Guest guest Posted April 1, 2012 Report Share Posted April 1, 2012 Yes, i'm with you there Jill. I learned gratitude long ago when I was 23 & I got sober. while I've had occasional bouts of depression when things were really bad, it's 2nd nature to me now to think of what I *do* have. And corny to others, or not, I do pray. I *didn't* know how to eliminate stress for a long time though. My stress was through the roof both at home and on the job. But I did finally get so disgusted with eating dirt, that I dug myself out. I was already extremely exhausted and had intense physical pain, but most stress is now over with or managable. Of course, I still have FMS and immune dysfunction but the pain is less at least and I'm no longer nervous or depressed. :-) My cfs group post 3-30-12 In all of the " disease states, " Stress avoidance is the most critical to better health, and recovery. Same with CFS. Eliminate " stress " completely! Like Alinta said earlier, people might need " therapy " to learn to " manage " stress and behaviors, or to change the way they respond to " negative stimuli. " One of the treatments with CFS, is " cognitive therapy, " which helps us change the way we " perceive " things. Or, using the " Serenity prayer " is effective in the way we " view " life's challenges. I know for a fact, after 19 years of severe health, I am doing so much better, just because I've learned " gratitude, " and instead of looking at how big my problems are, I look at how Great God is. I've had many bad times, too, but, now I am so thankful for " simple basic necessities, " having food, having computor, and internet service, thankful I have my own place to live. I'm not where I used to be, and not where I want to be, but I AM sure going to enjoy the journey right where I AM. Without faith and hope, you will be the Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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