Guest guest Posted February 1, 2012 Report Share Posted February 1, 2012 Hi & welcome to ASPIRES: Are you getting any help for you and your issues that have risen from this relationship? I only ask as you can only change yourself and not him. Somethimes talking to a good counselor/therapist can really help you get healthy again. You need to stay strong for you and your kids. He is a BIG boy and you are not responsible for his behavior. I am sending you positive energy and cyber hugs! Been there, done the work and its HARD work! I don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend has Asperger's and things have gotten really bad. First I will give you an idea of the situation. I'm a 28 year old divorced mother of three children ages 4, 7 and 8. My boyfriend is 30 years old, no children of his own, never been married (has only had one real girlfriend ever prior to our relationship). He's a musician and that's really his only interest, but he has not been able to play music for the past year on any regular basis, which I think is one part of the problem. He is unemployed except for a part time job (an hour a day 5 days a week cleaning a bank.) He has been seeing a therapist for quite a while now, and has started taking zoloft in November and recently when I went to his psychiatrist with him and begged them to do something more to help, he has been taking risperdal. He has incredibly high levels of anxiety almost all the time. He panics at just having to get out of bed in the morning and face the day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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