true, or truer.

>

> Love, nne

Love,

>> Dear Roslyn,

>>

>> you compare yourself a lot with the people you judge, don't you?

>>

>> You can use your judgements for your own benefits. You called her a

>> bitch. Even if only for a moment in your mind.

>>

>> Go with that.

>>

>> She's a bitch: because she did take away his glasses

>> and because she called her daughter names.

>>

>> Now, you found, that you do that in a way, as well (spend money,

>> without being 100% open about it - it's a good find, be aware of your

>> own actions! For *your* sake, and you called your childs names) And

>> did you see who you are with the thought, that she's a bitch? Or that

>> she shouldn't hide his glasses?

>>

>> Is your reply from an humble point of view? Or are you trying to

>> defeat your judgements with logic?

>>

>> One is to meet the thought with understanding, the other one is to

>> shut it up. Wich does not work, in my experience.

>>

>> See for yourself what's best for you.

>>

>> And I hear you have been using logic since... I first heard from you.

>>

>> Love,

>>

>>

>>

>>

>> Am 09.10.2006 um 20:06 schrieb mrcitrus6:

>>

>>> ..

>>> I knew you would come up with some good replies..

>>>

>>> --WE dont know Ac is married. Ok i guess not

>>> one persons definition of married could be different from anothers

>>> also i suppose.

>>>

>>> She shouldnt ever call her daughter names No..because with a rule

>>> like that i would be in trouble as i have called my kids names..

>>> And i have noticed people who hold anger in too long end up more

>>> angry.. (from experience ) as an example..

>>> I tried to suppress anger once for about 3 hours of listening to

>>> annoying music and at 11 30 i exploded in rage which would of

>>> been ok

>>> had i complained about the music at 9 pm when i was first annoyed.

>>>

>>> I guess i should do the work on AC.. i will sometime..

>>>

>>> I spend money and try to sneak it sometimes.. but my husband is very

>>> in tune to our bank account so i usually tell him.. later.

>>>

>>> this is another comparison.. . Im angry she gets angry and the first

>>> time i had thoughts like that were when i was little and my parents

>>> would fight .. and it would make me cry sometimes in my room

>>> alone ..

>>> and sometimes i just was angry but didnt say anything.. or

>>> eventually

>>> i think i was immune to it.. but like my brother sort of quit

>>> talking.

>>>

>>> And i suppose that is why i had such a strong reaction to his wife..

>>> she reminded me of my childhood.. the story of my parents fighting..

>>>

>>> Which really maybe kept them saner than if they had not fought.

>>> I dont know.

>>>

>>> Whats her motive in taking away his glasses..

>>> I dont know.. to be in control.. to keep him from being more

>>> attractive.. weird.. to me.. but oh well..

>>>

>>> On the card.. I think your crazy and love you anyway...

>>> I told him i agree and i laughed..

>>>

>>> They think im nuts with all my self help and other stories..

>>> oh well i try to help.. I guess that is nuts.

>>>

>>> love, roslyn

>>>

>>>

>>>

>>>

>>> - In Loving-what-is , <olli_26@> wrote:

>>>>

>>>>> -ok ...

>>>>>

>>>>> ADyitha wife is a bitch

>>>> *that's* good!

>>>>

>>>>> is it true.. I have never met her..

>>>>> but i think yes, it seems true..

>>>> it has to seem true as long as you believe the thought.

>>>>

>>>>> absolutely true ..no as i have not met her.

>>>> Yes, we don't even really know ac was ever married, at all, right?

>>>>

>>>> Now, *how* is she a bitch?

>>>> * Calling his daughter names.

>>>> * taking away his glasses.

>>>>

>>>> you may want to investigate those two, as well (she

>>>> shouldn't..., no

>>>> one should *ever*...)

>>>>

>>>>

>>>>> how do i feel.. like i hate her already and i have never met her..

>>>> well, you never will meet anyone.

>>>>

>>>>> Annoyed that adiytha puts up with her taking his glasses and

>>>>> calling

>>>>> her daughter names. --i suppose that would be to do the work on

>>>>> him..

>>>> yes, it's a hint.

>>>>

>>>>> I have called my son names, by the way..

>>>>> I have never stolen my husbands glasses.. he accuses me of that

>>>>> sometimes.. as he loses things..

>>>> right. And what *did* you hide from your husband? Or did you *ever*

>>>> try to keep someone from doing something he wanted to do?

>>>> Especially

>>>> your husband? Even yourself, maybe?

>>>> Beware: the glasses she took away from him, are just a symbol.

>>>> As is

>>>> she, as is ac.

>>>> " People should not steal " is another one. But this is getting

>>>> off the

>>>> thought.

>>>>

>>>>> i had to take a break and get something to eat.. probably not

>>>>> confronting..

>>>> Well, you are back, now.

>>>>

>>>>> How do I feel thinking that thought.. I think i am some how better

>>>>> than she is...

>>>> Good find. In this moment she is lower than you are. In your mind.

>>>>

>>>>> however. I think my kids would say i have been a bitch

>>>>> towards them as well...

>>>> So there's a hint for a turnaround. You are a bitch, sometimes.

>>>>

>>>>> I think ADyitha would be better off if he got a divorce.. Is that

>>>>> true.. no cant say that for sure..

>>>> This is a new one. Try to stay with what you start with.

>>>>

>>>>> I think my marriage is better. And i treat my husband better...

>>>> And how does this feel? Is it a peaceful thought?

>>>>

>>>>> Without the thought.. Id be more open .. more accepting..

>>>>> Id think that all relationships are different.. and she probably

>>>>> is a

>>>>> better cook or better in ways i am not ..

