Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 > Thank you all for your support during the difficult times I have >had with , I needed somewhere to vent. we are still with you.. all of us.. and we feel your loss.. you have our love and respect.. we know you did the right thing.. and you know it too. > I thought that most of my love >for him was gone but I was terribly wrong, despite everything he put me >through, I loved him dearly. we know that love can not be snuffed out by the unloving acts of an alcoholic partner.. in time you will feel better about your love for him before, now and later.. and you will cherish the fond memories of the real him, before the chemicals took him away from you.. as the future unfolds, feel free to reach out to any of us as you need.. go in peace, DenverD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 Spring, I am so sorry. I'm sure it was very hard on you to make the decision you did. But, no one knew the way you did. I think we could all tell how much you loved him, and were moved by your strength to stay by him and care for him. In years to come your children will fully understand the sacrifice you made, the role model you are, and love you more for it. My heart goes out to you and the children. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 Oh Spring, I am so sorry for your loss. I really don't know what else to say. I'll pray for the healing of your children(they are still so young) and for you. Please take care in this terribly sad time. Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 Oh Spring, I am so sorry for your loss. I really don't know what else to say. I'll pray for the healing of your children(they are still so young) and for you. Please take care in this terribly sad time. Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 --Spring: Just a brief note to pass on my condolences to you and s family. It is a very hard decision when you are asked to terminate someone elses life. is now in a place where he won't hurt anymore and you will have your happy memeories to look back on. Debbi > died yesterday and I had to make the decision to let him go or let > them operate> Spring (wife of , dx " 97) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2000 Report Share Posted October 15, 2000 --Spring: Just a brief note to pass on my condolences to you and s family. It is a very hard decision when you are asked to terminate someone elses life. is now in a place where he won't hurt anymore and you will have your happy memeories to look back on. Debbi > died yesterday and I had to make the decision to let him go or let > them operate> Spring (wife of , dx " 97) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Spring, Ed and I are so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 5 years ago to a complication related to alcoholism. I watched him develop cirrhosis and die 6 weeks after my wedding. I loved my dad so much. He had a problem,and wouldn't listen to any of us to try and talk him out of doing it. But he was a great man, a loving man. I miss him everyday. It's very hard now to see my husband going through the same things, at no fault of his own. Please know that we are here for you, please come back and talk to us. You can vent here any time. Gracie and Ed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Spring, Ed and I are so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 5 years ago to a complication related to alcoholism. I watched him develop cirrhosis and die 6 weeks after my wedding. I loved my dad so much. He had a problem,and wouldn't listen to any of us to try and talk him out of doing it. But he was a great man, a loving man. I miss him everyday. It's very hard now to see my husband going through the same things, at no fault of his own. Please know that we are here for you, please come back and talk to us. You can vent here any time. Gracie and Ed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Dear Spring, I am so sorry for your loss. The love doesn't go away, does it? You be sure to take care of yourself during this time. I'll be praying for you. Eileen s PSC - 1996, UC - 1978 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 16, 2000 Report Share Posted October 16, 2000 Dear Spring, I am so sorry for your loss. The love doesn't go away, does it? You be sure to take care of yourself during this time. I'll be praying for you. Eileen s PSC - 1996, UC - 1978 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2000 Report Share Posted October 18, 2000 Spring, I am so sorry! I have you both in my heart and prayers. Please take good care of you now. Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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