Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Hi Sheila, Welcome to the group...I am sure you will make lots of friends here and get tons of encouragement on your " journey " . Best wishes, P. (Florida) melmikmalik@... wrote: Hello my name is Shelia Weston and I am a new member here. I am 31 years old and I have 3 children ages 10, 9, and 7. I decided to get a tubal in Aug 1994 after my son was born against the wishes on my husband and my doctor. I thought I could never want anymore children plus my family members said that I didnt need anymore. The past two years I have been struggling with wanting to have a child and have decided to have reversal surgery. I haven't decided on a date but hopefully I will work out all the details soon, make a few good friends, and get a surgery buddy. Looking forward to being a member here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 So glad to have you. I know I speak for everyone. The women here are just great! Good luck on everything. Hope it all works out well for you. New to group Hello my name is Shelia Weston and I am a new member here. I am 31 years old and I have 3 children ages 10, 9, and 7. I decided to get a tubal in Aug 1994 after my son was born against the wishes on my husband and my doctor. I thought I could never want anymore children plus my family members said that I didnt need anymore. The past two years I have been struggling with wanting to have a child and have decided to have reversal surgery. I haven't decided on a date but hopefully I will work out all the details soon, make a few good friends, and get a surgery buddy. Looking forward to being a member here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Welcome, I too am a fairly new addition to the group. I rarely post but read at least a hundred inspirational emails daily. These are the best bunch of women to turn to in your difficult time. I can identify with you very much. I too had a Tubal Ligation at 22yrs old. I have two children age 11 and 10. I have a husband now and we would like to add more children to our family. I have made the decision to have a TR/ and have chosen Dr. Levin to do the surgery in January. Thanks for listening-Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 I chose Dr. Levin initially because of the great price deal. I furthered my decision based upon our initial interview..He was very caring and totally interested in helping my family. Here in Chicago the price range is around 10k for the surgery not including any after care. The docs here it seemed felt like they were doing me a favor and I felt looked down upon. Dr. Levin never made me feel this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 how my goodness you should like me LOL I am 29 now and had my tr.. I was 21 when i had the tl My childrens ages are 11 and almost 9 now... I know what you mean the dr let me have the tl at age 21 with no questions either. Well now i have a new man that has no children and i had my reversal on feb 27 2001 and i am now 20.5 weeks pregnant with one tube.. Glad you found the group. Kim canada New to group Hi. My name is Elling and I am new to this group. I am 28 years old and have two children ages 8, and 10. I have been contemplating having a TR for a long time now. I had my TL when I was only 21 and my doctor allowed me to do it with no questions asked. I have regretted that decision ever since. But when you are 21 you think that you know it all. I am looking forward to being a part of this group and hearing about other women's experiences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Congratulations Kim! Sounds like we are in the same boat. My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't have any children either. I want so badly to be able to give him that gift. After finding this site, I finally feel like there is hope. Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Colleen, Thank you for sharing. If you don't mind my asking, what inspired you to choose doctor Levine? That is my biggest struggle right now. > Welcome, > I too am a fairly new addition to the group. I rarely post but read at least > a hundred inspirational emails daily. These are the best bunch of women to > turn to in your difficult time. I can identify with you very much. I too had > a Tubal Ligation at 22yrs old. I have two children age 11 and 10. I have a > husband now and we would like to add more children to our family. I have made > the decision to have a TR/ and have chosen Dr. Levin to do the surgery in > January. Thanks for listening-Colleen > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 There is hope don't worry about that,, I know what you mean about wanting to give him that gift.. My hubby and i have been together for 8 years this april coming it took me awhile to save and get right into it saying i am finally going to do it. Do you have a dr picked out? I am in canada i had a doctor here do it. Kim Re: New to group Congratulations Kim! Sounds like we are in the same boat. My boyfriend of 2 years doesn't have any children either. I want so badly to be able to give him that gift. After finding this site, I finally feel like there is hope. Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 I have gotten that feeling from a couple of doctors that I have seen here in Minnesota too. That is why I have started looking elsewhere. So you are getting your TR in January? > I chose Dr. Levin initially because of the great price deal. I furthered my > decision based upon our initial interview..He was very caring and totally > interested in helping my family. Here in Chicago the price range is around > 10k for the surgery not including any after care. The docs here it seemed > felt like they were doing me a favor and I felt looked down upon. > Dr. Levin never made me feel this way. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 I don't have a doctor picked out yet. I have heard good things both about Dr. Berger and about Dr. Levin. > There is hope don't worry about that,, I know what you mean about wanting to give him that gift.. My hubby and i have been together for 8 years this april coming it took me awhile to save and get right into it saying i am finally going to do it. > Do you have a dr picked out? > I am in canada i had a doctor here do it. > Kim > Re: New to group > > > Congratulations Kim! Sounds like we are in the same boat. My > boyfriend of 2 years doesn't have any children either. I want so > badly to be able to give him that gift. After finding this site, I > finally feel like there is hope. Thank you! > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Hi , Welcome to the group. I hope that you enjoy your stay here. There are alot of wonderful people on here. If you have any questions just ask. love to you, moe Re: New to group > Congratulations Kim! Sounds like we are in the same boat. My > boyfriend of 2 years doesn't have any children either. I want so > badly to be able to give him that gift. After finding this site, I > finally feel like there is hope. Thank you! > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 yea I know what you mean I was 20 when I had my tubes tied but praise the Lord last feb I had em reversed. Best wishes on your Journey. sharon w Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Welcome to the group! You will find some great friends!! and I hope a few surgery buddies. Frannie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2001 Report Share Posted November 29, 2001 Welcome to the group! You will find some wonderful ladies here. I know what you mean about having your tubes tied at 21, no ???'s asked. Boy was I stupid and so was the doc! Frannie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2001 Report Share Posted November 30, 2001 Well, I have to admit that I was 23 before I had my tubes tied. My doctor didn't try to talk me out of it but he did do me a huge favor when he did the ligation. He used the falope rings. I was thinking of a ligation after my second child and the doctor I was seeing with her refused to do it. He told me that I was too young and that he knew of a woman who had her tubes tied and then her whole family, (husband and 3 children were killed in a car accident). He absolutely refused to do the surgery. I about fell over. I wish more doctors were like him. Then perhaps not so many of us would be in the situation we are now. But then Dr. Levin wouldn't have a job. So there are drawbacks. Just wanted to add my two cents in here. love ya'll. moe Re: New to group > Welcome to the group! You will find some wonderful ladies here. I know what > you mean about having your tubes tied at 21, no ???'s asked. Boy was I stupid > and so was the doc! > > Frannie > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2001 Report Share Posted November 30, 2001 Good Luck in choosing your doc for your TR. There is a lot of good docs out there. Just do your research. I used Dr Levin and glad I did, he's a great doc. The women here have used several different docs so you'll get lots of in put on them all. Many have had success too. Welcome to the group, Donna --- jessica.elling@... wrote: > I don't have a doctor picked out yet. I have heard > good things both > about Dr. Berger and about Dr. Levin. > > > > There is hope don't worry about that,, I know what > you mean about > wanting to give him that gift.. My hubby and i have > been together for > 8 years this april coming it took me awhile to save > and get right > into it saying i am finally going to do it. > > Do you have a dr picked out? > > I am in canada i had a doctor here do it. > > Kim > > Re: New to > group > > > > > > Congratulations Kim! Sounds like we are in the > same boat. My > > boyfriend of 2 years doesn't have any children > either. I want so > > badly to be able to give him that gift. After > finding this site, > I > > finally feel like there is hope. Thank you! > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2001 Report Share Posted November 30, 2001 Kim Congrats on being PG! And welcome to the group. That will help to encourage some of the women here with 1 tube. They say it only takes 1 tube and you are proof of that! :-) 20 weeks you don't have much further to go. Give us your info and we'll add you to the baby shower we are doing for the other PG ladies in the group. I also had my TL at age 21 but my doc did try to talk me out of it. I was just too stubborn to listen. Now I'm 34 been with my DH for 12 years and he's helped raise my 3 kids (ages 14,15,16). I had my TR 8-20-01 and TTC. He has no children (other than these 3) and we want 1 together very badly. Welcome to the group, Donna --- Kimberley wrote: > how my goodness you should like me LOL > I am 29 now and had my tr.. > I was 21 when i had the tl > My childrens ages are 11 and almost 9 now... > I know what you mean the dr let me have the tl at > age 21 with no questions either. Well now i have a > new man that has no children and > i had my reversal on feb 27 2001 and i am now 20.5 > weeks pregnant with one tube.. > > Glad you found the group. > Kim canada > New to group > > > Hi. My name is Elling and I am new to this > group. I am 28 > years old and have two children ages 8, and 10. I > have been > contemplating having a TR for a long time now. I > had my TL when I was > only 21 and my doctor allowed me to do it with no > questions asked. I > have regretted that decision ever since. But when > you are 21 you > think that you know it all. I am looking forward > to being a part of > this group and hearing about other women's > experiences. