My Husband Just Dosent Get It!!!

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Hey Everyone, Its Gail in Georgia, I finally got my e-mail fixed and

Im back in the group,, Finally,, Ive missed you all.

I have a little story to tell you all: Last night my husband and I

were talking and I was telling him about all the fatigue and joint

and muscle pain I've been in.... and HE Said,, Well thats strange how

you fit your illness to accomidate things you dont want to do.

He says, If I want to go out to dinner, I go, If I want to go to a

movie with a friend,, I go,,, If I want to go to Savannah to see my

sister with my mom, I can go,, But Yet, you cant get the laundry

done, and you cant fix a big meal at night, and you sleep all the

time.,

My Husband says,, I think your just a Lazy hypercondriac..!! well

people I blew my top! He says, If Im so sick why is it the doctors

cant put a name to it. What is it he says, Fibro? Arthritis? Lupis?

I told him that Thats why I was seeing a Rhumy to find out! It really

hurts my feelings that my husband after 16 years of marriage thinks

Im faking and am lazy!

You see, HIS family has never been sick in a day of there lives, He

cant fantom the idea of someone being chronically tired and weak all

the time.

Is anyone else having problems with getting spouces and family

members to understand what were going through?

Now Because Im so Upset at him im having a really bad flair up today!

Depressed, sad, mad and feeling let down!

Gail in Ga.