Guest guest Posted December 6, 2008 Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 I am a female that is morbidly obese that does not feel good with my weight. I am on a New diet where I have to measure my foods and do about 30 minutes on the treadmill everyday so I can lose some weight before I can Qualify for Lap Band Surgery in about 6 Months. I have some questions my questions are: 1. Does anyone get throwing up Nausea and Have Nausea feelings when they eat too much food? 2. Is there anyone that cannot fit on rides like roller coasters at amusement parks like me? 3. I have had a lot of problems with loseing weight is there anyone that can support me while I am trying to lose weight? 4. Is there any weight Support groups I can Join if so can someone please send me an invite? I am looking for e-mail pen pals that will accept a letter around 6 months for me because I am a Very Busy person that has a very busy lifestyle that live in a group home. Some of my hobbies include pen palling, making new friends and listening to music. My interests include pets, sports, church bells, camping and movies. If you know the answers to the questions above or would like to be my e-mail pen pal please e-mail me at CHANNING28105@... CHANNING28270@... CHANCHAN79@... Channing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 9, 2008 Report Share Posted December 9, 2008 Hi Channing, i don't know if you want to hear this, i am currently putting on weight that i lost during the summer, i noe sit in a motor vehicle about 3 to 5 hours per day during the week and sit behind my computer during my time off work, and hope to get more walking completed. I hope you can loose your weight without the surgery, cheer up about yourself and replace the morbid thoughts , those thoughts do you no good, pick a better thought to keep in your mind, all the best from Bill > > I am a female that is morbidly obese that does not feel good with my > weight. I am on a New diet where I have to measure my foods and do > about 30 minutes on the treadmill everyday so I can lose some weight > before I can Qualify for Lap Band Surgery in about 6 Months. I have > some questions my questions are: > 1. Does anyone get throwing up Nausea and Have Nausea feelings when > they eat too much food? > 2. Is there anyone that cannot fit on rides like roller coasters at > amusement parks like me? > 3. I have had a lot of problems with loseing weight is there anyone > that can support me while I am trying to lose weight? > 4. Is there any weight Support groups I can Join if so can someone > please send me an invite? > > I am looking for e-mail pen pals that will accept a letter around 6 > months for me because I am a Very Busy person that has a very busy > lifestyle that live in a group home. Some of my hobbies include pen > palling, making new friends and listening to music. My interests > include pets, sports, church bells, camping and movies. > > If you know the answers to the questions above or would like to be my > e-mail pen pal please e-mail me at > > CHANNING28105@... > CHANNING28270@... > CHANCHAN79@... > > Channing > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 i ignore channings posts, they have been happening for years now. i feel for the girl, but there is nothing any of us can do for her, i am in Australia,how the heck can i do anything.......i think its simply her way of venting in her life, so i don't let it hassle me, i have too many other things in my life,to let a few messages upset me. Cheryl S [chez] To: Autism_in_Girls_and_Women From: marie.adams@... Date: Sun, 15 Apr 2012 18:03:13 -0700 Subject: Re: Hello Everyone CJ, it's too bad you're going to stop reading posts from this group bc of Channing's posts. I am going to not even open her posts now that I know there is a history to them. I would hate for you to leave bc of her posts. We have enough to do with our own family & we need to help support those we can in this group. I, personally, appreciate your explanation of Channing's history. Marie > > FYI to the group.... > > The post below was not motivated by anything that happened in this > group. It is a form letter, with the name of the group customized for > each mailing. > > This heavily cross-posted message was prompted by a discussion in > another group entirely, resulting in panic (on Channing's part) that > someone might somehow threaten her situation with her family. This is > an overreaction, as no one suggested anything even remotely like that. > > I think at this point I am going to switch to no-messages in this > group. It's just too frustrating to see (yet another) one of my groups > become dominated by Channing's issues alone. I realize that I have > contributed to the problem by explaining some of the history in response > to the concerns of others, for which I apologize. > > I may post the occasional article that may be of interest to the group, > but I will not be reading group messages in the future. If anyone would > like to contact me, please do so offline. > > Best, > ~CJ > > > > > > I read in some of the posts that people are planning to Call Adult > Protective services, The Department of social Services, and Disability > Rights and Once this happens since they know my mom is my Guardian my mom > will find out what has happened in the Autism in Girls and women online > group and then She will be angry at me Because of what I posted in the > Autism in Girls and Women Online Group even if they are asking her if she > wants extra services or help as a Guardian Since the people in the Autism > in Girls and women online group are thinking my mother is not doing a good > Job at all as a Guardian Places like Adult Protective Services, The > Department of Social services and Disability Rights Could possibly take the > Guardian ship away from my mother because of everything I posted in the > Autism in Girls and Women online group . I will let you know my mom is > doing her best job at what she can do to get me more money for food stamps > by going to the court, my mom helps me with my finances and my mom who is > in charge of my finances says that I have no money