Guest guest Posted February 19, 2012 Report Share Posted February 19, 2012 You are exactly right,Jackie. Thanks!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, February 18, 2012 12:21 PM Subject: family dynamics  It is sad when there is turmoil in the family. We have it too, with our daughter. I do think when people have the effect of poison on you, kin or not, it is best to avoid them. Sometimes poison people cannot be changed. Jackie D. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 19, 2012 Report Share Posted February 19, 2012 Thanks from me as well, Jackie!!! ________________________________  You are exactly right,Jackie. Thanks!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, February 18, 2012 12:21 PM Subject: family dynamics  It is sad when there is turmoil in the family. We have it too, with our daughter. I do think when people have the effect of poison on you, kin or not, it is best to avoid them. Sometimes poison people cannot be changed. Jackie D. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2012 Report Share Posted February 20, 2012 Gloria, Thanks for writing back. I had raised my daughter since she was 4. We are very close. My daughter had many reasons to give up on and turn her back on her mother, but never did. She was abondoned by her at the age of 4 leaving after trashing my daughters beautiful room. Emptying it and scattering clothes on the floor. Not seeing her again for over a year. I felt so bad for her when she went in her room for the first time after her mother left and we got home. Much heavy drama before this and after for Amy to endure. But she continued to reach out to her mom, and in these later years, was at her moms beck and call. Taking her to doctors, always going to er's and hospitals, and there were many many. She was a good daughter to her eventhough her love seemed seldom returned. Her mother was a torchered soul, of her own making.       Dave ________________________________ uch heavy drama To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Sunday, February 19, 2012 11:22 PM Subject: Re: family dynamics  Thanks from me as well, Jackie!!! ________________________________  You are exactly right,Jackie. Thanks!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, February 18, 2012 12:21 PM Subject: family dynamics  It is sad when there is turmoil in the family. We have it too, with our daughter. I do think when people have the effect of poison on you, kin or not, it is best to avoid them. Sometimes poison people cannot be changed. Jackie D. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2012 Report Share Posted February 20, 2012 I can certainly tell where your daughter got her compassion from!! I'm positive that you encouraged her at times, if it was only because, she may not be the best one on the planet; but, she was Amy's Mom. It is always soo sad that the ones that get hurt the most from those family dynamics, are the kids. You know, although I knew it would happen for many years, it didn't help the pain one iota, when my Dave passed and his 2 brats not only ran me down to whomever; but, the outrageous and definitely hurtful obit in the paper!! At least my one and only child, Shon, is definitely a young man to be proud of. He has manners and his behavior is kind and compassionate. When I got the news that my cancer was back so soon, he flew into town the very next evening. Then he got mad at me finally; because, I was saying that if he needed to leave town in order to find a job, I'd be OK. So, we all couldn't be happier that he was offered, not only 1 but 2 jobs in his field. Can you imagine? I thought that ended with the end of the 70's and definitely didn't happen here in the valley. Yup, I'm proud of my kid!! ________________________________  Gloria, Thanks for writing back. I had raised my daughter since she was 4. We are very close. My daughter had many reasons to give up on and turn her back on her mother, but never did. She was abondoned by her at the age of 4 leaving after trashing my daughters beautiful room. Emptying it and scattering clothes on the floor. Not seeing her again for over a year. I felt so bad for her when she went in her room for the first time after her mother left and we got home. Much heavy drama before this and after for Amy to endure. But she continued to reach out to her mom, and in these later years, was at her moms beck and call. Taking her to doctors, always going to er's and hospitals, and there were many many. She was a good daughter to her eventhough her love seemed seldom returned. Her mother was a torchered soul, of her own making.       Dave ________________________________ uch heavy drama To: " livercirrhosissupport " <livercirrhosissupport > Sent: Sunday, February 19, 2012 11:22 PM Subject: Re: family dynamics  Thanks from me as well, Jackie!!! ________________________________  You are exactly right,Jackie. Thanks!                                                                           Love,Jill  We don't remember days, we remember moments. Life is not measured by the breaths we take,but by the moments that take our breath away. ________________________________ To: livercirrhosissupport Sent: Saturday, February 18, 2012 12:21 PM Subject: family dynamics  It is sad when there is turmoil in the family. We have it too, with our daughter. I do think when people have the effect of poison on you, kin or not, it is best to avoid them. Sometimes poison people cannot be changed. Jackie D. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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