update - in resort, memorial, etc

[Guest guest]

Hi all,

First I want to thank everyone for your support and ideas.

The memorial for our little 'angel' Lilag will be on Wednesday afternoon. My

Nephew and his wife made some very

Wise decisions in regards to the funeral/memorial to make it easier for them

and the family. They will have a private

Viewing to say good bye (Just the two of them) on Tuesday, and then before

the rest of the family joins them for the

Gravesite memorial on Wed afternoon, Lilag will be buried. The site will

have a covered seating area and an area for flowers

That is lit. The covered seating area will also be lit up. This will be much

easier to help everyone else focus on helping and Ariane

Instead of focusing on a tiny little casket.

Unfortunately, I am not going to be able to go. I saw my doctor at 4

yesterday and she put me in the resort for pneumonia and

Orthostatic-hypotention (which we all know, seems to be what my body loves

to do when I get sick). I don't think I can even

Count how many times I have had it now.

It really saddens me that I will not be able to be there for them, but I

know that others will be there for them and I have to take care of my

Health right now. I keep telling myself that I will be there for them when

others will not be able to be there for them, but I still grieve that

I won't be able to grieve with the rest of my family. I was shocked to find

out that I had pneumonia and didn't know it. I have pain from

Swollen lymph nodes on my left side and a few on my right side all the time

and costrocondritis all the time on the left side and the pain level

Gets worse at times, so it's always hard to determine if it is something

different. Oh Well.

Anyway, Life Happens, right?

Hugs to all,

Alli