Gladys I won't delete, I care

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Gladys, not me. I will not delete on a wonderful caregiver as you. The

harder you try the worse it gets, until you are pushed into the ground. Do what

you can and let the rest go. After all you are not super-girl.

There were a couple of things I had to lay the law down with my darling Don.

I told him this is the way it is going to be. In a few days he finally

accepted what I told him, and seemed relieved to know the boundaries. They can

become very selfish and self centered. And, like children, you have to set

boundaries. When you do they feel safer and will settle down a little more.

We all care very much about you, as we do our whole LBD family of

caregivers, and I am so sorry this has hurt you so badly. My sister used to do

me that

way on the phone, and Don wondered why I would call her. I loved her, and she

didn't remember anything about our talking.

Love a whole bunch,

Imogene

My sweet mother just called and was not very sweet. I know its the disease,

but I just want to cry...... I feel like I'm killing myself and its never

enough to make her happy (btw this is how she was before the disease she's

been sweeter since).

AAAAAAAAAAAaaaargh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks! You can delete now! LOL

Gladys

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