Some of those partners *may be the cause* of - the triggers for - AS misbehavior.

[Guest guest]

In the statement I made, I implied " sometimes it's the NT " who is that trigger.

Surely nobody's surprised at the possibility? It's no more complicated or

significant than that. It happens between NTs as well -- in the " best and most

admirable " of relationships.

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Bill:

Thanks and I can relate to that and agree. BUT, I would maintain as adults, we

are all responsible for our own behavior and how it affects others. We all have

to live by the same social norms that society expects of us. There are all

kinds of triggers that we all deal with on any given day. It is my humble

opinion that we need to learn what those triggers are and positive ways to

handle them so we can lead a healthy life.

Just my humble perspective.

Best.