Guest guest Posted January 30, 2005 Report Share Posted January 30, 2005 , Thanks for your help. Husband is in his mid 40's. Only stressors in his life until we moved was the fact that my daughter and I were sick. The real signs that the stress were getting to him was when he couldn't decide whether to move or not. Would sit and cry about the fact he could not decide. He also couldn't make any other decisions even before that. But at least he didn't cry about it. He was not on any drugs and no medical conditions. He was a light eater, under weight. I don't think he was feeling guilty about anything. Doesn't smoke or drink alcohol. Even after we bought a home out of state and he had a job out of state. He kept changing his mind while we were packing as to whether or not we were moving. So we were packing and unpacking and packing and unpacking till we were all nervous wrecks. Then he couldn't handle unpacking and left that to me because he was tired and stressed. He took 3 weeks off before starting new job, then job was final blow before nervous breakdown. My daughter developed lupus like symptoms and severe allergies. Also something started attacking her joints and muscles internally, doctors couldn't figure out what. I developed fibromyalgia, diabetes, strange skin rashes ect. Severe stomach problems and joint and muscle pains. Turns out it is hereditary in my family. I only found one doctor who could help after going to many and running Doctor bills up. Rose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 > , > > Thanks for your help. Husband is in his mid 40's. Only stressors in his life until we moved was the fact that my daughter and I were sick. The real signs that the stress were getting to him was when he couldn't decide whether to move or not. Would sit and cry about the fact he could not decide. He also couldn't make any other decisions even before that. But at least he didn't cry about it. He was not on any drugs and no medical conditions. He was a light eater, under weight. I don't think he was feeling guilty about anything. Doesn't smoke or drink alcohol. > > Even after we bought a home out of state and he had a job out of state. He kept changing his mind while we were packing as to whether or not we were moving. So we were packing and unpacking and packing and unpacking till we were all nervous wrecks. Then he couldn't handle unpacking and left that to me because he was tired and stressed. He took 3 weeks off before starting new job, then job was final blow before nervous breakdown. > > My daughter developed lupus like symptoms and severe allergies. Also something started attacking her joints and muscles internally, doctors couldn't figure out what. > > I developed fibromyalgia, diabetes, strange skin rashes ect. Severe stomach problems and joint and muscle pains. Turns out it is hereditary in my family. I only found one doctor who could help after going to many and running Doctor bills up. Rose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 > , > > Thanks for your help. Husband is in his mid 40's. Only stressors in his life until we moved was the fact that my daughter and I were sick. The real signs that the stress were getting to him was when he couldn't decide whether to move or not. Would sit and cry about the fact he could not decide. He also couldn't make any other decisions even before that. But at least he didn't cry about it. He was not on any drugs and no medical conditions. He was a light eater, under weight. I don't think he was feeling guilty about anything. Doesn't smoke or drink alcohol. > > Even after we bought a home out of state and he had a job out of state. He kept changing his mind while we were packing as to whether or not we were moving. So we were packing and unpacking and packing and unpacking till we were all nervous wrecks. Then he couldn't handle unpacking and left that to me because he was tired and stressed. He took 3 weeks off before starting new job, then job was final blow before nervous breakdown. > > My daughter developed lupus like symptoms and severe allergies. Also something started attacking her joints and muscles internally, doctors couldn't figure out what. > > I developed fibromyalgia, diabetes, strange skin rashes ect. Severe stomach problems and joint and muscle pains. Turns out it is hereditary in my family. I only found one doctor who could help after going to many and running Doctor bills up. Rose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2005 Report Share Posted February 13, 2005 > , > > Thanks for your help. Husband is in his mid 40's. Only stressors in his life until we moved was the fact that my daughter and I were sick. The real signs that the stress were getting to him was when he couldn't decide whether to move or not. Would sit and cry about the fact he could not decide. He also couldn't make any other decisions even before that. But at least he didn't cry about it. He was not on any drugs and no medical conditions. He was a light eater, under weight. I don't think he was feeling guilty about anything. Doesn't smoke or drink alcohol. > > Even after we bought a home out of state and he had a job out of state. He kept changing his mind while we were packing as to whether or not we were moving. So we were packing and unpacking and packing and unpacking till we were all nervous wrecks. Then he couldn't handle unpacking and left that to me because he was tired and stressed. He took 3 weeks off before starting new job, then job was final blow before nervous breakdown. > > My daughter developed lupus like symptoms and severe allergies. Also something started attacking her joints and muscles internally, doctors couldn't figure out what. > > I developed fibromyalgia, diabetes, strange skin rashes ect. Severe stomach problems and joint and muscle pains. Turns out it is hereditary in my family. I only found one doctor who could help after going to many and running Doctor bills up. Rose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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