Guest guest Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 That sounds very rough. I hate a lot of sounds also, mostly repetitive sounds like tapping or pen clicking and I hate the low hum of electrical devices. I can tolerate the electrical sounds better because a machine has no control of how it sounds. But when people make sounds I don't like I get angry. I can ask people not to tap, click..ext. But I don't know how I would handle people's use of letters. You can't excactly say please don't use the letter P around me. Does it help if you don't look at them? If so you could train yourself to focus on another area of their face and avoid seeing the mouth. A lot of times I will ask people to stop tapping and they will wiggle their fingers just abouve the surface, not actualy touching anything. This still causes me anxiety. I don't know if it's the anticipation of apossible sound or if the visual alone makes me upset. I'll think about it and see if I can come up with a way for these sounds not to upset you so much. Is it just as strong if anyone does it? Or worse when the person is closer to you. Sent from my Samsung Interceptâ„¢ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 That sounds very rough. I hate a lot of sounds also, mostly repetitive sounds like tapping or pen clicking and I hate the low hum of electrical devices. I can tolerate the electrical sounds better because a machine has no control of how it sounds. But when people make sounds I don't like I get angry. I can ask people not to tap, click..ext. But I don't know how I would handle people's use of letters. You can't excactly say please don't use the letter P around me. Does it help if you don't look at them? If so you could train yourself to focus on another area of their face and avoid seeing the mouth. A lot of times I will ask people to stop tapping and they will wiggle their fingers just abouve the surface, not actualy touching anything. This still causes me anxiety. I don't know if it's the anticipation of apossible sound or if the visual alone makes me upset. I'll think about it and see if I can come up with a way for these sounds not to upset you so much. Is it just as strong if anyone does it? Or worse when the person is closer to you. Sent from my Samsung Interceptâ„¢ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 That sounds very rough. I hate a lot of sounds also, mostly repetitive sounds like tapping or pen clicking and I hate the low hum of electrical devices. I can tolerate the electrical sounds better because a machine has no control of how it sounds. But when people make sounds I don't like I get angry. I can ask people not to tap, click..ext. But I don't know how I would handle people's use of letters. You can't excactly say please don't use the letter P around me. Does it help if you don't look at them? If so you could train yourself to focus on another area of their face and avoid seeing the mouth. A lot of times I will ask people to stop tapping and they will wiggle their fingers just abouve the surface, not actualy touching anything. This still causes me anxiety. I don't know if it's the anticipation of apossible sound or if the visual alone makes me upset. I'll think about it and see if I can come up with a way for these sounds not to upset you so much. Is it just as strong if anyone does it? Or worse when the person is closer to you. Sent from my Samsung Interceptâ„¢ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2012 Report Share Posted January 17, 2012 I don't mind the low hum of electric devices. I just don't like mouth sounds. Like if a soap opera is on, (and the people are talking) I can't stand it. Soaps are awful. It's the sound of the saliva in their mouths that triggers me. I know it may sound weird, but it's the truth. I don't know why those sounds bother me so much, they just do. If I don't look at a person when they say trigger sounds, it's still just as bothersome than if I am looking at them. I constantly say to people (mostly family and friends), " Don't say that " and they know exactly what I mean. As for other sounds, I don't mind pens clicking, finger tapping or feet rubbing together (I rub mine constantly, lol). There are many sounds that I can tolerate completely, so I guess I am luckier than some people. :-) > > That sounds very rough. I hate a lot of sounds also, mostly repetitive sounds like tapping or pen clicking and I hate the low hum of electrical devices. I can tolerate the electrical sounds better because a machine has no control of how it sounds. But when people make sounds I don't like I get angry. I can ask people not to tap, click..ext. But I don't know how I would handle people's use of letters. You can't excactly say please don't use the letter P around me. Does it help if you don't look at them? If so you could train yourself to focus on another area of their face and avoid seeing the mouth. A lot of times I will ask people to stop tapping and they will wiggle their fingers just abouve the surface, not actualy touching anything. This still causes me anxiety. I don't know if it's the anticipation of apossible sound or if the visual alone makes me upset. I'll think about it and see if I can come up with a way for these sounds not to upset you so much. Is it just as strong if anyone does it? Or worse when the person is closer to you. > > Sent from my Samsung Interceptâ„¢ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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