Hello Everyone

[Guest guest]

I am a Female with Autism the Aspergers kind that lives in Charlotte, NC I am in

need of some prayers about these things below:

1. I am in Need of prayers because ALL OF MY JEANS HAVE HOLES IN THEM my parents

will not help me get jeans at all and Also I am Unemployed and I get no money

at all to get jeans . I no no one in Charlotte, North Carolina that can help me

have jeans. I AM FRUSTRATED . I have been crying and crying and crying because

I NEED SOME JEANS BECAUSE ALL OF MY JEANS HAVE HOLES IN THEM AND I AM A VERY

EXTREMELY MORBIDLY OBESE PERSON THAT NEEDS EXTREME PLUS SIZE 36 JEANS FOR AN

EXTREMELY MORBIDLY OBESE PERSON. I do not know what to do – I REALLY NEED SOME

JEANS BECAUSE ALL OF MY JEANS HAVE HOLES IN THEM Can someone please send someone

to check on my Well Being because I am in need of some Jeans because ALL OF MY

JEANS HAVE HOLES IN THEM and my parents will not help me have some jeans and

because I am Unemployed and have no money for Jeans

If you can pray for me please let me know.

Channing

[Guest guest]

CJ,

Channing really does not do this constantly, we often go quite a while

without having an incident.

If you will have some patience, it will die down in a few days as long as

we don't feed her need for attention. I read her original post to be sure

it is the usual thing, then delete most of what follows without opening it.

I just do a very occasional checkin to see if it's running it's course.

I am too much of an empath myself, so I can't participate in her flareups

without becoming upset for her safety myself. I absolutely know I can't make

a change in her behavior, so I have to short-circuit the cause of my

discomfort (mostly by not looking or participating).

Channing would not continue to behave this way if she did not have her

needs met by it. She is having success or she would stop. Therefore, the need

that is being met is probably attention, not the need actually expressed in

the particular email. To stop the behavior, we all have to stop responding

to it.

Sandi

In a message dated 4/15/2012 6:30:09 P.M. Central Daylight Time,

clegge@... writes:

FYI to the group....

The post below was not motivated by anything that happened in this

group. It is a form letter, with the name of the group customized for

each mailing.

This heavily cross-posted message was prompted by a discussion in

another group entirely, resulting in panic (on Channing's part) that

someone might somehow threaten her situation with her family. This is

an overreaction, as no one suggested anything even remotely like that.

I think at this point I am going to switch to no-messages in this

group. It's just too frustrating to see (yet another) one of my groups

become dominated by Channing's issues alone. I realize that I have

contributed to the problem by explaining some of the history in response

to the concerns of others, for which I apologize.

I may post the occasional article that may be of interest to the group,

but I will not be reading group messages in the future. If anyone would

like to contact me, please do so offline.

Best,

~CJ

> I read in some of the posts that people are planning to Call Adult

Protective services, The Department of social Services, and Disability Rights

and Once this happens since they know my mom is my Guardian my mom will find

out what has happened in the Autism in Girls and women online group and

then She will be angry at me Because of what I posted in the Autism in Girls

and Women Online Group even if they are asking her if she wants extra

services or help as a Guardian Since the people in the Autism in Girls and

women

online group are thinking my mother is not doing a good Job at all as a

Guardian Places like Adult Protective Services, The Department of Social

services and Disability Rights Could possibly take the Guardian ship away from

my

mother because of everything I posted in the Autism in Girls and Women

online group . I will let you know my mom is doing her best job at what she

can do to get me more money for food stamps by going to the court, my mom

helps me with my finances and my mom who is in charge of my finances says that

I have no money for Jeans at all to replace all of my Jeans that have

holes in them because she has no money to afford the Jeans and because I am

unemployed and I have no money to afford the Jeans ,my mom is the one that

chose my living situation and wants me to live near her I want to be near my

mom also, my job coach is doing the best that they can do to try to get me

employed but the job market and economy is so bad these days it could take

years to get a Job. I am Scared that someone is going to Call the Adult

Protective Services, the Department of social services and Disability rights

from what I have posted in this Autism in Girls and women online group

>

> Channing

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