I shouldn't suffer b/c of HR's incompetence!

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I am filing a grievance at work, and wow, they call it a GRIEVance for something

because I

have been crying everyday. It's killing my morale and taking such a toll on me

emotionally

and financially. So, here goes:

I should not have to suffer for Human Resource's incompetence!

IIT?

This is true. . .it is their job to know the ins and outs of our benefits,

programs,

regulations, etc. I am so tired of dealing with blatantly irresponsible people

in chronically

underfunded, understaffed situations. God forbid they actually be helpful.

Where is the

HUMAN in HR?

IIRT?

No, Obviously I am suffering.

Without the thought?

I would be free, happy, have time and energy to do what I enjoy, not hold

grudges or feel

bitter. I wouldn't have this terrible lump in my throat or pain in my chest I

wouldn't go to

work feeling like I want to cry and end each day feeling like I want to scream.

I wouldn't

sit at home digging through files and compiling evidence against them. I would

laugh and

play with my kids, read a book, go for a walk, eat ice cream, lay on the beach.

.. .

Turn it Around:

I SHOULD have to suffer for HR's incompetence

well, like i said, i already am. . .

HR shouldn't have to suffer b/c of my incompetence

i guess i could have been more diligent in following up with them. . .i could

see that they

were not actioning on my memo but i was too busy to follow up sooner. I just

wanted to

enjoy my leave in peace without having to mess with carrots and sticks with HR.

I shouldn't have to suffer for my incompetence

no, don't see the truth in this one.

I shouldn't have to suffer b/c of my thoughts

yes, it's true. . .it's only my thoughts about the situation that are bringing

me this

suffering. . .

more turnarunds, please. . .i still feel some stress so i know there must be

more. . .i think

the real stressfu thought is:

I shouldn't stay at my job because it makes me feel incompetent, it's a bad

match for me, I

can't/won't deal with the bureacracy, it makes me feel awful about myself, it's

not my true

calling in life.

But I'm scared to quit b/c I worked for two years to get this job and it creates

a nice

lifestyle for myself and my children. Plus, I have two domestic employees who

are

depending on me. . .if I quit, they will be out of a job as well.

I've already decided to quit in May, after I get tenure, so that I can come back

more easily

if I want to. So why am I still struggling with this?

Ok, send thoughts please and more work to come. . .