Guest guest Posted November 10, 2008 Report Share Posted November 10, 2008 Tristan was nonverbal until he was four years old. I taught him sign language even though people didn’t think he understood what we were saying. Then I was told he wouldn’t be able to sign because of his fine motor skill impairments. I taught him anyway and you know what, eventually he was learning several signs a day! His signs weren’t exactly what I was showing him because of his fine motor skills so we adapted them to what he was able to do with his hands and fingers. As long as he was consistently using the same sign for a word then we used it. Kim is right. You never know! Buffy Krajewski Arbonne International Executive District Manager Independent Consultant #16447105 www.nevergiveup.myarbonne.com From: mb12 valtrex [mailto:mb12 valtrex ] On Behalf Of Sent: Monday, November 10, 2008 2:39 PM To: mb12 valtrex Subject: [sPAM]Re: Blood Draw Advice? Well, you are very smart to call ahead and make sure they accomodate you. I eneded up speaking with the Director of the lab, told him Iam bringing in two ASD boys and need your help. He did make an appt for me, got me right in and had his best people there to draw blood, that was fantastic b/c they were very quick!! I did put numbing cream on them before we went and re applied, that helped alot. My 6 yr old is much harder to hold down and all that b.c he is bigger and now knows the drill, pretty much started freaking out in the parking lot. I have a sedative for him now and a MP3 player, so he can listen to his music. He still freaks out, and its not easy, holding him down and all that, but I just try to stay calm and tell him he's doing great, its almost over, etc. Then after its done, I take them to the Halmark store and they each pick out a Webkinz b/c that is their favorite reward. Btw, when my son was 3 he was non verbal also, but he learned sign lang by watching Signing Time videos and started communicating. All that time I thought he never understood a word I was saying but I was wrong. You just never know. xoxo From: Lainna Bracy Subject: Re: Blood Draw Advice? To: mb12 valtrex Date: Monday, November 10, 2008, 10:48 AM Ok, I am in the SAME boat as amysnow here- The testing MUST be done, but my 3yo will NOT allow it... is non-verbal, CAN understand us, but I dont know how much... VERY strong.. So I am anxiously awaiting the ansers you guys have.... From: amyisnow2 <amyisnow2yahoo (DOT) com> To: mb12 valtrex@ yahoogroups. com Sent: Monday, November 10, 2008 1:27:27 PM Subject: Blood Draw Advice? Hi Everyone, I can no longer delay the inevitable; my son needs to get his blood drawn. This kid freaks out if you look too closely at him so I'm not anticipating a smooth ride here. Any suggestions from veterans on how I can make this less traumatic for my son? I am trying to locate a laboratory that will " accommodate " us by serving us at a specific time (hopefully before their open hours), getting a chance to see the room first and possibly see mommy get her arm strapped down a couple of days before, making sure they understand that they're going to need at least 3-4 people involved etc. I'm starting to make myself sick with the anticipation so I really just need to get this done. Any advice you have to offer is appreciated! And BTW, dad will be available to 'help' but he projects more anxiety than the kid with stuff like this so I'm not sure it's going to be a lot of help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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