Guest guest Posted May 16, 1999 Report Share Posted May 16, 1999 Hi all and Got a chuckle out of you saying the doctor 'just threw his hands up, like he was not programed to respond to that " , Ala Stepford doctors, if its not in the 'book', they don't know what to do, but can't admit it (not programed for that.) (some that is) Anyway throwing my 2 cents in regard to orgasms etc. I really think its necessary to continue with the sex and orgasms and at LEAST 2 a week for minimum health. Here's my reasoning: First of all it definitely kicks in the endorphins which are the feel goodies and help to eliminate pain and depression. Second, the vaginal vault or opening will definitely start to shrink and eventually make penetration even that much more unendurable. Then we've got to go to the dialators to re-stretch, as we lose our elasticity. This happened personally to me, believe me, I was shocked!!! Ha ha, and these guys think 'bigger is better', *chuckle*. Anyway, the dialators are definitely helping. Not movement with it, but simply to re-stretch it by keeping it in place for a while. Sorry, but gals, its true, if you don't use it, you lose it!. *sigh*.. I can hear all the partners out there going 'YEAH', but its true. ha ha.. Warmest to all of you, Dee ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 1999 Report Share Posted May 19, 1999 Hi, Just curious how other women feel during and after sex. My husband and I had intercourse last night for the first time since my son was born 7mths ago. It has been longer than that because I was not into sex when I was pregnant. If I only knew my painful future, I would not have shyed away from it. Well anyway, when he entered it was not as bad as I thought it was going to be. Eight weeks after my son was born we tried and he went in and right back out because the pain was so intense. It burned and I felt pain at the 9 o'clock position. I know we should have used astroglide and I will buy some for the future because I know I was a little dry. Afterwards I felt pain in my lower abdomen. Just sore and sensitive. The next day I felt a little sore but not as bad as I thought it was going to be. I also am currently taking Triavil. It must be working because sex was totally out of the picture 5mths ago. Hopefully on the right track, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 1999 Report Share Posted May 19, 1999 Hi, Just curious how other women feel during and after sex. My husband and I had intercourse last night for the first time since my son was born 7mths ago. It has been longer than that because I was not into sex when I was pregnant. If I only knew my painful future, I would not have shyed away from it. Well anyway, when he entered it was not as bad as I thought it was going to be. Eight weeks after my son was born we tried and he went in and right back out because the pain was so intense. It burned and I felt pain at the 9 o'clock position. I know we should have used astroglide and I will buy some for the future because I know I was a little dry. Afterwards I felt pain in my lower abdomen. Just sore and sensitive. The next day I felt a little sore but not as bad as I thought it was going to be. I also am currently taking Triavil. It must be working because sex was totally out of the picture 5mths ago. Hopefully on the right track, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 1999 Report Share Posted May 19, 1999 Hi, Just curious how other women feel during and after sex. My husband and I had intercourse last night for the first time since my son was born 7mths ago. It has been longer than that because I was not into sex when I was pregnant. If I only knew my painful future, I would not have shyed away from it. Well anyway, when he entered it was not as bad as I thought it was going to be. Eight weeks after my son was born we tried and he went in and right back out because the pain was so intense. It burned and I felt pain at the 9 o'clock position. I know we should have used astroglide and I will buy some for the future because I know I was a little dry. Afterwards I felt pain in my lower abdomen. Just sore and sensitive. The next day I felt a little sore but not as bad as I thought it was going to be. I also am currently taking Triavil. It must be working because sex was totally out of the picture 5mths ago. Hopefully on the right track, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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