Guest guest Posted January 16, 2012 Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 Donielle, just think of what you *didn't* do - he still has his fingers, it could be worse, lol...and yeah bar gossip is bad, but it'll be old news fast. It's funny how many people will provoke and antagonize until the breaking point, and then back off saying, " They didn't DO anything! " It's like there's 2 types of people - the ones who are ashamed of how they behave and say they're sorry, and then those who never ever do anything wrong and it's always someone else's fault. Keep your chin up, and remember you asked him, you warned him, you snapped, and that's life. He really owes you an apology for pushing you that far. > > Thank you so much Peach. The law won't be involved nor will my job be in jeopardy. I just feel shame and embaressed. People respect me, and I lost my dicorem. I always act in a professional manner. I never thought I would work in a bar again after graduating college, but it had been an enviroment that I had controll over. Now, I feel my achiles heel has been trruley exposed and people may start to do this for fun to watch me lose control. I had cried all last night, but today I feel that I acted in self defense. He knew he was hurting me. He may as well have used physical harm. I would have prefered it. I know peole don't understand, but when they are informed sholdnt we be able to to defend ouselves when we are being purposly violated. Bar gossip is extreme. I can only imagine how this is going to play out. " Wow, did you hear how Donielle totaly freaked out! " > > Sent from my Samsung Interceptâ„¢ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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