Guest guest Posted January 15, 2012 Report Share Posted January 15, 2012 Yes, validation is, and should be, individual. and, timely. I remember how I had felt an emmense relief when I was given a valid diagnoses. I have probably become jaded and looking inward after all these years of seeking validation from a community that is generally cluless.I apologige if I have offended you. > > Hi all, > I am trying to figure out if THIS is a symptom of 'our disease' or .. if this is simply an awful-to-live-with quirk of my own... > I call this the Attention Span of a Squirrel/ Fruit Fly/ (fill in your own) syndrome... > I have a difficult time concentrating on anything. Or .. I can become distracted fairly easily. > I have a sort of sense that MAYBE others MIGHT have this symptom for the following reason... Have a shrink (antidepressants and the like) who was -until I simply went into refusnik mode due to side effects- always attempting to 'diagnose' me as someone who 'needed' Strattera or Concerta or similar stuff (as long as it didn't contain speed, <smile>). > She had some idea that MAYBE I was ADD however I do not fit ADD.Never have! And the damn pills made me so miserable (not to mention the headaches from it and other side effects; awful!). (Never did like 'speed' when I was using Recreational drugs which COULD be why the bad effects but then again...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2012 Report Share Posted January 15, 2012 No you didn't offend me as i say its completely up to the person what they choose to do/not to do. I have a complicated history that goes beyond the already complex dx of CFS/ME/FM. Its one thats left me completely and utterly frustrated, if i didn't need them i would choose to never see a dr ever again!!!! But thats not realistic for me and i need prescriptions if nothing else. I am working towards getting a better more understanding and hopefully one who validates everything GP and working towards a full and proper dx of what is going on. I cant explain it anymore than that but hopefully one day i will have the validation i seek, be treated better etc etc from erin ----- Original Message ----- From: myoldmill Yes, validation is, and should be, individual. and, timely. I remember how I had felt an emmense relief when I was given a valid diagnoses. I have probably become jaded and looking inward after all these years of seeking validation from a community that is generally cluless.I apologige if I have offended you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 16, 2012 Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 Re: Brainfog, Fibrofog, Cognitive Impairment, etc. My mother and three of her sisters had Alzheimer's. In 2007 my stress levels were high and my fibrofog became incredibly worse. I was very concerned that I was developing Alzheimer's or dementia. I had a baseline neuropsychological evaluation done. The results showed that my short-term memory loss, word and number dyslexia, and cognitive impairment were were likely related to normal aging, my chronic pain from fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis, my high blood pressure and high cholesterol (caused by the chronic pain), my sleep apnea (undiagnosed for 10 years but had been on CPAP therapy for seven years at the time of the evaluation), my restless legs syndrome/Willis-Ekbom Disease (undertreated at the time of the evaluation), and my psychological issues of depression and PTSD. It was noted that fatigue and stress contributed to my increase of fibrofog and cognitive impairment. I was given the following recommentations to improve my memory and cognitive function: Recommendations: Use a notebook/planner to maintain all information.* Carry it at all times Write in it regularly Refer to it on a daily and weekly basis * I keep a 4 " x 6 " spiral bound notebook and a purse calendar in my purse to write down information and reminders. When I get home, I transfer the information to my 8½ " by 11 " spiral bound notebook and calendar on my desk. I write on only one side of the page of each notebook and cross off each item as it is completed. When all items are crossed off, I tear out the page and toss it. Hooray! Completed tasks! Use reminder notes and checklists for Plans for the day Upcoming appointments Request spoken important information be repeated to me. Repeat back the information aloud in my words, to ensure that I have adequately understood and to facilitate my memory of the information. Write it down in my notebook. Regularly engage in cognitively challenging activities Reading, Crosswords, Sudoku, Computer Games Maintain a structured and scheduled daily routine involving the above and other enjoyable activities. Work in a quiet and distraction free environment. Focus on one task at a time. Complete it entirely before moving on to the next task. Take regular breaks from long tasks. Use a timer to schedule break beginning and ending. When I am fatigued, in pain, or stressed, modify my activities accordingly. When I follow the recommendations, I am amazed at how much less the fibrofog and cognitive impairment affect me. It's been