2 y/o son says NO to everything

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and is getting frustrated easily and throwing toys! Also, cries when

placed at the table to eat! Actually whines and cries easily over

anything that doesn't go his way. I am so frustrated as well, because

I don't want him to be so unhappy. He says NO to everything from

going to take a bath, take his clothes off, change diaper, sit at the

table, eating. I am at my wits end. He loves to play at his train

table, but gets so easily frustrated if the track comes apart or the

train doesn't do what he wants it to, that he squeals and throws the

train across the room. He throws his fork as well. He kisses and

hugs on his 1 y/o little brother but then the next minute is pushing

him out down and hitting him on top of the head.

I honestly don't have a diagnosis as of yet, but I never know what is

typical for a terrible 2 and what might be considered autistic like.

Hayden was born 10 weeks premature and has significant sensory issues

which we are seeing an OT for, but speaks very well for a 2 y/o. In

sentences, and seems to understand MOST things. However, will not say

Yes to anything. He asks for things, brings me things, but his eye

contact is not what I think it should be. He also doesn't like to eat

and has mushy poops for the most part. Occasionally he might have a

firm stool and once in a blue moon runny stool.

We are on CLO, Brainchild minerals, Klaire lab probiotics, houston

digestive enzymes, Inositol, Larch, colostrum, melatonin, and an

appetite stimulant (periactin), poly vi sol multivitamin, and ferritin

for his low iron. Getting ready to begin Sy Immune and Sy

Detox(homeopathic) and DMG.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

TIA~Christy