>>>> This is speculation and running into other stories. What's there

>>>> before you start comparisons? And does it feel less stressful than

>>>> the original thought? And could it be *as* true or even truer?

>>>>

>>>>> Id be out of her business and his and be thinking about how i

>>>>> might

>>>>> improve myself.. and my own marriage.

>>>> And is *that* peaceful?

>>>>

>>>>

>>>>> A " s wife is a bitch..

>>>> ...when she takes away his glasses and calls his daughter names.

>>>>

>>>>> TA

>>>>> A wife is not a bitch..

>>>>> I dont know her so i dont know of any examples..

>>>>> Maybe she is making A stronger

>>>>> Maybe she is teaching her kids to be strong and not be effect of

>>>>> people who call them names.

>>>>> maybe she is a good example of how it doesnt work to be a

>>>>> bitch.. if

>>>>> she is..

>>>> maybe... could this be *as* true or maybe even truer, sometimes?

>>>>

>>>>> Im sure there are times she is not a bitch.. i just dont know of

>>>>> any..

>>>> Is she being a bitch when she's sleeping? What about in your mind?

>>>>

>>>>> i had to take another break.. this must be hitting home..

>>>>>

>>>>> I am a bitch..

>>>> ...sometimes.

>>>>

>>>>> I knew that was next..

>>>> Well, you're a smart girl! ;-)

>>>>

>>>>> Yes, when i think she is a bitch..

>>>> yes, and only then, you're a bitch towards her.

>>>>

>>>>> I have yelled at my kids and my husband

>>>> So, this is when you're a bitch towards your kids an your husband.

>>>> Good to know.

>>>>

>>>>> I have a bad temper sometimes.

>>>> And this is when you're a bitch towards yourself.

>>>>

>>>> We all bitch, sometimes.

>>>>

>>>> So, look at her, again, taking away the glasses of her husband.

>>>> What's her motive, anyway? What do you see? Does your attitude

>>>> towards her change with varying motives?

>>>>

>>>>> My son gave me a birthday card and said mom i think your crazy

>>>>> but i

>>>>> love you anyway .. well i didnt mind.. I knew he thinks im nuts.

>>>> So you agree on that one!

>>>>

>>>> Did you tell him?

>>>>

>>>> Did you love it?

>>>>

>>>> And that's a different story.

>>>>

>>>>> oh well..

>>>>>

>>>>> the end.. roslyn

>>>> hm... the beginning!

>>>>

>>>> Love,

>>>>

>>

>>

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> > Without the thought *she is a bitch* and I watch her take the glasses

> > and call her child a name...

>

> > I see a woman who is terrified by thoughts that she could loose

> > her husband by other women finding him

> > attractive with the movie star glasses on. I see a woman frustrated

> > and angry by her thoughts that her child should obey her and do what

> > she wants....

> So you created a woman that's frustrated and in terror.

Yes.

>

> Whom do you see without *that* story?

God yelling because I didn't listen the first time.

>

> She's a woman being exactly the way she should be. Like a flower

> blooming in the " right " way.

> Without ma story, that is.

Yes, of the garden.

>

> > I see a woman crying out for love in the best way she

> > knows in the moment. I feel so much compassion for her. I feel so much

> > compassion for myself in these situations when I didn't know a better

> > way, a saner way to live with stressful thoughts.

> >

> > She's a bitch becomes She's not a bitch.

> >

> > I am a bitch becomes I am not a bitch.

> She's a bitch becomes " I'm a bitch " - but only when I see *her* as a

> bitch. When I " take away her glasses " - in the moment she takes the

> glasses, who's galsses do the glasses become? Or: how do I know she's

> supposed to have the glasses? There they are: in her hands! And when

> I call her names: like " bitch " .

I've seen children play this game. Mine! No Mine! And the glasses

go back and forth between hands.

>

> > I am not a bitch. Sometimes I am not. Find 3 ways.

> yeah, that could be *as* true, or truer.

Truer.

Love, nne

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> She's a bitch becomes " I'm a bitch " - but only when I see *her* as a

> bitch. When I " take away her glasses " - in the moment she takes the

> glasses, who's galsses do the glasses become?

If I asked to own the glasses, and she said yes, they are mine.

If I took the glasses without asking or permission, they are hers.

Or: how do I know she's

> supposed to have the glasses?

This is a different angle.

There they are: in her hands! And when

> I call her names: like " bitch " .

I don't call her bitch for holding the glasses. I call her bitch for

not returning them to me when I need them to read or drive.

L, nne, blind as a bat

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>> She's a bitch becomes " I'm a bitch " - but only when I see *her* as a

>> bitch. When I " take away her glasses " - in the moment she takes the

>> glasses, who's galsses do the glasses become?

>

> If I asked to own the glasses, and she said yes, they are mine.

> If I took the glasses without asking or permission, they are hers.

That assumes the glasses were hers, in the first place.

>> Or: how do I know she's supposed to have the glasses?

> This is a different angle.

You think so?

So, who did she take them from? Die she take them from his hands? If

she took them from the table, who should she have asked permission?

Therer are glasses on the table, she takes them. Whose are the

glasses? Hers, because she has them.

I buy an apple. I put it on the table. who's apple is it?

Do you call her a bitch if she takes the apple? Is there a difference

to the glasses?

I mean, if she takes the apple, she might eat it, and it's gone! For

all we know, the glasses are still there!

>> There they are: in her hands! And when

>> I call her names: like " bitch " .

>

> I don't call her bitch for holding the glasses. I call her bitch for

> not returning them to me when I need them to read or drive.

Oh, I thought you called her a bitch for calling his daughter names.

> L, nne, blind as a bat

How lovely!

Love,

alexander

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