almost 5 years since I was given the recommendations, and I'm still struggling to implement them regularly. I have OCD and ADD (what a great combination!), and once I'm started on a task, I forget everything else I'm supposed to be doing. Timers help tremendously, and I have one in every room in the house. When I remember to set a timer, it helps me to stay on task and reminds me to take breaks. I'm getting much better at using the timers because I function better when I do. I hope some of these suggestions help some of you. Believe me, I know how hard it is to function when I'm in pain and/or stressed. My saving grace is that I teach the Arthritis Foundation Exercise Program three times a week. That gentle exercise is what keeps me going. Right now I have only two people in the class, but they've improved so much in the few months they've been participating that if I have to miss a session due to a doctor appointment or if they have to miss a session, we make it up. You can go to www.arthritis.org, enter your zip code if you're in the U.S. click on offerings and programs, and find out if there is one near you. If there isn't or if you're not in the U.S., go to the store on the web site. They sell DVDs of the exercise programs and instruction books for exercising. Thanks for being here and sharing all your information. It truly helps to know that I'm not alone in my mind and body dysfunction. kateinmo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 16, 2012 Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 Hi all, No!! I've never been AT ALL offended. The only thing I got up in arms about was the mention of AIDS/ HIV. And ,.. here I am going off topic and perhaps opening a can of worms, damn it. It's just that I've had so many friends since the late '80's die, and in many cases from the beginning. AND .. some are still living with it. In one case a friend's daughter (she was born with it before her mom and dad were even aware one of them was positive)now tests NEGATIVE. SHE is doing great on full scholarship in college and this after much of her childhood ill and in and out of hospitals. She .. just happened along at a time when T cell treatments came in and is fortunate. No easy answer there. BUT .. back to the subject! I go 'off topics' easily and this drives those around me NUTS. It is the reason for the Strattera, etc. I have never had a problem about my illness being taken seriously since my main doctor who treats it takes this VERY seriously and has long been a voice of reason on a public level (Dr Enlander). I have, however, gotten into it with some around me, those without medical training, and those who do not know anything about this disease who have other training. It's a bit like speaking to a slab of concrete in some cases. Screw 'em! I know and this is what's most important. There are also all of YOU, thank goodness!!! Thanks again, Jane, the one with the hound NYC > > > > Hi all, > > I am trying to figure out if THIS is a symptom of 'our disease' or .. if this is simply an awful-to-live-with quirk of my own... > > I call this the Attention Span of a Squirrel/ Fruit Fly/ (fill in your own) syndrome... > > I have a difficult time concentrating on anything. Or .. I can become distracted fairly easily. > > I have a sort of sense that MAYBE others MIGHT have this symptom for the following reason... Have a shrink (antidepressants and the like) who was -until I simply went into refusnik mode due to side effects- always attempting to 'diagnose' me as someone who 'needed' Strattera or Concerta or similar stuff (as long as it didn't contain speed, <smile>). > > She had some idea that MAYBE I was ADD however I do not fit ADD.Never have! And the damn pills made me so miserable (not to mention the headaches from it and other side effects; awful!). (Never did like 'speed' when I was using Recreational drugs which COULD be why the bad effects but then again...) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 Hey there , sounds as if you have things hard enough without the IM-proper diagnosis and the NON-validation. those things are just .. so essential. I'm so damn sorry that you do NOT have this!! not fair as we ALL -I think- have complications in our chemical (brain chemical?) make up having -at least in part!- something to do with the illness and .. for SOME of us, such as myself, the former chemical experiment in my wild child years (regret that for this reason!). I do not know where you are located, but I do hope that you can find someone and that the insurance -whatever your circumstance is- can afford that you see the proper person. Best to you, Jane, the one with the hound, NYC > > No you didn't offend me as i say its completely up to the person what they choose to do/not to do. I have a complicated history that goes beyond the already complex dx of CFS/ME/FM. Its one thats left me completely and utterly frustrated, if i didn't need them i would choose to never see a dr ever again!!!! But thats not realistic for me and i need prescriptions if nothing else. > > I am working towards getting a better more understanding and hopefully one who validates everything GP and working towards a full and proper dx of what is going on. I cant explain it anymore than that but hopefully one day i will have the validation i seek, be treated better etc etc > > from erin > ----- Original Message ----- > From: myoldmill > > > Yes, validation is, and should be, individual. and, timely. I remember how I had felt an emmense relief when I was given a valid diagnoses. I have probably become jaded and looking inward after all these years of seeking validation from a community that is generally cluless.I apologige if I have offended you. