Re: [Spam 6.50] Re: Re: Interesting insights into sound and other sensitivities!

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Mike and Annie,I am not sold on past lives either, really against my believes. Its interesting your son will say, " I want to go home," when he is home. I have said that all my life, even when I am home. It just pops out now and then. Not sure why I say this ? I am starting to believe Misophonia is genetic, even through most people around me thinks its environmental.Until Friday night (20/20), I just thought I was overly temperamental, when I heard certain sounds that would drive me over.

My son, who is 9, has never had any trauma as far as I am aware. We are a very loving family and he was rarely with babysitters. He was born with some anxiety. He never trusted strangers, would not let me leave his side and it took a while for him to be OK with going to pre school. He just wasn't the kind of child who trusted that everything was going to be ok though. He is now very popular and outgoing, and competitive. Even a bit perfectionistic. He is still not usually interested in doing things that are unfamiliar. I have frequently wondered if he had some past life trauma. Not sure I believe in that, but he has made me wonder. When he was a little 2 or 3, he would be home and say "I want to go home." And I would say, 'you are home.'

I was a little bit nervous as a child too - I remember not wanting to go to school. I think his 'anxiety' could be genetic. I do think it possible that his anxiety morphed into the misophonia. He was about 7 when it happened.

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> For quite some time now I have had the opinion, based on the knowledge that I have , that most, if not all , irrational human aberrations have their origins is some physical, emotional or other trauma. Just myÂ

> opinion at present. I think that our "wires" get crossed and our chemicals get out of balance in reaction to these traumas. I also think the mind and the body work in concert. Even if we know or think we knowÂ

> where a problem started, it is of little use in undoing the damage. It seems to me that so much of these problems work on a deeper, and often subconscious level, making it difficult to treat.Â

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> I will have to look into PTSD a little more. Do they have any effective treatments that you know of?

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> I was recently thinking this might be the case also, at least for some people, and that led me to think about treatment specifically for PTSD. I’ve read that trauma can create changes in the brain that can sometimes be “undone†with specialized PTSD treatment. Might be worth looking into the details. . .

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> Â I found this information while doing some research. It is from a book , Self Analysis, by L. Ron Hubbard. Just put aside, for a moment ,any thoughts or feelings you might have regarding the man andÂ

> just read what he is saying about how people react to sound, touch, smell and other emotions. Scroll down to sound on page 132, touch 145, olfactory 138, and personal emotion 151.Â

> I have always felt that fear and some past trauma is somehow at the root of all this. Most of us are not just sound sensitive but also sensitive to other stimuli, touch,smells, sights.....

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I have no doubt whatsoever it is genetic and a nuerological condition. My paternal aunt has it, her daughter (my cousin), my dad's cousin, her daughter and my maternal grandmother all have it. And I was not raised anywhere near any of them to "learn" it from them, nor did we have similar upbringings. HeidiSent from my iPhone

Mike and Annie,I am not sold on past lives either, really against my believes. Its interesting your son will say, " I want to go home," when he is home. I have said that all my life, even when I am home. It just pops out now and then. Not sure why I say this ? I am starting to believe Misophonia is genetic, even through most people around me thinks its environmental.Until Friday night (20/20), I just thought I was overly temperamental, when I heard certain sounds that would drive me over.

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Adah, You are the last person I would want kicked off of this site. You are the most insightful and articulate writer. And I appreciate you candor. I too have been told that I am demon oppressed and with enough faith I could be rid of this demon/problem! My own children have told me as much among others. I had an emotionally abusive childhood. Alcoholic father/mother but only father was abusive. Not as bad as you and I feel for you and admire your courage and persistance with this.I don't know if deep prayer with alter DNA , but I won't rule anything out. I have a strong belief in God, but have mostly

gone the scientific route trying to treat Miso/4S.I knew when I wrote about this that I would push some buttons. But once in a while I like to speak my mind.Mike To: Soundsensitivity Sent: Tuesday, May 22, 2012 10:50 AM Subject: [spam 6.50] Re: Re: Interesting insights into sound and

other sensitivities!

Hopefully this will help:

It took over 20 years and a variety of modalities but I successfully treated for PTSD because I too was convinced that the sound sensitivity was my very reasonable physio-psycho response to being horrifically abused (beaten, raped, sold, etc) from the age of 3 until the last incident at age 16 - all at the hands of my father. It looks and feels like the perfect response to trauma, doesn't it?

It was about 4 years ago that I found folks with 4S/Miso but who did not share my history of abuse.

I am now a happily mal-adjusted American but with the added benefit of being more grateful than most, more understanding than most, more forgiving, and more introspective than most. Yes my father was misophonic and I totally understand the rage behind his behavior.

In my travels, I was told many things by wise and well-meaning negativity-bound folks: I was told that what is now known as 4S/Misophonia is my due because I'd abused someone in a past life or I had trauma past down to me via my DNA. If either of those (or other bits of great wise counsel) are true, someone just hand me a gun because I'm not going to play this anymore if there is no way I can be effective toward finding relief or a cure. I have been told that deep deep prayer might fix my DNA. But I find myself firmly based in science. In science, I have found the similarities between 4S/Miso and synesthesia, autism, epilepsy and maybe a few other ideas concerning calcium and neurotransmission and blood-brain barrier issues.

I know my tone of voice here might get me thrown off the site because I am not being very inclusive or tolerant right now, but we all need to be sensitive to the beliefs/nonbeliefs of others. I very rarely "lose it" like this but frankly: enough.

That's all. I'm done now. Thank you. No snipping for this on purpose.

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> > I am not sold on past lives either, really against my believes. Its interesting your son will say, " I want to go home," when he is home. I have said that all my life, even when I am home. It just pops out now and then. Not sure why I say this ? I am starting to believe Misophonia is genetic, even through most people around me thinks its environmental.

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