Guest guest Posted February 25, 2012 Report Share Posted February 25, 2012 Elly!!! Dear, BEAUTIFUL Elly! You couldn't be more beautiful if you tried! And I know your husband does not see even ONE of those pounds. He is just happy to have you each and every day. My hubby is so much like yours! We struck GOLD girlfriend! But God DID bless us, you are right about that! But it is not for you to ask Him why! He knows what you need before YOU know what you need, and He provided that for you (for us both!) When my first marriage was ending and he was cheating on me with 2 little kids, and me full time in nursing school, I could not IMAGINE why God was letting me go through all of that, but now I know that He knew what I needed before I knew what I was going to need down the road! I was not sick yet and had no idea that the 1st husband would not have been able to deal with all of this! Anyway, please put your weight out of your head for now! As hard as it is, and I know Monday seems forever way, when those bad thoughts or self-defeating thoughts come to your mind, push them out and repeat some kind of a mantra, like " my husband adores me, I have a ZILLION friends on the Still's site that adore me, I have lots of support and that is what is important right now, today " . I know, easier said than done. But write me direct, post to the board, get a hug from that hubby of yours, and just know we all care deeply about you! xo Jo In a message dated 2/25/2012 4:57:42 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, ellyandbilltroy@... writes: and it's just you and me sweet pea!I don't know what God thinks I did to deserve him, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2012 Report Share Posted February 25, 2012 Elly!!! Dear, BEAUTIFUL Elly! You couldn't be more beautiful if you tried! And I know your husband does not see even ONE of those pounds. He is just happy to have you each and every day. My hubby is so much like yours! We struck GOLD girlfriend! But God DID bless us, you are right about that! But it is not for you to ask Him why! He knows what you need before YOU know what you need, and He provided that for you (for us both!) When my first marriage was ending and he was cheating on me with 2 little kids, and me full time in nursing school, I could not IMAGINE why God was letting me go through all of that, but now I know that He knew what I needed before I knew what I was going to need down the road! I was not sick yet and had no idea that the 1st husband would not have been able to deal with all of this! Anyway, please put your weight out of your head for now! As hard as it is, and I know Monday seems forever way, when those bad thoughts or self-defeating thoughts come to your mind, push them out and repeat some kind of a mantra, like " my husband adores me, I have a ZILLION friends on the Still's site that adore me, I have lots of support and that is what is important right now, today " . I know, easier said than done. But write me direct, post to the board, get a hug from that hubby of yours, and just know we all care deeply about you! xo Jo In a message dated 2/25/2012 4:57:42 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, ellyandbilltroy@... writes: and it's just you and me sweet pea!I don't know what God thinks I did to deserve him, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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