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Hi, Jane with the hound, don't blame your wild child years. I didn't 'do' any of the things the wild child, , was running with, yet I have what my neuro called a text book case of CFIDS. Including brain fog and major adult ADD symptoms. But, I do think being exposed to so many chemicals in life has alot to do with it. Growing up on LI in the 50's and 60's exposed me to alot of stuff. If you were in the city, I'm sure you got as much, if not more. It still amazes me that our bodies are able to survive what we were exposed to, much less leaving us with any brain. > > > > No you didn't offend me as i say its completely up to the person what they choose to do/not to do. I have a complicated history that goes beyond the already complex dx of CFS/ME/FM. Its one thats left me completely and utterly frustrated, if i didn't need them i would choose to never see a dr ever again!!!! But thats not realistic for me and i need prescriptions if nothing else. > > > > I am working towards getting a better more understanding and hopefully one who validates everything GP and working towards a full and proper dx of what is going on. I cant explain it anymore than that but hopefully one day i will have the validation i seek, be treated better etc etc > > > > from erin > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: myoldmill > > > > > > Yes, validation is, and should be, individual. and, timely. I remember how I had felt an emmense relief when I was given a valid diagnoses. I have probably become jaded and looking inward after all these years of seeking validation from a community that is generally cluless.I apologige if I have offended you. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Hi, Jane with the hound, don't blame your wild child years. I didn't 'do' any of the things the wild child, , was running with, yet I have what my neuro called a text book case of CFIDS. Including brain fog and major adult ADD symptoms. But, I do think being exposed to so many chemicals in life has alot to do with it. Growing up on LI in the 50's and 60's exposed me to alot of stuff. If you were in the city, I'm sure you got as much, if not more. It still amazes me that our bodies are able to survive what we were exposed to, much less leaving us with any brain. > > > > No you didn't offend me as i say its completely up to the person what they choose to do/not to do. I have a complicated history that goes beyond the already complex dx of CFS/ME/FM. Its one thats left me completely and utterly frustrated, if i didn't need them i would choose to never see a dr ever again!!!! But thats not realistic for me and i need prescriptions if nothing else. > > > > I am working towards getting a better more understanding and hopefully one who validates everything GP and working towards a full and proper dx of what is going on. I cant explain it anymore than that but hopefully one day i will have the validation i seek, be treated better etc etc > > > > from erin > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: myoldmill > > > > > > Yes, validation is, and should be, individual. and, timely. I remember how I had felt an emmense relief when I was given a valid diagnoses. I have probably become jaded and looking inward after all these years of seeking validation from a community that is generally cluless.I apologige if I have offended you. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Dear Kateimo, Hope I can call you this... My mom -with whom I had a difficult relationship my entire life- also had Alzheimer's towards the end of her life. Although she had 5siblings, none lived as long as did she, so I don't KNOW if anything about that line of medical history. On dad's side, however, it was the opposite. She did not become ill until her 90's. You can imagine how I felt the last time I saw my shrink -this is how I refer to the psych, not the therapist- and SHE suggested prescribing that Alzheimer's drug (forgot the name <smile>)which is often in ads on television. I .. sort of flipped on THAT suggestion, however at my ME/ CFS doc's office the nurses there kind of .. looked at each other as if wondering if it might help...? I currently take two things neither of which are 'drugs' for memory. Or help with memory... Catapult (contains Cat's Claw among other things) and Lectrolyte (this is for Fibro pain, but also helps memory with a cumulative affect sort of...). ALL of your suggestions make SUCH good sense! I've even heard some of them before.I am going to copy down the list here and DO them! One kind of exercise I wish I had access to here would be a swimming pool; aquasize. I've heard good things about this from a friend who teaches it. (SHE is in amazing shape!)I also have -I mentioned this?