When it is time to end it............

[Guest guest]

Wow! You have to know when it is time to call it a day and end the relationship

that is no longer healthy for you. Whether AS plays a role or not is a moot

point if the relationship becomes toxic for one or both of you.

Good for you in getting out when you did and knowing you needed help. I finally

got to that point as well. It was finally time for both of us to end it, heal

and begin living again. It was new beginnings for both of us and it sounds like

for you too! I hope things are going well for you!

Best.

I left when I knew that one of us would end up dead, by my hand, and I really

didn't have a preference whether it was him or me. I had an elaborate fantasy

about burning the house down, because so many of our fights were over the house

and money; then I figured I'd do it with me inside; then (and I liked this idea

even better) I figured I'd kill him and burn the house down with us both inside.

About then I figured that I had a problem, so I left.