RE: --rude people/my feelings

March 13, 2004

I don't know what is going on.... said I was bouncing....never got a

notice for it. I just noticed I haven't received any email from this group

in several days. I hope I am re-activated.

I will say that I do hope stays when she gets back. She is a good

person with a lot on her plate and she has been trying to handle her life

the best she can. I don't care what anyone says, she has been handling

things in her life very well considering what she has been dealing with.

You have to give her a lot of credit for not throwing in the towel, so to

speak. I know as well as the rest of us do, stress makes our life worst

with this disease. From what I can gather.....(correct me if I am wrong)

someone got nasty privately because she used caps in her email.....Well

DAH!!!! So what! When a person is excited, whether in a positive fashion

or negative fashion......you use caps. I do and I think a lot of us do. We

have some VERY emotional days. We need to get that emotion out and this

group has been very understanding about that. It is sad to see and hear

that someone got up on the wrong side of the bed and took it out on

while she is trying to deal with her mom. That is sooo sad!

I know we all have more bads days than not, but whatever was said, was

wrong, especially privately, where there is no one to support you unless you

say something to the group. Any negativity is hard to take and when you are

going through rough times, it hurts more. With that said....... I sure

hope you don't let one person (out of how many ?......600-700 here?) get to

you. That person's opinion/statement isn't worth dirt. Hopefully you will

be able to just let it go. Thinking positive is more important than letting

this person get to you.

Our list moms are terrific.....this group is the best around. Even though I

don't post much, I do thank this group for being here when I do post........

Usually when I am cranking, unfortunately.

Ok that was my 2 cents.........

May you all have a great weekend!

Hugs

in Ct.

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