Guest guest Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Judi, I wish that both my husband or I would stand up and say - YOU CAN'T BEHAVE THIS WAY!!! but we don't - we just sit back and let the chips fall. I complain about it on my support group and then I let it go until something else happens. I am praying that I become stronger and am able to confront him about tis behavior of his. I want to do it so that he doesn't feel that we are unduly criticizing him but so that he knows that we love him and that he made a mistake but although it was a mistake that he knows that he can not make this mistake again. My husband and I talked some about this last night and he knows that his brother has a problem. He told me htat his brother doesn't remember anything about Saturday night. I asked him - Well did you tell him what he had done - He said No - The perfect opportunity lost... Jay is like me though - we like smooth waters and hate to ruffle feathers...what is done is done... The only problem with that is if it becomes normal behavior... Hopefully, that won't happen and Rodger will find some way to correct his behavior. I know he feels bad by the way he is acting...I just hope he finds a way to stop this destructive behavior of his. God bless, Althea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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