Heterosexual and LGBT relationships (was Re: some levity ..)

[Guest guest]

> > Gottman has studied heterosexual and same sex relationships. The challenges

couples face turn out to be very similar. I'm sure this is a surprise to many,

as it is logical to assume that there would be fewer misunderstandings in same

sex partnerships. Ah, there is much we need to understand about the relationship

" roles " that each partner assumes. .. Others?

>

> Whether heterosexual or same-sex relationships, each person is in a

> different place on the male/female continuum. Not only with respect to

> gender/relationship roles, but fundamental emotional wiring. IOW, some

> men are more in tune emotionally, much in the way that is more closely

> associated with women. The reverse is also true. Taken together, it all

> affects a couple's ability to communicate with each other.

Very thoughtful response, CJ! I hope others will weigh in with their thoughts as

well, especially our LGBT members.

- Helen