- same psych issues and REALLY want to move as so much 'stuff' would be allieviated. We have the area with the most noise complaints in Manhattan. In fact, as I type, THE most obnoxious, boring, dreadful DRUM-bass lines are throbbing up through the floor. (Talk about no taste...!) But .. then, the upstairs people are quiet (the others moved out) and .. wait until I get something new to hook up MY speakers to... (Downstairs is fairly new, and ceased and desisted blasting the backyard area out his window after getting a taste of his own medicine BACK from the neighbors at the opposite end of our courtyard). Ah yessss... And so many pay so much to live here. (<smirk>) Thanks again for all your excellent info-- Jane, the one with the hound > > Re: Brainfog, Fibrofog, Cognitive Impairment, etc. > > My mother and three of her sisters had Alzheimer's. In 2007 my stress levels were high and my fibrofog became incredibly worse. I was very concerned that I was developing Alzheimer's or dementia. > > I had a baseline neuropsychological evaluation done. The results showed that my short-term memory loss, word and number dyslexia, and cognitive impairment were were likely related to normal aging, my chronic pain from fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis, my high blood pressure and high cholesterol (caused by the chronic pain), my sleep apnea (undiagnosed for 10 years but had been on CPAP therapy for seven years at the time of the evaluation), my restless legs syndrome/Willis-Ekbom Disease (undertreated at the time of the evaluation), and my psychological issues of depression and PTSD. It was noted that fatigue and stress contributed to my increase of fibrofog and cognitive impairment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Dear Kateimo, Hope I can call you this... My mom -with whom I had a difficult relationship my entire life- also had Alzheimer's towards the end of her life. Although she had 5siblings, none lived as long as did she, so I don't KNOW if anything about that line of medical history. On dad's side, however, it was the opposite. She did not become ill until her 90's. You can imagine how I felt the last time I saw my shrink -this is how I refer to the psych, not the therapist- and SHE suggested prescribing that Alzheimer's drug (forgot the name <smile>)which is often in ads on television. I .. sort of flipped on THAT suggestion, however at my ME/ CFS doc's office the nurses there kind of .. looked at each other as if wondering if it might help...? I currently take two things neither of which are 'drugs' for memory. Or help with memory... Catapult (contains Cat's Claw among other things) and Lectrolyte (this is for Fibro pain, but also helps memory with a cumulative affect sort of...). ALL of your suggestions make SUCH good sense! I've even heard some of them before.I am going to copy down the list here and DO them! One kind of exercise I wish I had access to here would be a swimming pool; aquasize. I've heard good things about this from a friend who teaches it. (SHE is in amazing shape!)I also have -I mentioned this?- same psych issues and REALLY want to move as so much 'stuff' would be allieviated. We have the area with the most noise complaints in Manhattan. In fact, as I type, THE most obnoxious, boring, dreadful DRUM-bass lines are throbbing up through the floor. (Talk about no taste...!) But .. then, the upstairs people are quiet (the others moved out) and .. wait until I get something new to hook up MY speakers to... (Downstairs is fairly new, and ceased and desisted blasting the backyard area out his window after getting a taste of his own medicine BACK from the neighbors at the opposite end of our courtyard). Ah yessss... And so many pay so much to live here. (<smirk>) Thanks again for all your excellent info-- Jane, the one with the hound > > Re: Brainfog, Fibrofog, Cognitive Impairment, etc. > > My mother and three of her sisters had Alzheimer's. In 2007 my stress levels were high and my fibrofog became incredibly worse. I was very concerned that I was developing Alzheimer's or dementia. > > I had a baseline neuropsychological evaluation done. The results showed that my short-term memory loss, word and number dyslexia, and cognitive impairment were were likely related to normal aging, my chronic pain from fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis, my high blood pressure and high cholesterol (caused by the chronic pain), my sleep apnea (undiagnosed for 10 years but had been on CPAP therapy for seven years at the time of the evaluation), my restless legs syndrome/Willis-Ekbom Disease (undertreated at the time of the evaluation), and my psychological issues of depression and PTSD. It was noted that fatigue and stress contributed to my increase of fibrofog and cognitive impairment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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