Re: So tired of this condition.

[Guest guest]

I have a child who " despise's " (sp?) Her father.  He has gurd problems, and his TV chair is right next to the computer.  She has misophonia...and will scream " JUST STOP IT!! STOP I! " when he makes an unintentinal stomach noise, or has to clear his throat.

 

I do my best, to explain to them both, because it does sound soooo mean.  I say to them both...it is not your fault, but you can work on reacting differently.  " Keep saying to yourself...they cannot help it. "   

 

She must leave anyone.  But the outburst...leaves a feeling of despair afterwards.  So lately she's been just getting off the computer and quietly going upstairs.

 

When he wants her to watch a show with him, I explained to him, she just can't be in the room with you right now. 

 

I try to be the middle person, but it is hurtful to everyone, and it's truly neither of their faults. 

 

I pray that something will found to help everyone.  I really do.

 

M

I am so tired of living with a condition that makes it difficult for me to even spend time with the people I love because of the irritating noises they make like yawning. I am so tired of being judged by the world as being a hateful person for having this condition.

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