Re(2): Estrogen Cream & surgery

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Heidi wrote:

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>I don't like the sound of your new doctor, I'm sorry to say.

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> Physicians who aren't willing to even consider pursuing

>other treatments (especially non-invasive or less-invasive) ones should

>be dealt with cautiously, if you ask me.

You see, this is my big problem right now. I live in Sweden and this is

the only vestibulitis expert we have. I may see any doctor, but they will

soon recommend this one. Everybody has told me that she is so good, but

maybe she hasn't even been on the Internet reading about Dr Glazer (for

example) or anything.

I don't know what to do since she is my only hope. I want to tell her

about all these treatments that we discuss here on the list, but I maybe

she will get angry if I seem to know a lot she doesn't know. I must have

the right attitude, because I really want to try other things before

surgery. But what kind of attitude could that be, I wonder.

Maybe I don't want to try surgery at all. I'm living a quite normal life,

it's just that I can't have sex. I don't want to take the risk to make it

all worse. But how am I going to tell her this if she really believes that

surgery can't make anyone worse? If I refuse to try it, maybe she will

" abandon " me.

I'm so afraid.

//beth.

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