Relationship stress

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Toni, thanks for you reply. I've copied this part:

" Congrats on keeping your adventure to yourself. It is all you two can do for

now. When you can trust he won't overreact so you can tell each other more, you

will. "

Being in a relationship is difficult right now. He has his disappointments and

unmet expectations to deal with. I was doing a little journaling on

co-dependence yesterday and realized that I am not responsible for his feelings,

I can't change them or fix them. I can say " I'm sorry I've disappointed you. I

didn't do it on purpose. " , but he is the one who has to deal with his own

feelings. I know it's difficult being married to someone with a disability, so

I try to have compassion for him, empathy, rather than just anger from my point

of view.