for Jeans at all to > replace all of my Jeans that have holes in them because she has no money to > afford the Jeans and because I am unemployed and I have no money to afford > the Jeans ,my mom is the one that chose my living situation and wants me to > live near her I want to be near my mom also, my job coach is doing the best > that they can do to try to get me employed but the job market and economy > is so bad these days it could take years to get a Job. I am Scared that > someone is going to Call the Adult Protective Services, the Department of > social services and Disability rights from what I have posted in this > Autism in Girls and women online group > > > > Channing > > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > The Power Pumper makes physical therapy fun! Plus, funding sources are > available to provide a free Power Pumper to anyone who needs it. > ------------------------ > http://www.powerpumper.com/friends/jrox.php?uid=bridalsh > ------------------------ > Autism_in_Girls_and_Women-subscribe > ------------------------ > Autism_in_Girls_and_Women-unsubscribe@...! Groups Links > > > > -- Marie " I don't think the worst thing that could happen to me is having a child with special needs. I think the worst thing would be to raise a child who is cruel to people with special needs. " ~ Mickelson Butman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Hi all, OK, weighing in here. Just my two cents. I rarely post and only read when I can because of time constraints. I, too, might read just an original Channing post and then ignore the others. I find that taking a few seconds to read her post gives me the opportunity to do a mini-Metta, lovingkindness practice. I send her a little shot of love and compassion, then let it go. For me, my 19 year immersion in the Autism world has cultivated much respect and empathy for those on the Spectrum. My daughter perseverates endlessly on certain topics including events that happened a full ten years ago. She is doing the best she can and I want the world to treat her kindly and with respect rather than dismiss her based on the frequency and annoyance factor of her perseverations. I am NOT telling anyone what to do, just sharing my perspective. I choose to occasioanally read Channing's posts, send her a little love, and delete when I feel moved to. This group has so many caring and smart people in it and I personally wouldn't turn that off because someone ( with a disability, mind you!) who is able to express herself via computer does so in a particular way and with some frequency. Peace to all, Melinda In a message dated 4/15/2012 7:47:05 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, D22@... writes: CJ, Channing really does not do this constantly, we often go quite a while without having an incident. If you will have some patience, it will die down in a few days as long as we don't feed her need for attention. I read her original post to be sure it is the usual thing, then delete most of what follows without opening it. I just do a very occasional checkin to see if it's running it's course. I am too much of an empath myself, so I can't participate in her flareups without becoming upset for her safety myself. I absolutely know I can't make a change in her behavior, so I have to short-circuit the cause of my discomfort (mostly by not looking or participating). Channing would not continue to behave this way if she did not have her needs met by it. She is having success or she would stop. Therefore, the need that is being met is probably attention, not the need actually expressed in the particular email. To stop the behavior, we all have to stop responding to it. Sandi In a message dated 4/15/2012 6:30:09 P.M. Central Daylight Time, _clegge@..._ (mailto:clegge@...) writes: FYI to the group.... The post below was not motivated by anything that happened in this group. It is a form letter, with the name of the group customized for each mailing. This heavily cross-posted message was prompted by a discussion in another group entirely, resulting in panic (on Channing's part) that someone might somehow threaten her situation with her family. This is an overreaction, as no one suggested anything even remotely like that. I think at this point I am going to switch to no-messages in this group. It's just too frustrating to see (yet another) one of my groups become dominated by Channing's issues alone. I realize that I have contributed to the problem by explaining some of the history in response to the concerns of others, for which I apologize. I may post the occasional article that may be of interest to the group, but I will not be reading group messages in the future. If anyone would like to contact me, please do so offline. Best, ~CJ > I read in some of the posts that people are planning to Call Adult Protective services, The Department of social Services, and Disability Rights and Once this happens since they know my mom is my Guardian my mom will find out what has happened in the Autism in Girls and women online group and then She will be angry at me Because of what I posted in the Autism in Girls and Women Online Group even if they are asking her if she wants extra services or help as a Guardian Since the people in the Autism in Girls and women online group are thinking my mother is not doing a good Job at all as a Guardian Places like Adult Protective Services, The Department of Social services and Disability Rights Could possibly take the Guardian ship away from my mother because of everything I posted in the Autism in Girls and Women online group . I will let you know my mom is doing her best job at what she can do to get me more money for food stamps by going to the court, my mom helps me with my finances and my mom who is in charge of my finances says that I have no money for Jeans at all to replace all of my Jeans that have holes in them because she has no money to afford the Jeans and because I am unemployed and I have no money to afford the Jeans ,my mom is the one that chose my living situation and wants me to live near her I want to be near my mom also, my job coach is doing the best