Guest guest Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Welcome Jess: You have joined a wonderful group of people here. You are so right, no one here wanted to hear that they have RA. It reared its ugly head on me 6 1/2 years ago. Allwe can do, is deal with it as best we can. I just go day by day, as that is all I can handle. Take care of yourself, and rest when you can. Again, welcome here. Hugs, Barbara --- In , " jessicapani " <jessicapani@...> wrote: > > Just wanted to introduce myself to everyone in the group, my name is and I'm 34 years old I was just told last week (after 5 years of doctors and tests)that I have RA and Fibromyalgia. I have a great RA doctor and she put me on Plaquenil and Ibprophen. I'm on heart meds as well for other issues. I'm glad this group is here, as supportive as my husband and family are they just don't understand the amount pain and exaustion I'm dealing with 24hrs a day. And I'm not a complainer I always look on the bright side, or at least try to but I have to admit that although I'm glad to have an answer after all these years this wasn't the answer I was expecting and I'm still processing it. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2010 Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2010 Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 Sorry to hear that antoinette. Are you saying that this group has used you? what happened? If you dont mind explaining, or email me privately, maybe I can help.MicheleFrom: Antoinette H <antoinette.hummel@...>Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone Date: Monday, May 10, 2010, 11:02 AM Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 10, 2010 Report Share Posted May 10, 2010 It's family. No one in the group . No worries. My family hurt me a lot. The thing is I am giving them permission to do so. I need to let go more. On Mon, May 10, 2010 at 1:36 PM, michele horton <epifany97523@...> wrote: Sorry to hear that antoinette. Are you saying that this group has used you? what happened? If you dont mind explaining, or email me privately, maybe I can help. Michele From: Antoinette H <antoinette.hummel@...>Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone Date: Monday, May 10, 2010, 11:02 AM Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2010 Report Share Posted May 11, 2010 Hi Antoinette,I know I have problems with family too. A daughter, that gives me more grief than having 10 kids and a mother that always yells at me for things that she wants me to do, when she can do them herself.Yes as Joy says, we are here because we elected to be here to experience all the pain and all the pleasure. Sometimes though, there is more pain than pleasure, and when that happens, you need to look over and access why? Then try to eliminate what you can get rid of to make your life easier to live.I also found that writing things down, I have a journal, so that I can remember what transpired in the past to learn from, so that in the future it wont repeat again. Though sometimes things are out of your control, so what do you do then?You try to accept the people for who they are, and you can not change these people, only you can change the way you look at these people, or situations that has happened.Know that you are not alone in this Antoinette, indeed I go through these things all the time.If you need someone to talk to, you can email me privately, I would be happy to hear from you.Blessings, Michele From: Antoinette H <antoinette.hummel@ gmail.com>Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone Date: Monday, May 10, 2010, 11:02 AM Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2010 Report Share Posted May 11, 2010 Thank you Michele. I am just hurt. . I need to refocus. I am in so many goups that I thought it might be a good idea to get out. At least for a while. On Mon, May 10, 2010 at 5:10 PM, michele horton <epifany97523@...> wrote: Hi Antoinette, I know I have problems with family too. A daughter, that gives me more grief than having 10 kids and a mother that always yells at me for things that she wants me to do, when she can do them herself. Yes as Joy says, we are here because we elected to be here to experience all the pain and all the pleasure. Sometimes though, there is more pain than pleasure, and when that happens, you need to look over and access why? Then try to eliminate what you can get rid of to make your life easier to live. I also found that writing things down, I have a journal, so that I can remember what transpired in the past to learn from, so that in the future it wont repeat again. Though sometimes things are out of your control, so what do you do then? You try to accept the people for who they are, and you can not change these people, only you can change the way you look at these people, or situations that has happened. Know that you are not alone in this Antoinette, indeed I go through these things all the time. If you need someone to talk to, you can email me privately, I would be happy to hear from you. Blessings, Michele From: Antoinette H <antoinette.hummel@ gmail.com>Subject: [ ] Hi Everyone Date: Monday, May 10, 2010, 11:02 AM Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 11, 2010 Report Share Posted May 11, 2010 Cound you fix it for me. I sure would apreiate it. On Mon, May 10, 2010 at 6:11 PM, Joyce Hudson <bjoyful@...> wrote: Been there and done that. Now I only communicate on this group. I am on 2 other groups, but I only read, when I feel like it, which is rare. I quit rest of my groups, about 2 years ago. And just am not interested nor have the time to participate any more. [ ] Hi Everyone Date: Monday, May 10, 2010, 11:02 AM Things are changing so quickly around here , that I was thinking of droping all groups. Things just are not right here. I feel used and because of who I am , I can't stop it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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