Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 a,The site of people chewing gum, especially those that I know I have to be with can still, at 60 years old, be very upsetting to me. Young people seem to have a more difficult time with Miso/4S since they have not yet developed sufficient coping mechanisms. When I was a teenager, in the "60's" I remember staying stoned on Pot and and alcohol and other drugs and isolating myself much of the time. It got worse as I got into my later teens. I didn't mind being alone as much when I was "high". It is very sad now that I think about it. I missed out on so much and have felt that loss throughout most of my life. When I was 40 I got divorced and acted outthat loss of my youth for about 10 years. A grown man acting like a teenager. Pretty pathetic. Another wonderful side effect of this disease.But I eventually cleaned up my act and began a fairly strict regimen of diet, exercise, gradual socialization, spiritual advancement,prayer and just just plain maturity. I live a fairly normal life now. I have learned how to better avoid trigger situations. My point here is that young people have not learned how to arrange their lives so they can live with this. Teenage hormones don't help any either. I believe that going forward more accommodations will be made now that we are increasing awareness of our problem. But your 15 year old will have to learn what works best for her. She may need to tell friends, teacher, and future employers of her problem. She may need to learn to be more assertive. And I think that proper diet(watch the sugar and junk!),exercise and relaxation methods will bea big help to her. Intense aerobic exercise helps moods and releases endorphins that relax the mind and body. It has saved my life. Luckily she has you to help her as well as this group. It will probably take time and patience, but there really is no other choice. There is hope!Best of luck with your daughter.Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Wednesday, May 23, 2012 9:21 PM Subject: other senses affected???? My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 I agree that teens have it extra hard with hormones and with a no sugar diet, no junk food and exercise and plenty of sleep, that's a big one for me. She may benefit from CBT as well as NFB nuerofeedback which has helped some of us and in 2 cases eliminated Misophonia all together (it took them 80 sessions, I'm only at session 17). Good luckHeidiSent from my iPhoneAsk me how to Get Real Amazing Skin with a Natural Productwww.heidisalerno.nerium.comHappy Dancing!www.jitterbal.comOn May 24, 2012, at 3:54 AM, Lawrence wrote: a,The site of people chewing gum, especially those that I know I have to be with can still, at 60 years old, be very upsetting to me. Young people seem to have a more difficult time with Miso/4S since they have not yet developed sufficient coping mechanisms. When I was a teenager, in the "60's" I remember staying stoned on Pot and and alcohol and other drugs and isolating myself much of the time. It got worse as I got into my later teens. I didn't mind being alone as much when I was "high". It is very sad now that I think about it. I missed out on so much and have felt that loss throughout most of my life. When I was 40 I got divorced and acted outthat loss of my youth for about 10 years. A grown man acting like a teenager. Pretty pathetic. Another wonderful side effect of this disease.But I eventually cleaned up my act and began a fairly strict regimen of diet, exercise, gradual socialization, spiritual advancement,prayer and just just plain maturity. I live a fairly normal life now. I have learned how to better avoid trigger situations. My point here is that young people have not learned how to arrange their lives so they can live with this. Teenage hormones don't help any either. I believe that going forward more accommodations will be made now that we are increasing awareness of our problem. But your 15 year old will have to learn what works best for her. She may need to tell friends, teacher, and future employers of her problem. She may need to learn to be more assertive. And I think that proper diet(watch the sugar and junk!),exercise and relaxation methods will bea big help to her. Intense aerobic exercise helps moods and releases endorphins that relax the mind and body. It has saved my life. Luckily she has you to help her as well as this group. It will probably take time and patience, but there really is no other choice. There is hope!Best of luck with your daughter.Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Wednesday, May 23, 2012 9:21 PM Subject: other senses affected???? My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 Sense your daughter is young, she may benefit from therapy offered by specially trained occupational therapies. They treat mostly children with sensory disorders. Unfortunately, it's hard to find these OT's and depends on where you live. I'm in the Dallas area and had access to specially trained occupational therapists. The therapies seem unorthodox, but so is this disorder. Perhaps you can contact them and ask if they know of any OT's in your area. http://www.ntxtherapyinnovations.com Some insurance companies cover it out-of-network. Good luck. Colleen > > My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 a, it's the same for me. I'm 14 years old. The sight of ny parents chewing or drinking FREAKS me out. Even if I don't hear or see it, and I know they're eating, I get anxious and its almost as if I'm imagining the sounds. I also get paranoid about them chewing, smacking gum, yawning etc. even if they aren't. It really sucks, but at least my parents and close relatives are my only trigger people. My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. = Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 My son is 9 years old and he is the same way. His sister is his main trigger person. If she is just holding a cup, not drinking anything, he begins to scream and go into a rage. It's no longer just about the sounds but the anticipation of the sound. He does have headphones that help when he is in his room and sometimes in the car. I know it is exhausting. It is comforting just to know other people are experiencing the same thing. > > My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 It is interesting you said your sons sister is his trigger- my younger daughter is also a HUGE trigger of my older daughter. I am at my wits end. I cant even ride in a car with them- I want to jump into traffic. Today my youngest wanted to bring a travel mug in the car- well her sister went NUTS.... refused to get in the car yelling. I said she wont drink it in the car- she said I dont care it is in the car and I will have to watch her blah blah blah. The younger one is freaking I wont drink it I want it when we get there etc.... I finally had to scream for the younger one to PLEASE leave the cup home so we could go!!!! It is crazy. I really wonder what this is doing to my youngest daughter - it has to be affecting her. Sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 24, 2012 Report Share Posted May 24, 2012 I read NFB helped, but two cured cases? Did I miss something? Hopefully, From: Heidi Salerno Sent: Thursday, May 24, 2012 4:18 AM To: Soundsensitivity Subject: Re: other senses affected???? I agree that teens have it extra hard with hormones and with a no sugar diet, no junk food and exercise and plenty of sleep, that's a big one for me. She may benefit from CBT as well as NFB nuerofeedback which has helped some of us and in 2 cases eliminated Misophonia all together (it took them 80 sessions, I'm only at session 17). Good luck Heidi Sent from my iPhone Ask me how to Get Real Amazing Skin with a Natural Product www.heidisalerno.nerium.com Happy Dancing! www.jitterbal.com a, The site of people chewing gum, especially those that I know I have to be with can still, at 60 years old, be very upsetting to me. Young people seem to have a more difficult time with Miso/4S since they have not yet developed sufficient coping mechanisms. When I was a teenager, in the "60's" I remember staying stoned on Pot and and alcohol and other drugs and isolating myself much of the time. It got worse as I got into my later teens. I didn't mind being alone as much when I was "high". It is very sad now that I think about it. I missed out on so much and have felt that loss throughout most of my life. When I was 40 I got divorced and acted out that loss of my youth for about 10 years. A grown man acting like a teenager. Pretty pathetic. Another wonderful side effect of this disease. But I eventually cleaned up my act and began a fairly strict regimen of diet, exercise, gradual socialization, spiritual advancement,prayer and just just plain maturity. I live a fairly normal life now. I have learned how to better avoid trigger situations. My point here is that young people have not learned how to arrange their lives so they can live with this. Teenage hormones don't help any either. I believe that going forward more accommodations will be made now that we are increasing awareness of our problem. But your 15 year old will have to learn what works best for her. She may need to tell friends, teacher, and future employers of her problem. She may need to learn to be more assertive. And I think that proper diet(watch the sugar and junk!),exercise and relaxation methods will be a big help to her. Intense aerobic exercise helps moods and releases endorphins that relax the mind and body. It has saved my life. Luckily she has you to help her as well as this group. It will probably take time and patience, but there really is no other choice. There is hope! Best of luck with your daughter. Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Wednesday, May 23, 2012 9:21 PMSubject: other senses affected???? My 15 year olds Misophonia is severe. I keep seeing people post about headphones and aides that send white noise etc... This would NEVER work for her because with gum for instance it is now the site of seeing people chew and the smell of it that also sets her off in addition to hearing the noises. Its so severe she knew her little sister had gum at a friends house and she freaked over it! Her sister wasnt even around her!!! But just the thought set her off. Are others in the same situation? It is really a FT job trying to deal with my daughters issues. It is tiring and wearing me out. I often think if someone doesnt find a cure she will be living with me at age 30. Ugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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