that they can do to try to get me employed but the job market and economy is so bad these days it could take years to get a Job. I am Scared that someone is going to Call the Adult Protective Services, the Department of social services and Disability rights from what I have posted in this Autism in Girls and women online group > > Channing > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 16, 2012 Report Share Posted April 16, 2012 Well, thats what i mean, we know channing has aspergers and maybe a little more, so why should we be upset with her messages? we know nowfrom the continuous presence, that she is pretending, she isn't being someone she isn't, so we should just go with it. i am amazed that she communicates as wellas she does and so wish my daughter could get half the words out she can. Cheryl S [chez] To: Autism_in_Girls_and_Women From: EbuyerMTC@... Date: Mon, 16 Apr 2012 07:52:27 -0400 Subject: Re: Hello Everyone Hi all, OK, weighing in here. Just my two cents. I rarely post and only read when I can because of time constraints. I, too, might read just an original Channing post and then ignore the others. I find that taking a few seconds to read her post gives me the opportunity to do a mini-Metta, lovingkindness practice. I send her a little shot of love and compassion, then let it go. For me, my 19 year immersion in the Autism world has cultivated much respect and empathy for those on the Spectrum. My daughter perseverates endlessly on certain topics including events that happened a full ten years ago. She is doing the best she can and I want the world to treat her kindly and with respect rather than dismiss her based on the frequency and annoyance factor of her perseverations. I am NOT telling anyone what to do, just sharing my perspective. I choose to occasioanally read Channing's posts, send her a little love, and delete when I feel moved to. This group has so many caring and smart people in it and I personally wouldn't turn that off because someone ( with a disability, mind you!) who is able to express herself via computer does so in a particular way and with some frequency. Peace to all, Melinda In a message dated 4/15/2012 7:47:05 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, D22@... writes: CJ, Channing really does not do this constantly, we often go quite a while without having an incident. If you will have some patience, it will die down in a few days as long as we don't feed her need for attention. I read her original post to be sure it is the usual thing, then delete most of what follows without opening it. I just do a very occasional checkin to see if it's running it's course. I am too much of an empath myself, so I can't participate in her flareups without becoming upset for her safety myself. I absolutely know I can't make a change in her behavior, so I have to short-circuit the cause of my discomfort (mostly by not looking or participating). Channing would not continue to behave this way if she did not have her needs met by it. She is having success or she would stop. Therefore, the need that is being met is probably attention, not the need actually expressed in the particular email. To stop the behavior, we all have to stop responding to it. Sandi In a message dated 4/15/2012 6:30:09 P.M. Central Daylight Time, _clegge@..._ (mailto:clegge@...) writes: FYI to the group.... The post below was not motivated by anything that happened in this group. It is a form letter, with the name of the group customized for each mailing. This heavily cross-posted message was prompted by a discussion in another group entirely, resulting in panic (on Channing's part) that someone might somehow threaten her situation with her family. This is an overreaction, as no one suggested anything even remotely like that. I think at this point I am going to switch to no-messages in this group. It's just too frustrating to see (yet another) one of my groups become dominated by Channing's issues alone. I realize that I have contributed to the problem by explaining some of the history in response to the concerns of others, for which I apologize. I may post the occasional article that may be of interest to the group, but I will not be reading group messages in the future. If anyone would like to contact me, please do so offline. Best, ~CJ > I read in some of the posts that people are planning to Call Adult Protective services, The Department of social Services, and Disability Rights and Once this happens since they know my mom is my Guardian my mom will find out what has happened in the Autism in Girls and women online group and then She will be angry at me Because of what I posted in the Autism in Girls and Women Online Group even if they are asking her if she wants extra services or help as a Guardian Since the people in the Autism in Girls and women online group are thinking my mother is not doing a good Job at all as a Guardian Places like Adult Protective Services, The Department of Social services and Disability Rights Could possibly take the Guardian ship away from my mother because of everything I posted in the Autism in Girls and Women online group . I will let you know my mom is doing her best job at what she can do to get me more money for food stamps by going to the court, my mom helps me with my finances and my mom who is in charge of my finances says that I have no money for Jeans at all to replace all of my Jeans that have holes in them because she has no money to afford the Jeans and because I am unemployed and I have no money to afford the Jeans ,my mom is the one that chose my living situation and wants me to live near her I want to be near my mom also, my job coach is doing the best that they can do to try to get me employed but the job market and economy is so bad these days it could take years to get a Job. I am Scared that someone is going to Call the Adult Protective Services, the Department of social services and Disability rights from what I have posted in this Autism in Girls and women online group > > Channing > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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