Jealous

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Becky dear, I just had to write you on this subject. What you are feeling is

normal when you are not visually the person you were. Try to remember, though,

you are still the same girl he chose to be with and I am sure it was not just

because the way you looked. Jealousy can be very destructive and your talking

about this incident can only upset you and annoy him. You have to remember that

times have changed and both sexes are more open about kissing and hugging

co-workers. I know my hubby felt uncomfortable and probably didn't;too have much

fun at my company events and how could he? When you work with people closely as

I did for 30 years, you do form a strong bond and I couldn't tell you how many

pictures I have of myself and my employees sharing a hug and a kiss. I also

travelled a lot and always with male employees but in the end, I always came

home to him.

You are feeling insecure and this happens when we are unhappy with who we are

now. Please drop the subject and don't bring it up again. These flirty young

girls are having fun and it means nothing to them but am sure it does wonders

for your hubby's ego and you can't fault him for that. Instead, try using a

little psychology and start with telling him about what you admire in him once

in a while.

Just a week ago I was having a conversation with a friend and I mentioned what a

wonderful husband Don is and how much he does for me. The following day Don told

me he was blown away by my saying this because he had never heard these words

come out of my mouth before.

Please, Becky, jealousy is an ugly thing, get it out of your vocabulary and go

back to being the same Becky you were because you are still the same person

inside and this is all that really counts.

Sorry to be so long winded but 52 yrs of marriage has taught me a few things

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Hugs

June