Guest guest Posted February 20, 2012 Report Share Posted February 20, 2012 I thought this frank, straight-shooting article from Forbes was excellent. It seems that a lot of adults prefer to believe that their ability to perform their daily tasks is all that is necessary to be regarded as a valued employee or volunteer. These folks may be intelligent and competent on some level, yet the scope of their intelligence and competence would seem to be very narrow if they focus only on their daily tasks, and disregard the " softer " skills that employers and organizations value the most. In the context of this article, I mean the ability to be flexible and resilient, get along with coworkers, control frustration and emotional outbursts, and refrain from undermining morale by tossing " truth bombs " around in the office with respect to the employer/organization and its management. Most employers and organizations would far prefer to hire and retain an employee or volunteer who isn't disruptive than one who is solely capable of performing their tasks to some degree of excellence. After all, further training is readily available and can be mastered by most employees and volunteers within a relatively short amount of time. OTOH, deeply entrenched behavioral problems are not so easy to change, especially when the employee or volunteer has poor theory-of-mind skills and is just plain ol' stubborn about Being Right. Since nearly every position requires that an employee or volunteer be able to work as a team, maintain grace under pressure, avoid public emotional outbursts, and exercise discretion with respect to their opinions of their coworkers and management -- it's no wonder that employers and organizations place a much higher value on people who can " play nice " than on a difficult individual who can perform their tasking at warp speed. In my experience, quite a few spectrum folks (males in particular) seem to have difficulty understanding this concept. They focus only on competently (as they define that term) performing their actual tasks, as they don't regard these " softer " skills to be a bonafide part of their job description. Whether it be due to naivete, a stubborn nature, or just plain ol' theory-of-mind deficits, they hold this viewpoint at their own peril. No matter how competent an employee or volunteer may be at programming a computer, stocking a shelf, or sweeping a floor, ultimately the company or organization is about people functioning well together in order to turn a profit or achieve an objective. An employee or volunteer who is constantly acting out or stirring up $#!t is counterproductive to these goals... not to mention unpleasant to be around. Those individuals who repeatedly fail on the job due to behavioral issues often find that their problems become magnified when they interpret their repeated job losses as 'persecution' and 'unfairness' on the part of management, rather than precipitated by their own behavior. This can result in anger, defensiveness, and bitterness that they carry forward into their next job, creating a worsening downward spiral. Until these individuals come to accept that being a good employee or volunteer requires a broad level of intelligence and competence (as defined by management) on a number of levels, they doom themselves to a persistent pattern of rejection. So much for the free bonus sermon. Here's the article that served as its inspiration. When Smart People are Bad Employees http://www.forbes.com/sites/bruceupbin/2011/01/03/when-smart-people-are-bad-empl\ oyees/ Enjoy (or not), ~CJ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The biggest fallacy is that human beings are rational creatures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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