Re: taking money --mona and tami

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> self help should be free is that true?

> i dont think so.. it isnt stressful for me.. to believe it should cost

> something.

When you help yourself (self-help), who should you pay? What kind of

payment can one possibly make for helping themselves?

Self-help is not going to someone for help. That's a service being

rendered by them. You can't go to someone else for self-help. You go

to someone to have them facilitate you to question your beliefs. If

they value their time, they will put a price on their time. Sometimes

a price is set just to discourage others from calling on them. If

others believe they need the help bad enough, they will pay the price.

There's no sense trying to justify why people charge or don't charge

for their time. I don't charge for my time, but I do insist on

commitment from my clients to themselves. Without their commitment

there can be no change. Commitment comes in many forms, and for each

client it is different. That is the price they pay for the service I

render. Some clients donate money and maybe they think that gets them

off the hook for any other kind of commitment.

Pay for a service if you must, but remember that self-help starts and

ends with a commitment to yourself. There is no greater price that one

can pay.

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