Guest guest Posted January 12, 2008 Report Share Posted January 12, 2008 thanks imogene! you are always sooo good to me. and yes, my grandmother can be quite, quite, quite nasty and often says hurtful things to me. frankly, that is the stuff that is much harder on me than the workload, the isolation, the actual caregiving -- even the messy/gross parts of caregiving. her attitude is the hardest part. big love back to you, my sweet texas dear, xo anna AHHHHHHHH!!! !!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Carol this is really for you (and everyone else who likes to be in the Venter's Club ;-) !!) > > > > I AM SO SO SICK OF BEING TOLD HOW MEAN AND HORRIBLE I AM JUST FOR TRYING TO > > HELP! Grandma is still barely eating (today she's had 1/4 of a blueberry muffin, 2 bites of > > meatloaf, 3 bites of mashed sweet potato) and she's more and more mean and grumpy by > > the minute. Her moron doctor just tells me to talk her into eating more. AS IF I HADN'T > > TRIED THAT! Obviously we've exhausted all other ideas or we wouldn't be trying to get > > MEDICAL advice! I'm surrounded by crazy people and idiots. I cook tasty food, I clean the > > house, I endure excruciating back pain when helping her up and down, I am sweet as > > honey with a smile on my face (and believe me thats work cuz my normal demeanor is > > more on the smart-assed and sarcastic side) no matter what she says to me, and NOTHING > > is ever good enough! I'm just so frustrated today! She hasn't showered since Tuesday and > > quite frankly she stinks and when I tried to get her to shower (or at the very least put on > > some clean clothes) I once again got told how pushy and obnoxious I am and what an > > awful person I am for pushing MY wishes on her. It really is a good thing that I AM such a > > good hearted person with GADS of self restraint because at the moment I can clearly see > > where elder abuse comes from. If my back wasn't hurting so badly I'd be throwing things > > and punching walls right now. MY doctor tells me I need to relax. OH, REALLY? Gee, why > > didn't I think of that? As it is I think one of those jumbo sized bottles of red wine needs to > > be in my future. I actually WISH that some of grandma's dementia would rub off on me at > > the moment. Maybe if I were a little bit less in touch with reality I'd be better humored > > about all of this... > > And so once again I am feeling angry and hateful and you all are taking the brunt of > > it...THANK YOU! > > Emma > > PS Carol I know what you mean about the cyber gremlins eating your emails. I make a > > copy of mine every time before I hit send so that if they do I can try again...it helps a little > > to keep me from throwing the computer across the room. Cuz if I did it might wake > > Grandma up and I just can't deal with THAT again. ;-) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _ ____________ __ > Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your home page. > http://www.yahoo. com/r/hs > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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