My BIL

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I don't know if this is good news or bad but my BIL and niece are

moving out.

He came home last night and out of the clear said he was moving out

today. He said and I got a 2 bedroom 2 bath appartment we

are moving into.

Now today he goes to sign the lease and the price has gone up

$100...and the lady who showed him the place yesterday no longer

works there.

But the rest of the story is that the girl he has been seeing - whom

I highly disapprove of -

She is married - 3 kids - on in diapers the other 2 are either

preteens or just got to be teens.

She is having trouble with her marriage and tells Rodger all this

stuff. has stayed over at her house so some of it might be

true.

Anyway, she is bringing her daughter with her and the baby...

They are gone today to sign the lease and her husband shows up here

looking for her...I told him she wasn't here. He says where is she -

I said I don't know that they left a while ago.

Then they come back and I tell her he was here. She gets up and

leaves to go and see her kids - hasn't seen them in 2 days -

She tells Rodger that she is going to see a lawyer on Monday but

doesn't know when she can get a divorce as it is so expensive...

I told him a long time ago that there are certain rules that I live

by...

The commandments are some of those rules. I told him that I didn't

like him going after another man's wife...no matter what she has

told him...they are still married.

Anyway, he knows I disapprove as does his Brother and now he is

getting this apartment.

2 bedrooms for 3 adults and 2 young children. will go from

having her own room to sharing with these 2 youngsters.

Plus....get this - they have NO FURNITURE.

I talked to Jay and he is with me...we don't have extra furniture

for him to take from our house and my extra TV is just that our

extra TV in case our TV breaks. I don't mean to be cruel but we

saved up our money to buy our things and he hasn't saved at all over

the past year that he has lived with us and I don't feel that we

should be the ones enabling him.

He is 43 years old and should have learned a long time ago. He

again went to their step-dad and borrowed the money to pay for the

apartment...

Pop won't help any of the rest of us but sure helps Rodger all the

time. Oh well...

That is my week in a nut shell.

I know one thing there will be a lot less stress around here. I

won't have to worry about him or ... The house will stay

clean and the food Jay and I buy will be in the refridgerator when

we want it.

One stresser gone but is this a good thing. He is family and both

Jay and I think he is making a big mistake. I will pray for him but

he is making his own bed.

God bless,

Althea