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2001 Report Share Posted November 30, 2001 Welcome , My name is Donna I'm 34 and also had my TL at 21. I have 3 kids ages 14,15, & 16. I just had my TR 8-20-01 and looking forward to making a new addition to our family soon (I HOPE) Been with my DH for 12 years now and he has already made a great father to these 3 but we are both wanting atleast 1 more. Look forward to getting to know ya. Donna --- jessica.elling@... wrote: > Hi. My name is Elling and I am new to this > group. I am 28 > years old and have two children ages 8, and 10. I > have been > contemplating having a TR for a long time now. I had > my TL when I was > only 21 and my doctor allowed me to do it with no > questions asked. I > have regretted that decision ever since. But when > you are 21 you > think that you know it all. I am looking forward to > being a part of > this group and hearing about other women's > experiences. > > ===== Donna Fannin 34 DH Kenny 33 DD's Angie & 15 & 16 DS (bubby)14 TL 3-15-88 TR 8-20-01 __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2001 Report Share Posted November 30, 2001 Thanks Donna. I look forward to getting to know you as well. > > Hi. My name is Elling and I am new to this > > group. I am 28 > > years old and have two children ages 8, and 10. I > > have been > > contemplating having a TR for a long time now. I had > > my TL when I was > > only 21 and my doctor allowed me to do it with no > > questions asked. I > > have regretted that decision ever since. But when > > you are 21 you > > think that you know it all. I am looking forward to > > being a part of > > this group and hearing about other women's > > experiences. > > > > > > > ===== > Donna Fannin 34 > DH Kenny 33 > DD's Angie & 15 & 16 > DS (bubby)14 > TL 3-15-88 TR 8-20-01 > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2004 Report Share Posted August 1, 2004 Hi Lynn, Thanks for your prayers. Right now there is so much going on that I can Hardly keep my head screwed on straight. The VA as a whole is bar none, but even here in WNY, vets would kill to be sent there for what ever ails them. God Bless, Rue --- RO wrote: > HI RUE, > glad to have you with us. > my name is Lynn and i just sent my intro to new > members. I used to live in Akron which is not that > far from Cleveland. I hear their VA Hospital is one > of the best. > i hope you get up and out soon and are able to have > a good support team around you. > you are now added to my prayer list. > May you be blessed in all matters. > LOVE AND HAPPINESS; > FLOWERS AND BUTTERFLIES > LYNN ===== Rue Hesterly rue_hesterly@... __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2004 Report Share Posted August 1, 2004 Hi Jan, I too have been through lots in order to make sure that the diagnoses is correct... keep wishing that they're wrong, but nope! I do believe that everything is starting to kick in. PT is just starting to pay off. I want things to go faster, but patience was never my strong suit. LOL. Rue --- Janet Atkinson wrote: > Howdy Rue:) > Great to meet you. Im Jan. Its great that you have > people who care about you making sure you are taken > care of, I think its fantastic. I myself was > diagnosed in 02 also and I have been thru the gamut > since then. Ive gone thru not walking, to walking > with a walker to a cane to now where I can walk > unaided, but not the most gracefully lol Do you find > with all the treatment that you are getting that its > helping somewhat? ===== Rue Hesterly rue_hesterly@... __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2006 Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 Dear Jo, Welcome to the group! When and if your friend is diagnosed with MS and is open to information about alternative treatments, please share with her the following information. By the grace of God, I put my MS symptoms into remission using an alternative treatment recommended by Edgar Cayce, a man many regard as the father of modern holistic medicine. Unfortunately, due to the complex, multifaceted nature of MS, Cayce's treatment does not work for everyone. The same goes for every other current approach (alternative or mainstream) to overcoming MS. What works for one person does not necessarily work for another. People with with MS need to find--usually by trial and error--what is effective for them and then stick to it religiously. Many MS patients have obtained varying degrees of symptomatic relief with diet, food supplements, exercise, detoxification, and a low stress lifestyle. There are many other strategies, however, that have also benefited MSers, including LDN, glyconutrients, and colloidal silver. For more information about these and other promising alternative approaches to treating MS, visit http://www.webspawner.com/users/directoryofmultalt/index.html With best wishes, Dudley Delany