Guest guest Posted July 5, 2012 Report Share Posted July 5, 2012 >> If so, you'll end up being more of a " caretaker with benefits " than a life partner. And that's where Cassandra Syndrome comes in. > > > The way I read Karoline's post, I don't think their marriage included a > sexual relationship. Like not ever. But maybe you are referring to a > different type of " benefits " , Liz. I was referring to sexual benefits, but there are many other benefits to having caretaker wife who places her needs second and won't leave. The key is that both partners get their needs met. They don't have to be the same needs for both, or culturally acceptable needs, but both partners have to feel happier, more satisfied in the relationship than outside. Or, to quote Dear Abby, are you better off with him or without him? --Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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