Re: Re: My Story, I am so very tired and this seems to simple to be the cause!

May 29, 2008

Once bitten, Twice shy.....

ldelp84227 <ldelp84227@...> wrote: Sorry for the losses of spouses,

loves, etc. My husband and I really

had a difficult time during this illness. It is 10 years for us. Six

moves in 10 years. One summer I just left and went to Florida because

I was so disappointed even though my husband did try to gut a place

and make it safe and moved me many times. He also eventually had

seizures and had the chemical problem but not as bad as I do. I did

return after about three months and it did help us become closer. Of

course there are difficult times especially since he is out of work

right nfor about six months now. But we have figured out how to work

with each other and understand each others difficulties. I have

trouble with cooking odors, fragrances, etc. He has trouble with the

newspaper and house plants. So he does the cooking most of the time.

I read the paper outside or away from him. And I move the plants

around like never have them in the bedroom when we sleep. It was very

hard for us to understand in the beginning he would turn on the ac

when I first started having trouble and I would turn it off saying it

hurt my lungs. We both started having trouble with shampoos, etc. at

the same time. I try not to talk about this illness much but he

understands my need to read this site and others and do my writing,

etc. I hope in time some of you that have lost your spouses will get

back together again or will eventually meet someone that understands

this way of life which takes a love of understanding. Bless you all,

and I am always open to discussion. It has been a long ten years.

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