http://profiles.yahoo.com/dudley_delany Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2006 Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 Hi Jo, Your friend is very lucky to have you care so much. If you had read some previous posts, even family memebers can totally shun you when you get sick. I did the denial thing when I was ill and it was my way of saying " no, this is not going to happen to me " . Has she seen a chiropractor??? Has she been in any accidents or falls in her past??? She could have some pinched nerves in her back and neck. I would have her start there and perhaps its just something simple like that. Then you need to start sharing with her some of the results people are getting here with nutrition and other alternatives. If she knows there is hope and other options then she won't be so afraid. > > Hi there, my name is Jo, and I have just found out a good friend of > mine has been diagnosed with MS, although I have found out by > accident and she isnt aware that i know about it, so I wont tell her > I know so she can still have her privacy. > She has been suffering from headaches and neck pain for many years > now. But over the past six months, she has had severe neck pain and > has had partial paralysis to one side of her body, she says she can > still use her arm and walk but it feels heavy and numb. At christmas > she had an attack of tremors which lasted for a few hours, but > refused to go to the hospital. Lately over the last few weeks she has > often complained of not being able to see out of one eye and that > side of the face goes numb as well, to the point of one time not able > to speak properly. When she gets the pain in her neck and back, she > mentions that its like they have been put in a vice and is being > squeezed, Is that a normal thing? > Her GP, wants her to go for more tests and an MRI, but she is too > scared to go and short of dragging her there i cant really do much. I > think she is scared that the illness has started to progress, but a > part of her isnt accepting that she has a problem either. > The main thing i would like to know is , is there any family or > friends of sufferers that can give me any tips on how to support her > when she is ready to deal with all of this. > I thank you all in advance for any help you can give me, JO. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2006 Report Share Posted March 22, 2006 Hi Jo, It sounds like she ought to read this E Book. click on this http://www.ms-success.com veru important that she read this. od Bless, Kathy --- jo wrote: > Hi there, my name is Jo, and I have just found out a > good friend of > mine has been diagnosed with MS, although I have > found out by > accident and she isnt aware that i know about it, so > I wont tell her > I know so she can still have her privacy. > She has been suffering from headaches and neck pain > for many years > now. But over the past six months, she has had > severe neck pain and > has had partial paralysis to one side of her body, > she says she can > still use her arm and walk but it feels heavy and > numb. At christmas > she had an attack of tremors which lasted for a few > hours, but > refused to go to the hospital. Lately over the last > few weeks she has > often complained of not being able to see out of one > eye and that > side of the face goes numb as well, to the point of > one time not able > to speak properly. When she gets the pain in her > neck and back, she > mentions that its like they have been put in a vice > and is being > squeezed, Is that a normal thing? > Her GP, wants her to go for more tests and an MRI, > but she is too > scared to go and short of dragging her there i cant > really do much. I > think she is scared that the illness has started to > progress, but a > part of her isnt accepting that she has a problem > either. > The main thing i would like to know is , is there > any family or > friends of sufferers that can give me any tips on > how to support her > when she is ready to deal with all of this. > I thank you all in advance for any help you can give > me, JO. > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 23, 2006 Report Share Posted May 23, 2006 Dear , Welcome to the group! By the grace of God, I put my MS symptoms into remission using an alternative treatment recommended by Edgar Cayce, a man many regard as the father of modern holistic medicine. Unfortunately, due to the complex, multifaceted nature of MS, Cayce's treatment does not work for everyone. The same goes for every other current approach (alternative or mainstream) to overcoming MS. What works for one person does not necessarily work for another. People with with MS need to find--usually by trial and error--what is effective for them and then stick to it religiously. Many MS patients have obtained varying degrees of symptomatic relief with a diet low in saturated fat diet (e.g., the Best Bet Diet), food supplements, exercise, detoxification, and a low stress lifestyle. There are many other strategies, however, that have also benefited MSers, including Low Dose Naltrexone (LDN), Glyconutrients, bee stings, the Prokarin Patch, and colloidal silver. For more information about these and other promising alternative approaches to treating MS, visit http://www.webspawner.com/users/directoryofmultalt/index.html With best wishes, Dudley Delany http://profiles.yahoo.com/dudley_delany Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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